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PennEd

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Understood ed..thats why I TOO warned joe early on (again..read my posts) but when is enough enough? Joe TOLD everyone "enough" but people didnt listen n look whats happened..is THIS the outcome everyone was looking for? I DOUBT it..

Soo..again..PLEASE read my begining posts to Joe...
I hear you Jewel, but think about this. If Joe can't handle a little advice and criticism on a Christian site, on a thread HE CREATED, how on Earth is his psyche going to handle getting eaten up by a heartless deceiver?
 

Jewel5712

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You haven't harassed anyone, including Joe.
Its not important what WE feel but Joe obviously was not happy to the point he left..(it should matters what HE feels) and he made it clear n why..
 

seoulsearch

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AMEN seoul..sweetly and thoughtfully said:)
Thank you, Jewel.

I have no doubt that there are probably others who are following this thread and giving their money away to men and/or women who claim to look like Playboy/GQ models, or who are thinking about it.

I truly hope this thread will inspire them to gather up the strength to ask God to help them pull away from whatever it is that's keeping them in this situation.
 

PennEd

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I hear you Jewel, but think about this. If Joe can't handle a little advice and criticism on a Christian site, on a thread HE CREATED, how on Earth is his psyche going to handle getting eaten up by a heartless deceiver?
Ooh! Perfect time for a thread derail! I see 7seas here. Been meaning to tell you I'm sorry for the not so nice post to you a couple of weeks ago. You didn't deserve that.
 

Jewel5712

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I hear you Jewel, but think about this. If Joe can't handle a little advice and criticism on a Christian site, on a thread HE CREATED, how on Earth is his psyche going to handle getting eaten up by a heartless deceiver?
Ed..i agree..heartache can be terrible..but so can accumulative pressure by others..n obviously joe couldnt handle that so again..what POSITIVE did it accomplish? Drove him back to her arms..backfire!

And..if joe knew that hed get all this when e started the thread..dont think he wouldve ever done it..
 
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7seasrekeyed

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Its not important what WE feel but Joe obviously was not happy to the point he left..(it should matters what HE feels) and he made it clear n why..
I don't think you get it

the entire reason people posted the warnings was BECAUSE they care what Joe thinks and feels

Joe didn't leave (if he has) because people here made him feel bad
 

Jewel5712

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Thank you, Jewel.

I have no doubt that there are probably others who are following this thread and giving their money away to men and/or women who claim to look like Playboy/GQ models, or who are thinking about it.

I truly hope this thread will inspire them to gather up the strength to ask God to help them pull away from whatever it is that's keeping them in this situation.
YES! ;) Theres certainly ones on here i think i could trust if i had a big problem n others i would avoid like the plague (tommy) lol
 
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7seasrekeyed

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Ooh! Perfect time for a thread derail! I see 7seas here. Been meaning to tell you I'm sorry for the not so nice post to you a couple of weeks ago. You didn't deserve that.

I know you are. it's ok. hugs.
 

Jewel5712

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I don't think you get it

the entire reason people posted the warnings was BECAUSE they care what Joe thinks and feels

Joe didn't leave (if he has) because people here made him feel bad
If he felt terrific..he wouldnt say he was leaving..did you READ joes post? Wouldnt say he was happy..
 

Jewel5712

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I don't think you get it

the entire reason people posted the warnings was BECAUSE they care what Joe thinks and feels

Joe didn't leave (if he has) because people here made him feel bad
This is not a post from a happy guy

"i showed her what I posted here and I think it's best I delete my account here because I can't keeping giving people ammunition to hurt me and hurt or cause doubts I'm especially upset with Tommy I read your post of that I "shouldn't reproduced" that's not funny and I have lost all respect for you every post has been lately just ripping on us that's not "Christian behavior" goodbye everyone."
 
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7seasrekeyed

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If he felt terrific..he wouldnt say he was leaving..did you READ joes post? Wouldnt say he was happy..
Jewel..

I have read the thread from beginning to end. I have counselled a good number of people and helped them with what is referred to as biblical counselling

I have also read your posts
 
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7seasrekeyed

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This is not a post from a happy guy

"i showed her what I posted here and I think it's best I delete my account here because I can't keeping giving people ammunition to hurt me and hurt or cause doubts I'm especially upset with Tommy I read your post of that I "shouldn't reproduced" that's not funny and I have lost all respect for you every post has been lately just ripping on us that's not "Christian behavior" goodbye everyone."
not getting into it with you. you don't listen either. way too many lol's going on and nothing is funny here

don't project what you think on me.

prob insulting you, don't mean to
 
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7seasrekeyed

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YES! ;) Theres certainly ones on here i think i could trust if i had a big problem n others i would avoid like the plague (tommy) lol
I would listen to Tommy. experience tops feelings every time

further, when you have enough experience, you pay attention when certain feelings start

my dad was in law enforcement and he had the best advice and plenty of experience

you don't want others to get hurt and you get angry when you see it play out and there is nothing you can do
 

Jewel5712

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not getting into it with you. you don't listen either. way too many lol's going on and nothing is funny here

don't project what you think on me.

prob insulting you, don't mean to
No insult..i feel bad for Joe as well..not easy watching people you care about making wrong choices..believe me..i get it..i have 4 kids/adults...STILL hurts when i see them bout to go off a cliff..i can advise..love and pray for them..but at some point..gotta let Go n let God..God loves them more than i ever could...
 
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7seasrekeyed

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No insult..i feel bad for Joe as well..not easy watching people you care about making wrong choices..believe me..i get it..i have 4 kids/adults...STILL hurts when i see them bout to go off a cliff..i can advise..love and pray for them..but at some point..gotta let Go n let God..God loves them more than i ever could...
ok

there be monsters in this world. hugs
 

Jewel5712

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I would listen to Tommy. experience tops feelings every time

further, when you have enough experience, you pay attention when certain feelings start

my dad was in law enforcement and he had the best advice and plenty of experience

you don't want others to get hurt and you get angry when you see it play out and there is nothing you can do
Tommy needs a better bedside manner dispite his experience..tact goes a LONG way in ANY profession or relationship..lol (im still learning n just for $19.99 i can get the NEXT book) lol
 

melita916

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So... what had happen was....

Joe, if you’re still here, did you show her what you said or what everybody said?
 

Janna38

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Scams don’t last i’ve seen joseph as smart .....wait for it****

How am i doing tommy? Is this the smartest thing to say?
 

Janna38

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So... what had happen was....

Joe, if you’re still here, did you show her what you said or what everybody said?
I really was gonna say : bring the gdgirlfriend over here but i wasn’t sure.
 

WineRose

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Wow, and I thought the comment section of my comeback thread was chaotic enough...

Farewell, Joe. Please stay safe.
 
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