I Don't Like Men

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Butterflyyy

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How dare you be all logical and intelligent. Don't you know you are supposed to emot' all over this thread.
Lol
Micah 6:8
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good ; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God
 
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7seasrekeyed

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btw, if a new lady member doesn't see the ladies forum yet, you can contact a moderator. i don't know what the rule is as far as how long you should be a member first before having access to that specific forum.

the truth is we all disappoint others, and they will disappointed us.

thing is, she knows this and was informed way back at the beginning

prob good to mention it again though
 

Butterflyyy

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Maybe a RETURN to the ALTAR OF PRAYER is needed!

What we GIVE to Him;He helps us with.
Yes that's exactly what you need, a return to the altar of prayer.... James 5:16.
Jesus commanded us to love one another😔
 
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7seasrekeyed

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How dare you be all logical and intelligent. Don't you know you are supposed to emot' all over this thread.
Lol

you would think, right?

but I have counselled (biblical counselling) women and I know how it can go

sure some folks are way off the beaten path here...but the op still has a sense of humor but is acting in a very childish way

some people only want to help in order to be right...sadly the family forum does bring out the little helpers who don't have a clue what they are talking about

if the op was as incensed as she proposes, she would have left the thread a long time ago and that is what people who are genuine do when they are swarmed by helpful people who hurt them in ignorance or even in self righteousness

why I suggested she go for proper counselling if she actually wishes to sort things out
 

VineyardsOfEngedi

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And I'm still oblivious as to what I did to cause so much hostility? lol But im not surprised. lol And people are still assuming. I have not attacked anyone, this is so funny.
 
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7seasrekeyed

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Not Godly bro she's suicidal you don't want that on your conscience you should be loving and praying here trust me x

I'm not your bro

if she is suicidal she needs to call a helpline or one of the mods should intervene instead of all the amateurs dinking around with her

she is not on my conscience and never will be

how do you know who is or who is not praying?

if she is suicidal, NO ONE here should be playing around with it

capiche? prayer is not the bandaid here if she needs physical help

there comes a time when people have to actually DO something
 
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7seasrekeyed

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The back and forth between the posters is getting toxic in this thread. Why don’t y’all just stop addressing each other?

everyone should stop posting

obviously there is communication beyond this thread

I have no way of knowing and neither does anyone else, if the op is actually suicidal

as that is the case, the fun and games should stop and a mod should intervene

it isn't the place for amateur hour if things are that serious

I have asked for a mod to intervene...I pray someone does

at the very least this thread should be shut down and the rest of us, myself included, should shut up
 

Butterflyyy

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I'm not your bro

if she is suicidal she needs to call a helpline or one of the mods should intervene instead of all the amateurs dinking around with her

she is not on my conscience and never will be

how do you know who is or who is not praying?

if she is suicidal, NO ONE here should be playing around with it

capiche? prayer is not the bandaid here if she needs physical help

there comes a time when people have to actually DO something
You are my brother if you belong to Christ. Why so rude?😞

And prayer is vital.
And it is preferable to all the hard-hearted ridicule I have seen on this thread.
I am not suggesting you are not praying I am exhorting us all to pray so nothing wrong with that
You have a point with someone doing something to help but you can't be sure that the support of other christians on here isn't making a difference.
Dear me why can't you be kind??
 
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Locoponydirtman

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you would think, right?

but I have counselled (biblical counselling) women and I know how it can go

sure some folks are way off the beaten path here...but the op still has a sense of humor but is acting in a very childish way

some people only want to help in order to be right...sadly the family forum does bring out the little helpers who don't have a clue what they are talking about

if the op was as incensed as she proposes, she would have left the thread a long time ago and that is what people who are genuine do when they are swarmed by helpful people who hurt them in ignorance or even in self righteousness

why I suggested she go for proper counselling if she actually wishes to sort things out
A funny thing about counseling; you can't cancel one person about what someone else should be doing. You can only counsel a person about how to deal with themselves.
 

Butterflyyy

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everyone should stop posting

obviously there is communication beyond this thread

I have no way of knowing and neither does anyone else, if the op is actually suicidal

as that is the case, the fun and games should stop and a mod should intervene

it isn't the place for amateur hour if things are that serious

I have asked for a mod to intervene...I pray someone does

at the very least this thread should be shut down and the rest of us, myself included, should shut up
Thank you
 

VineyardsOfEngedi

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everyone should stop posting

obviously there is communication beyond this thread

I have no way of knowing and neither does anyone else, if the op is actually suicidal

as that is the case, the fun and games should stop and a mod should intervene

it isn't the place for amateur hour if things are that serious

I have asked for a mod to intervene...I pray someone does

at the very least this thread should be shut down and the rest of us, myself included, should shut up
lol you clearly did not read all my posts. And there is no communication outside this thread. But I have stated it elsewhere.
 

VineyardsOfEngedi

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And now I don't want the thread deleted but you all can stop posting to it and let it die. Thank you.
 
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7seasrekeyed

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A funny thing about counseling; you can't cancel one person about what someone else should be doing. You can only counsel a person about how to deal with themselves.
other people can cause a multitude of problems for another and I know all about that

but you are right

in the end, whether or not we like it, we still have to deal with the results of those things

forgiveness does not mean you like the sin...but you must forgive and that is often a process

but I really think this thread should come to an end

life is real off the boards even though it can seem so 2 dimensional on them
 
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Locoponydirtman

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everyone should stop posting

obviously there is communication beyond this thread

I have no way of knowing and neither does anyone else, if the op is actually suicidal

as that is the case, the fun and games should stop and a mod should intervene

it isn't the place for amateur hour if things are that serious

I have asked for a mod to intervene...I pray someone does

at the very least this thread should be shut down and the rest of us, myself included, should shut up
She has red x'd all of miss butterfly's, speculation of abuse, and mental health issues, and even suicidal tendencies.
Maybe she is just red x happy.
 
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Locoponydirtman

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other people can cause a multitude of problems for another and I know all about that

but you are right

in the end, whether or not we like it, we still have to deal with the results of those things

forgiveness does not mean you like the sin...but you must forgive and that is often a process

but I really think this thread should come to an end

life is real off the boards even though it can seem so 2 dimensional on them
Agreed, I'd rather talk bush craft and black powder shooting right now anyway
 
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7seasrekeyed

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She has red x'd all of miss butterfly's, speculation of abuse, and mental health issues, and even suicidal tendencies.
Maybe she is just red x happy.

you would think that would clue folks in

someone is coloring on the walls with crayons

Agreed, I'd rather talk bush craft and black powder shooting right now anyway
bush craft? black powder shooting? no idea LOL!

start a thread in misc and we can all become informed

outta here now!