Tragic loss

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1ofthem

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#41
Gee, what part of "bye" don't you get?
I tried to leave this thread but you just keep pulling me back in here.........
Yeah, this is not the place for what you did. Let's have some respect for others please... Thanks:)
 

Encouragement

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#42
Gee, what part of "bye" don't you get?
I tried to leave this thread but you just keep pulling me back in here.........
listen if you wanna leave then leave..in fact i wouldn't say bye to you but instead say a massive "HELLO🤷‍♀️"(As in wake up and see how theres nothing wrong in having a different point of view..yet the manner in which such a view is expressed in of equal importance too."
 

PennEd

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#43
Gee, what part of "bye" don't you get?
I tried to leave this thread but you just keep pulling me back in here.........
Can you please describe the gunman who is forcing you to reply when people react to your incredible judging and sickness?

We can alert the authorities to come right over and help you.

We wouldn’t want anything to happen to such a graceful sweet lady like yourself.
 
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suzzyQ

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#44
theres nothing wrong in having a different point of view..yet the manner in which such a view is expressed in of equal importance too."
then why do you 2 keep dragging it on?
I said what I had to say, I even stated:
Lord. please forgive me if I'm wrong.
and said "bye" to ya'll here.......
and yet SOME people wanna follow me around in other threads and drag things on and on........
talk about distasteful and disrespectful:rolleyes:
 

Encouragement

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#45
Gee, what part of "bye" don't you get?
I tried to leave this thread but you just keep pulling me back in here.........
hmmmmm...
with such a strong reaction from you regarding what you think is true of this guys thread...it makes wander if somethings triggered a degree of anger in you coz what you 1st read in his thread before he altered the word wives to lives actually mirrors something thats happened in your own life?
 
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suzzyQ

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#46
hmmmmm...
with such a strong reaction from you regarding what you think is true of this guys thread...it makes wander if somethings triggered a degree of anger in you coz what you 1st read in his thread before he altered the word wives to lives actually mirrors something thats happened in your own life?
see.....
dragging things on......
you wanna go there?
lets open another thread and go there!
Ya'll are hypocrites....
wanna jump all over me for voicing an opinion and yet you're the ones who keep coming back to this thread and dragging this out
AND going into other threads dragging it out.

I've said all I had to say on it and yet all you hypocrites keep going on and on.

The only thing that has triggered any possible anger in me is seeing how all you hypocrites keep on with this, keep following and harassing me.

Now I think I've figured out how to turn the notifications off and leave this thread so when all you hypocrites reply I (hopefully) wont see it anymore.
 

melita916

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#47
So... anywho.

Dude, I’m sorry for your loss. My husband and I prayed for you this morning. May the Lord continue to comfort you, your family, and friends.
 

SoulWeaver

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#48
um, I REALLY want to give my consolement here....

BUT as I read on I saw this



I read this the other day right after it first posted and it had the word WIVES NOT LIVES .........
"He was an amazing young man who touched a lot of people's wives"

ugh, that's so sickening.

Um, my dad was a marine, and my brother is a cop. I've heard this thrown around as a bad joke more times than I can count........
so if I'm wrong then I'm sorry and will ask forgiveness BUT if I'm right and this is someones sick idea of a joke and looking for attention, then everyone here who has replied has just been played and someone is sitting there laughing at how gullible you are.......

Like seriously! WHO would celebrate during their mourning the fact that their deceased loved one was known for something like "touching a lot of peoples WIVES"????
that's just sick!!!

and this is coming from someone who admits to butting heads with people ,or from what I've seen, it's more like someone who tries to stir up trouble.......
sorry, but I seriously question this.

Lord. please forgive me if I'm wrong.
If you have an accusation but can't prove it, you shouldn't speak like it's a fact. Babbling and casually asking God to forgive you if you're wrong. That will heap up a lot of trouble on your head. Our words have consequences and travel further once released, climb on your roof and cut up a feather pillow. Then try and gather all the feathers.
 

Encouragement

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#49
see.....
dragging things on......
you wanna go there?
lets open another thread and go there!
Ya'll are hypocrites....
wanna jump all over me for voicing an opinion and yet you're the ones who keep coming back to this thread and dragging this out
AND going into other threads dragging it out.

I've said all I had to say on it and yet all you hypocrites keep going on and on.

The only thing that has triggered any possible anger in me is seeing how all you hypocrites keep on with this, keep following and harassing me.

Now I think I've figured out how to turn the notifications off and leave this thread so when all you hypocrites reply I (hopefully) wont see it anymore.
All I can say is..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
 

Roughsoul1991

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#52
um, I REALLY want to give my consolement here....

BUT as I read on I saw this



I read this the other day right after it first posted and it had the word WIVES NOT LIVES .........
"He was an amazing young man who touched a lot of people's wives"

ugh, that's so sickening.

Um, my dad was a marine, and my brother is a cop. I've heard this thrown around as a bad joke more times than I can count........
so if I'm wrong then I'm sorry and will ask forgiveness BUT if I'm right and this is someones sick idea of a joke and looking for attention, then everyone here who has replied has just been played and someone is sitting there laughing at how gullible you are.......

Like seriously! WHO would celebrate during their mourning the fact that their deceased loved one was known for something like "touching a lot of peoples WIVES"????
that's just sick!!!

and this is coming from someone who admits to butting heads with people ,or from what I've seen, it's more like someone who tries to stir up trouble.......
sorry, but I seriously question this.

Lord. please forgive me if I'm wrong.
like someone who tries to stir up trouble.......
Maybe take your own words and understand this isn't fruitful but actually disgusting. You respond over a possible typo which I still doubt because I saw this thread posted early on and I saw "lives".
 

melita916

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#53
I saw the thread the same day it was posted. By the time I got to it, the spelling was correct.
 

tourist

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#54
um, I REALLY want to give my consolement here....

BUT as I read on I saw this



I read this the other day right after it first posted and it had the word WIVES NOT LIVES .........
"He was an amazing young man who touched a lot of people's wives"

ugh, that's so sickening.

Um, my dad was a marine, and my brother is a cop. I've heard this thrown around as a bad joke more times than I can count........
so if I'm wrong then I'm sorry and will ask forgiveness BUT if I'm right and this is someones sick idea of a joke and looking for attention, then everyone here who has replied has just been played and someone is sitting there laughing at how gullible you are.......

Like seriously! WHO would celebrate during their mourning the fact that their deceased loved one was known for something like "touching a lot of peoples WIVES"????
that's just sick!!!

and this is coming from someone who admits to butting heads with people ,or from what I've seen, it's more like someone who tries to stir up trouble.......
sorry, but I seriously question this.

Lord. please forgive me if I'm wrong.
You are most definitely in the wrong, as that was obviously a typo and you should have immediately realized this but chose not to. What was really sickening was your callous reply to a dad who is grieving the tragic lost of his son. Yes, your reply was just sick. Like seriously!
 

Dude653

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#55
um, I REALLY want to give my consolement here....

BUT as I read on I saw this



I read this the other day right after it first posted and it had the word WIVES NOT LIVES .........
"He was an amazing young man who touched a lot of people's wives"

ugh, that's so sickening.

Um, my dad was a marine, and my brother is a cop. I've heard this thrown around as a bad joke more times than I can count........
so if I'm wrong then I'm sorry and will ask forgiveness BUT if I'm right and this is someones sick idea of a joke and looking for attention, then everyone here who has replied has just been played and someone is sitting there laughing at how gullible you are.......

Like seriously! WHO would celebrate during their mourning the fact that their deceased loved one was known for something like "touching a lot of peoples WIVES"????
that's just sick!!!

and this is coming from someone who admits to butting heads with people ,or from what I've seen, it's more like someone who tries to stir up trouble.......
sorry, but I seriously question this.

Lord. please forgive me if I'm wrong.
Troll harder
 

Dude653

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#56
Today we laid my son to rest. It was a brief service, maybe 15 minutes because that's what Willie had requested
the man who officiated the service was one of Willie's teachers in high school
He told a story about how when they would serve Pop-Tarts for breakfast at school, this particular teacher would collect pop tarts from people who didn't want them and hoard them in his desk because he loved Pop-Tart so much
so he came in one day around Christmas and Willie had two boxes of chocolate Pop-Tarts wrapped up with a bow
It may seem like something trivial but it just shows what a big heart Willie had
 

Lighthearted

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#57
Today we laid my son to rest. It was a brief service, maybe 15 minutes because that's what Willie had requested
the man who officiated the service was one of Willie's teachers in high school
He told a story about how when they would serve Pop-Tarts for breakfast at school, this particular teacher would collect pop tarts from people who didn't want them and hoard them in his desk because he loved Pop-Tart so much
so he came in one day around Christmas and Willie had two boxes of chocolate Pop-Tarts wrapped up with a bow
It may seem like something trivial but it just shows what a big heart Willie had
We love you Dude.
 

Lighthearted

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#58
Dude, I hope you don't mind, but I feel led to post something here about the reactions to SuzzyQ. I can only imagine that this is a hard time for you.
I'm not arguing our actions to defend our brother and friend Dude. We know him from time in chat rooms and forums. This person does not.

Obviously Suzzy must be going through some horrible stuff right now too. Very seldom have I ever heard someone be so disrespectful especially to someone they don't know. However, let us remember to turn the other cheek like most of us do when things get heated around here. I came to CC when I had been through the most difficult 10 years of my life. I needed all of you. Your posts, your prayers, your encouragement...and always, laughter. We don't know how she was led here to CC...but God works in mysterious ways. He uses this place on the www...and we can be His disciples.
Just saying...
 

tourist

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#59
Dude, I hope you don't mind, but I feel led to post something here about the reactions to SuzzyQ. I can only imagine that this is a hard time for you.
I'm not arguing our actions to defend our brother and friend Dude. We know him from time in chat rooms and forums. This person does not.

Obviously Suzzy must be going through some horrible stuff right now too. Very seldom have I ever heard someone be so disrespectful especially to someone they don't know. However, let us remember to turn the other cheek like most of us do when things get heated around here. I came to CC when I had been through the most difficult 10 years of my life. I needed all of you. Your posts, your prayers, your encouragement...and always, laughter. We don't know how she was led here to CC...but God works in mysterious ways. He uses this place on the www...and we can be His disciples.
Just saying...
Actually, Suzzy is going through a horrible ordeal herself and is obviously in severe emotional pain and unbearable stress. I too feel very sad for Dude and the tragic loss of his son. Poor guy lost his wife a year or two ago too and now this. I believe that God leads people to this site for a reason and that we each have our own story that is worth telling. Before I joined I was a complete wreck and apparently you have traveled down a rough stretch of road as well. The important thing is that we are family here. Yes, we have the occasional squabble but for the most part genuinely care about each other.
 

Dude653

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#60
It never said wives
She's lying and I have reported her to admin
imagine having that much hatred in your heart that you would attack a man who just lost his son