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Y’know, to talk and stuff.
 
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23 views and no one has responded? I'm open to any conversation concerning what is on your mind.
A little bit of everything… that’s normal tho, right?
Of course it's normal. Everyone at some point in their lives starts questioning what is going on with life. Anything in particular you want to talk about?
 

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Of course it's normal. Everyone at some point in their lives starts questioning what is going on with life. Anything in particular you want to talk about?
Sorry about the late response, I may or may not’ve been tired 😅

I guess the fact that it’s sorta difficult to find a compadre like because they sometimes don’t seem genuine or they forget certain aspects about yourself or when they vent you feel what makes them exhausted is what makes you you. ‘This why I’m mostly antisocial, I guess.
 
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Hi Nom. If you don't mind telling me, what is your age? I'm 72 and a retired math teacher. I know that is old compared to you, so all that I can do is relate to you my transformation that has occurred throughout my years. I promise to be honest with you and not try to feed you stuff that you can't relate to. As a youth I was pathetic, ignorant of life, cowardly, very lustful, shy with females, and antisocial except with a few close friends who were just as messed up as me.
 

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Hi Nom. If you don't mind telling me, what is your age? I'm 72 and a retired math teacher. I know that is old compared to you, so all that I can do is relate to you my transformation that has occurred throughout my years. I promise to be honest with you and not try to feed you stuff that you can't relate to. As a youth I was pathetic, ignorant of life, cowardly, very lustful, shy with females, and antisocial except with a few close friends who were just as messed up as me.
Again, I apologize for the late response - my mom and I were working on the pool. I’d rather not say my age, but I am in my teens. 72’s not bad! I’m friends with a lotta adults since I’m introduced to them by my parent since I can’t get along with the other kids. I can relate to the lustful thing, unfortunately… Thank you for reaching out 😊
 
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Again, I apologize for the late response - my mom and I were working on the pool. I’d rather not say my age, but I am in my teens. 72’s not bad! I’m friends with a lotta adults since I’m introduced to them by my parent since I can’t get along with the other kids. I can relate to the lustful thing, unfortunately… Thank you for reaching out 😊
So, are you involved in sports or hobbies or reading the Bible?
 

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I’m sorta athletic and I like to do lotsa artsy stuff (i.e coding & drawing). I don’t read the Bible as much as I did before, though.
 
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Why did you read the Bible before? What sports do you participate in and which ones do you watch?
 
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I feel like I'm giving you the third degree. You may ask questions as well.
 

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Ah, you’re fine. I guess I read to delve more into this ideology of ours. I don’t really participate nor spectate sports, but I have a lot of energy. What are some of your hobbies? What’s your family like?
 
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I used to go to a non-denominational Christian Church for Bible study, worship, and the Lord's Supper. They had the men's breakfast and Bible study on Saturday where different scriptures and topics were discussed after eating a breakfast prepared by some of the brothers. When I asked to discuss a certain topic which was on my mind, they said that it was too controversial and opposing parties get too heated up. They refused to discuss it, so I decided to really get down and do my own research. What I found out in my research is astounding. I thank God for opening my eyes and understanding. I am presently gathering scripture and writing them down organizing them according to the different messages that God wants to relay but people are not getting or understanding the picture.

I golf twice a week. I used to play racketball for years and was quite good at it. My claim to fame is the time that I played the number 1 seeded female player in my state and beat her. Eventually, I gave up racketball because with age, my stamina and fire for the game decreased considerably. I have a piano and am learning to play it on my own. I am at the point where I can play most simple songs but not smoothly or fast. The joy for me is deciphering the chords and notes and the fingering. I don't play for people but for myself. About 10 years ago I was taking classical guitar lessons. I took them for 3 years , loved practicing, but had to give it up because my left pinky got swollen because of missing cartilage and I was not able to bend it and press the strings. That is why I switched to piano. I tutor occasionally, for free. This year I tutored my granddaughter's friend who was taking AP Calculus in high school , one of my son's friend's daughter who was struggling with math ( 6th grade), and a 2nd grade teacher weak in math who had to take a math test to get recertified. I love people and enjoy helping when I can.

I am divorced, have two children ( a 37 year old son and a 40 year old daughter) and a granddaughter who will be 19 years old on August 19. I mommysit 3 times a week from 10 AM to 7 PM. My mother is 91 years old and can not take care of herself, so my 4 sisters and I take turns taking care of her.

I am going to take a breather and let you open up. Remember that no one knows who you are and it's OK to be open. Just be yourself.
 
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I just had an idea. Why don't you click on my orange icon with a " C" in it and check out some of my posts. That will help you get an idea of who I am.
 

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Well it’s just me and my mom (and two dogs). I have four older siblings that are about the country, cousins here and there. Currently I’m working on a social networking app that’s quite exciting 😄 and taking self-lessons on music via a DAW. I doodle with a mouse but I’m hoping to earn a stylus. I’m a gamer with my Mac, my Switch and I (though I get exercise from cycling, dance and yoga). Nerdy, I am 👓 That’s about it, though… not much of a speech person.
 
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If you are looking for companionship, you should join a club where there is interaction between members. My son lives with me and is a recording engineer and music producer working at home. He works with a lot of talented artists. I used to be into art (drawing and a little painting). I was quite good in capturing realism but I felt I lacked creativity and so I eventually gave it up. Besides, I was a perfectionist and it would take me months to finish a picture. I have a painting hanging in my sister's house and another painting at my mother's house. My current focus is the Bible, golf, and music.

I would like to suggest that since you are not much of a speech person, you practice your communication skills with me. Also, since this is a Christian Chat Forum, maybe you can relate some of your thoughts on the Bible. As far as I'm concerned, a healthy mind and heart starts with the right understanding of what God wants us to know from His word.
 

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Wonderful! I just hope that you know that my messages are concise and that I read your messages thoroughly 😁 I’ve actually been here before, but that was last year. I was tryna reach this one person before but they’re not responding… their last pickup of activity was around March. So, now I’m tryna start again.
 
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@Nom hey if you need a friend I'd be happy to chat with you! I don't know how old you are but I'm 15 so we might be able to relate to each other easier.
 

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@Nom hey if you need a friend I'd be happy to chat with you! I don't know how old you are but I'm 15 so we might be able to relate to each other easier.
Ah, okay! I’m about that age. You can call me Christian (it’s literally my name xD).
 

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So um, describe yourself! As if you’re making a debut to an anime and the over-speaker’s spilling your profile.