Is there a chance to find a partner at my age of 42

No, but it does explain a LOT about your posts.

ok.....

You're going to make me explain it...

Since we know you are an incel, we are now aware of your basic set of assumptions on which you operate. You assume you are cursed by fate. You assume women always choose a man based on materialistic or advancement potential values. You assume a woman is lying if she says anything that contradicts your assumptions. You assume a man is playing along with what he thinks a woman wants if he says anything that contradicts your assumptions.

Basically there's nothing we can do for you because you won't believe a word we say. But you sure need help because you think everything is against you.

Good luck with life.

Curious, how would you define an "ugly" guy?

Generally speaking, both men and women are drawn towards people whom they consider attractive. Thankfully beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A lot goes into what is considered attractive, such as personality, confidence, intelligence, and to a degree looks. It is the whole package.

id consider myself part of the community i have like 50k posts on .is, does forced loneliness and involuntary celibacy devalue anything i said?

Actually, it does. This is a Christian forum. The majority of the members here have at least a basic Biblical/Christian worldview. The incel worldview is not based on rightly dividing (correctly handling) the word of truth per 2 Tim 2:15. The incel worldview is rooted in emotions like anger, violence, verbally abusive language and etc.

Anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.
James 1:19-20

The incel worldview is at odds with the Biblical/Christian worldview.

Whining isn't sexy. Do something constructive. If you can't get women oh well. Go do something with your life that makes you happy.

P.S. this goes to self labeled ugly guy not the original poster of the thread

quote me next time and any personality trait isnt sexy, i have a life i do alot of things throughout my day.

the "incel worldview" is something made up by IT users and the media, incels are apolitical aemotional etc, its not a view on the world its just digging deeper into why women tend to be extremely picky and that will leave out low tier men.
some but not all are fine with being virgins or are fine towards women.
so what's your point i am a virgin man so i cant be here ?

Here's one.

https://christianchat.com/christian...he-best-way-to-go-about-meeting-a-man.202145/

id consider myself part of the community i have like 50k posts on .is, does forced loneliness and involuntary celibacy devalue anything i said?

NO chance at all. None. Zip. Sometimes you just have to face the facts! lol O.k., I'm kidding.

I think Rush Limbaugh said it best, life begins at age 40. By age 40, you know who you are, and you are probably not gonna change to much at this age from a personality perspective. Also, you probably a little better off financially speaking, than compared to where you were at in your 20's.

The bigger question is, why do want a partner? You have gotten this far without one, so why risk your financial, emotional, and mental well being for a sake of a relationship? Marriage has about 50% divorce rate, when woman typically start 80% of the divorces. Things to think about.

One last bit, if you do start a relationship with a woman in her child bearing age, she will most likely want to start a family, so I hope you are ready to have far less personal time, freedom, and disposable money, if that is the case.

With all that said, the best of luck to you in your que$t of a partner.

I am sure you can still find someone to marry... 42 is still young for me...you look confident (though u said you are shy) no vices, working and quite a decent looking man.

And There's one I noticed lol you said you are a romantic soul 😅 I feel like many women will love that ☺


So, in my opinion you will and you can still find a decent woman. I am 100.05 % sure about it 👍

The incel worldview is not something merely made up by IT users and the media. The incel worldview is being researched by psychologists, Dept. of Homeland Security and institutions of higher learning like Florida State University and Georgia State University.

Source:
https://news.gsu.edu/2019/06/26/fed...o-growing-male-supremacist-subculture-online/

https://news.fsu.edu/news/2021/10/1...terrorism-with-an-eye-on-violence-prevention/

Incels are not a-emotional. A-emotional is not a word. Spell checker doesn't even recognize it. Humans (male and female) are emotional beings because that is the way God designed us. There are plenty of examples of that in the Bible.

Incels are emotional. One of the primary characteristics of the incel worldview is anger. I mentioned that before. The Bible has a whole lot to say about the pitfalls of anger. I may list some of those verses later.

I do not determine your ability to be on this forum. That is not up me. The CC moderators determine who can or cannot be a member of this forum based on what they post.

To be clear ...
I am not responding to you in an attempt to change your mind or worldview. That's God's business. You will not change my mind about incels either.

I am responding in order to raise awareness about incels and the homeland security/national security threat that incels pose. Some here may not be aware.

Engineer who likes automation...

Got a backup generator for if the power goes out? Or are you more into solar power? Just nerd-curious.

Hey man it all comes down to looks and that's about it if you have had a hard time getting girls when you were younger then the chances look very very slim, contrary to the popular opinion personality,confidence and other invisible traits mean nothing to women. I understand how you feel i am an adult and I've never even had a kiss due to my extremely poor looks. I doubt you are as bad off as me but id try the real world rather than online even though they are the same shyness is a death sentence in dating try get over it i am a shy guy too its hard but you have to really really try.

But in my opinion women are a bit of a distraction most of them are whores with kids with absent fathers, and they themselves are riddled with mental illness.

I'm going to ask a question somebody else asked you, but you never answered: Why are you here?

Your first post was a pity party. Poor me, I can't get a girl because all women are too materialistic and I'm too ugly.

When we didn't buy that, because we know women who are much better than you think they are, you spent a lot of time defending your assumptions about women.

Right now this is a time suck for you. You're not going to get a lot of people here to agree with you about any of the things you have said so far.

So why are you here?

i am not here for anyone to agree with me i understand no one wants to exposed to reality, i saw a thread then i posted that's it i can tell you guys are quite nasty and just all around asses, so ill go i know where i am not wanted and one of you probably a foid will cry to the mods about me.