Don't let anger break me please

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luvingnana

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Jul 26, 2017
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So awhile back i posted about my grandkids father starting a new family and leaving the kids he lives with. well today is usually the day he spends with his kids but he never came home because this morning he called to tell me he was at hospital with his girlfriend she was having the baby now and if i could be the one to tell his kids about her and that he was having a baby, first off I guess I shouldn't be surprised he didn't have the balls to do it himself but he acts so high and mighty and like he's tough but couldn't tell his kids the truth. he had texted one of them to ask about a game on his phone but couldn't step up and do the right thing. I'm hurt and his kids will now see what they really mean to him, I hate that part, my daughter also is hurt. I don't feel he was right to go off and start another family when he still hadn't done right by the family he already had. But he's happy and his words where "if God didn't want him to leave his kids and start a new family he would have never let it happen". I don't know how I feel about that.
 

Magenta

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Jul 3, 2015
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It should be so easy for anyone with eyes to see that everything men (and women) choose to do is NOT the express will of God. God does allow people to make choices in their lives, and those choices all have consequences. Your son in law has made some choices in his life that will impact many people, most of all his children and their care givers. I hope for your grandchildren's sake, and that of you and your daughter as well, that he is able to have some positive stabilizing influence on his children, that he is able to show them that they are loved, even if he is not as present as he used to be, and I will pray to that end, and that you may have peace, and your daughter support, in the raising of her children. Children are a blessing. They need to know they are loved no matter what, and that his choices are not their fault.

 

levi85

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Lord please take control of everything and bless luvingnana and this prayer. Lord we together pray, please bless this prayer. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 

88

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So awhile back i posted about my grandkids father starting a new family and leaving the kids he lives with. well today is usually the day he spends with his kids but he never came home because this morning he called to tell me he was at hospital with his girlfriend she was having the baby now and if i could be the one to tell his kids about her and that he was having a baby, first off I guess I shouldn't be surprised he didn't have the balls to do it himself but he acts so high and mighty and like he's tough but couldn't tell his kids the truth. he had texted one of them to ask about a game on his phone but couldn't step up and do the right thing. I'm hurt and his kids will now see what they really mean to him, I hate that part, my daughter also is hurt. I don't feel he was right to go off and start another family when he still hadn't done right by the family he already had. But he's happy and his words where "if God didn't want him to leave his kids and start a new family he would have never let it happen". I don't know how I feel about that.
***(praying)***sounds like he doesn't have a clue***continue to pray for him that he will see the light and do the right thing...
 

slave

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Mar 20, 2015
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Hello luvingnana - Indeed this is time for prayer, personal and collective support. I will pray for you in my times of prayer. You said you weren't sure how you felt about all this, yet you are moved by it, that is obvious. Continue to let God have all of you, so that His rest, His peace, and His enlightenment will build you up in Him to face another day in this situation. What is He saying to you?

[h=1](Psalm 139:23): ...English Standard Version (ESV)[/h] Search me, O God, and know my heart!
Try me and know my thoughts!




 

oldethennew

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Feb 28, 2016
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So awhile back i posted about my grandkids father starting a new family and leaving the kids he lives with. well today is usually the day he spends with his kids but he never came home because this morning he called to tell me he was at hospital with his girlfriend she was having the baby now and if i could be the one to tell his kids about her and that he was having a baby, first off I guess I shouldn't be surprised he didn't have the balls to do it himself but he acts so high and mighty and like he's tough but couldn't tell his kids the truth. he had texted one of them to ask about a game on his phone but couldn't step up and do the right thing. I'm hurt and his kids will now see what they really mean to him, I hate that part, my daughter also is hurt. I don't feel he was right to go off and start another family when he still hadn't done right by the family he already had. But he's happy and his words where "if God didn't want him to leave his kids and start a new family he would have never let it happen". I don't know how I feel about that.
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He's a liar!

no one could be 'happy' after doing what he has and is doing...try and move forward
each day into your new lives with the assurance that Christ is walking beside of you all,
He is The One Who really cares about all of you...Trust in His Grace to guide you on
the right path...GBY
 

joefizz

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Apr 23, 2017
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So awhile back i posted about my grandkids father starting a new family and leaving the kids he lives with. well today is usually the day he spends with his kids but he never came home because this morning he called to tell me he was at hospital with his girlfriend she was having the baby now and if i could be the one to tell his kids about her and that he was having a baby, first off I guess I shouldn't be surprised he didn't have the balls to do it himself but he acts so high and mighty and like he's tough but couldn't tell his kids the truth. he had texted one of them to ask about a game on his phone but couldn't step up and do the right thing. I'm hurt and his kids will now see what they really mean to him, I hate that part, my daughter also is hurt. I don't feel he was right to go off and start another family when he still hadn't done right by the family he already had. But he's happy and his words where "if God didn't want him to leave his kids and start a new family he would have never let it happen". I don't know how I feel about that.
this is exactly why me and my biological father are split from each other as caring father and son,because as I was raised by his brother and his brother's wife,he just up and got a "fake"family(Filipino family)not wanting any responsibility for his "Only" child,he just up and moved in with the wife of his dead friend's and it in the end led nowhere now he lives here with me,my aunt,and,uncle,and he's miserable and spiteful,and that is all your grand kid's father is headed for misery and spitefulness because if he couldn't love his first "Real" family then how will he love his "fake" family?
he won't plain and simple but I'll pray for the all around situation for God to "wake him up" from his "foolishness"....
Father God I pray unto you to comfort,luvingnana,in her time of hurt with her grand kid's father being uncaring and selfish when his "original" children should be "Top" priority in his life,a birth is a grand blessing but not caring for those already born is still wrong for if he cannot look his own "original" children in the eyes then he knows he does wrong and can't face his wrongs,please intervene with this individual because he desires to move forward without looking back but he undoubtedly will keep tripping because he has sought not to take care of his "original"children,so please God open his eyes more so for the sake of the children because they have done nothing to deserve being"ignored" and comfort the children for they are surely in need of support through this tough time,in Jesus's holy name I humbly pray,AMEN.
 

Zachary24

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Jul 26, 2017
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I have prayed that the father of your grandchildren will realize what he is doing and be the father he should be to all of his children. God Bless you.