I CANT MOVE ON

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GEORGIE

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I lost a good girlfriend and now shes got a boyfriend im in L.A shes in Az. I became such a bother that she blocked my cell phone, i tried not to contact her but i wanted to know about her. I know for sure she did not blocked my cell phone because of me she blocked it out of respect to her boyfriend. I feel crushed and i really need to move on, we both lost our virginity with each other because we thought we where going to be forever(which i know was totally wrong). Im really hurting, she was my whole existance. please pray for me
 

pickles

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Apr 20, 2009
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I will pray for you. God bless, pickles
 
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ilavjesus

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#3
keep yourself busy until you have no time to think of her...play your favorite games...
ask God's gorgiveness and draw near to him...lots of prayer and even fasting for truly repentanceand he will cleanse you...
ill pray for you...
 
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GEORGIE

Guest
#4
tears came to my eyes just like your thoughts came to my hart thank you i will focus.
 
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md27

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#5
You are in my prayers.
 
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Leilaii425

Guest
#6
yes you can move on, just ignore it. She's moved on apparently, no sense in sittin around moaping about it.
 

MdNordlicht

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Feb 19, 2009
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I will pray for you. I guess it is good to talk to someone about it and to think this situation through. But after you thought it through and came to a conclusion don't let your thoughts revolve about your problem further and further. It only drags one down but doesn't solve the problem. Focussing on other things can certainly help as well as praying for the right view and for peace of mind about the situation. But I think it is not good to try to just ignore your feelings and bottle up the whole grief.
 
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Pineapple

Guest
#8
This must hurt a whole lot. Hang in there man, i'll be praying for you. :)
 
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Paws4Jesus

Guest
#9
I feel for you and I know where you are coming from. What you could do is to tell yourself that there IS SOMEONE out there for you that God has planned, that will Love all of that pain away, mend your heart with their kindness and gentleness, they will soothe your soul with their trust and loving words and if you are too busy focused on the past, how will you EVER find her? Focus now on being the best YOU can be for your sake and to show God you have Faith that He is working for you and with you. I know, it sounds a LOT harder than it is, I have been there. But the truth is that there IS someone that is out there for you, perhaps someone that is hurting right now themselves, and needs YOU to be strong when you DO meet. Have faith in God, and in yourself, pray and keep busy as another person said. Oh and go new places, make new friends, things you can associate with the NEW YOU, and you will no longer have those painful 'reminders' of that other person. Best of luck, my prayers are with you.