IN NEED OF PRAYER MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN CHEATING ON ME 25 DAYS AFTER OUR MARRIAGE

  • Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.

    If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!

    To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.

GERIGIRL

Junior Member
Nov 9, 2017
4
0
0
#1
NY NAME IS GERIGIRL I GOT MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND ON NOVEMBER 19 2016 AFTER 1 YEAR OF DATEING WE WERE MARRIED I BEEN BORN AGAIN CHRISTEN EVERY SINCE 1994 MY HUSBAND IS A NEW CHRISTEN 25 DAYS INTO OUR MARRIAGE HE STARTED CHEATING ON ME WITH THIS HOME LESS WOMAN HE MET WHERE HE WAS EMPLOYED HE HAS DISRESPECTED ME WITH THIS WOMAN BROUGHT HER TO OUR HOME SNEAKED HER IN AND HAD SEX WITH HER WHILE I WAS SLEEPING GAVE HER A KEY WHILE I WAS AT WORK TO SHOWER AND LAY AROUND THE HOUSE WHILE I WAS AT WORK WE ARE NOW SEPERATED AS OF NOV 03 I AM PRAYING FOR HIM TO LEAVE THIS WOMAN ALONG OR I AM FILING FOR A DIVORCE I NEED YOU ALL TO PRAY WITH ME THANK YOU ALL
 

Tinuviel

Senior Member
Jun 6, 2015
4,738
240
63
#2
I am so sorry you had to go through this :(. I will pray for you!

(p.s. You may not want to use ALL CAPITALS when you are writing messages, it is viewed as a virtual shout, and is difficult to read :). God bless!)
 

GERIGIRL

Junior Member
Nov 9, 2017
4
0
0
#3
Thank you for your prayers GOD Bless
 

blue_ladybug

Senior Member
Feb 21, 2014
62,369
1,331
113
#4
Why did you put up with this nonsense for so long? I would've kicked him AND his side dish out on their butts a LONG time ago..
 

GERIGIRL

Junior Member
Nov 9, 2017
4
0
0
#5
Why did you put up with this nonsense for so long? I would've kicked him AND his side dish out on their butts a LONG time ago..
I LOVED HIM AND PRAYED THAT HE WOULD CHANGED
 

Lighthearted

Senior Member
Oct 17, 2016
1,013
68
48
#6
I LOVED HIM AND PRAYED THAT HE WOULD CHANGED
I understand this all too well.
I will pray for you sister for God to help you make the right choice in this situation.
My husband of over twenty years consistently cheated on me as well. I prayed and hoped he would change. He even had a child with another woman during our marriage. I held on to hope because I don't believe in divorce. I thought love could conquer anything, but I finally realized that only God's love conquers ALL. God doesn't expect us to be doormats.
I felt broken for a long time, but truth is, I was not walking in God's will when I married him, and so we were unequally yoked from the start.
It's hard for people to change when they don't want to. Cheating once, a spouse could turn the other cheek and forgive, but if the behavior continues, which it usually does, it's certainly grounds for dissolution or divorce.
I lost so many of my younger years looking over my shoulder and crying myself to sleep. Looking back, it wasn't worth trying to hold on to...but at least I gave it all I had.
 

Lighthearted

Senior Member
Oct 17, 2016
1,013
68
48
#7
No matter how much he says he will leave her alone and won't ever cheat again, your relationship is poisoned. You will be looking over your shoulder, you will doubt his honesty, it will slowly eat away at you. Sad, but very true. It's no way to live.
This is why God tells us not to commit adultry. It destroys lives.
I'm so sorry.
 
P

pckts

Guest
#8
If he leaves this homeless woman, there will certainly be more in the future. If this if all things tempts him to sin and violate his young marriage, more opportunities will cause him to sin in the future. So I wouldn't remain married unless he changes on the inside as well, and I think there is little hope for this person.

Does your marriage coincide with the two of you living together and spending more time together? I imagine he was cheating when you were dating as well, and you just are more aware of what he is doing with his time now.
 

Lighthearted

Senior Member
Oct 17, 2016
1,013
68
48
#9
2 Corinthians 1:2-7
 
Last edited:

levi85

Senior Member
Jul 2, 2013
5,961
199
63
#10
Lord bless Gerigirl. In Jesus name Amen!
 

littlestarsmum

Senior Member
Oct 19, 2016
583
30
28
#11
I’m so sorry to hear about your situation, Gerigirl. My heart ached as I read your post, and I wish I could give you a hug. I know it’s not easy to go through infidelity and realize how difficult and devastating it must be for you. I just said a prayer for you, asking God to surround you with His comfort and to bring healing and hope to your marriage. Have you considered talking with a counselor? A caring professional might be able to give you some solid guidance. I know it’s not easy right now, but stay strong. Hugs!
 

Bebe11

Junior Member
Oct 30, 2016
17
0
0
#12
You said your husband is a new Christian. Would he consider going to talk with your pastor at Church? I think it is important for him to get counsel on being a new Christian and how his relationship with this woman is unacceptable. I just said a prayer for your husband and your marriage...and that you will have the wisdom to know what to do.