Excellent comments, HomerLes! I was also raised by a family member with what we think is BPD (this individual would die before they allowed themselves to be psychiatrically assessed).
In addition to Elijah House (whom I have had counsellor training from and found them very good) and the books by the founders: the Sandfords, I recommend the book, Life Model: Living From the Heart Jesus Gave You,
lifemodel.org becomses lifemodelworks.org. I also recommend the secular book, [COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.87)]
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