Hi Lynn and everyone, After waiting in the doctors waiting room for nearly an hour Rods name was finally called on screen. Rod was very agitated and poorly, but thank God I saw the nurse I wanted to see called Karen. She has referred Rod to the palliative care nurses and explained carefully to Rod that having them will speed things up if he needs any help with the stent he had fitted. We don't know for sure what is causing he peeing issues at night. Poor Rod hadn't slept in weeks at night due to getting up every hour to pee. But I'm so relieved He's finally agreed to have the palliative nurses sort it all out. It's just like an angel has come down and taken care of care of Rod my husband. I was talking to my cousin the other day and he said his wife's dad went abit nasty whilst he was poorly before he died, it's like a independence thing, and this explains Rods behaviour towards me. Yes I admit he was difficult and even hurt my arm, but I guess his brain wasn't right. I hope Lynn and blue_ladybug are sees this, it's just out of respect I wanted to share what's going on. So hopefully we won't be waiting to long for the nurses to come. Prayers all the way. God bless you all. X