UNLOVED & DISRESPECTED

I been married for 16 years. Like a typical woman, a dream of a wonderful life with my husband. We are blessed with two wonderful kids (14 and 12). We tried to live a normal life but I know things are not right. My husband doesn't take of us. He gave money but never really spend quality time with us. I tried to reach out, tried to find out what is wrong with me, with our relationship, with our life but my husband never open up. He said everything is ok. He enjoys hanging out with his friends. I was shock when i found out that everytime he go to his province he'll bring along a girlfriend. He hides his money, and his plans from me. I talked to him about our issues - his lies, his girlfriend, how hurt i am, our kids feelings. I beg for his love and for his attention. I eat all my pride just to keep our family together but he is won't change. He said he only loves us but i said why is he giving me all this pain. He said I was just jealous and unreasonable.

All i want is a husband who will take care of me and my kids. Someone I can trust. A husband who love and respect me. I am not perfect neither - i have my share of mistakes but it is because i need attention. I want him to notice me....I am not an object, I have needs. I need to be loved and cared for.

Please pray for me...I know we will be separated soon.. but maybe it is for the better....i am crushed but i know i have to be strong for my kids...it will not be easy but i pray to God for help.

Let go don,t drag your self through the mud ,Your husband has made up his mind so you are hurting only yourself, you won't find your happiness through him and your children see your pain and might blame themselves,My ex did this over and overand the fifth time when he finely left me for one something in me snaped. I moved town and my children and I started a new life ,it shocked him, I was sick of put downs,and sick of crying ect..... You are better than this you and your children need to stop living in lies and deception and its good that your children see that you put the bar up higher and stop being a door mat......Draw all your strength from your father rest in him ,he knows your needs and your children need to know where you gain your athoritie from ,while they are young be a witness for them ,show them by example ,and let go your husband you are both on two diferent paths just trust Jesus and God bless you I will prey for you, angel-rose.

Thank you so much for the encouraging words. i must admit i am still a bit scarry of raising my kids all by myself but i know i have to for their sake. Yeah, you are correct, my husband and i are on different pages of a book. God will help. If He feeds the birds, He will surely help me too.

I will definetly be praying for you! God has someone out there for you. . .he loves and respects you and will always take care of you! Remember we are worth more than many sparrows! I will be praying for your husband as well. . .that he might see how he has hurt you and come closer to God and you