Husband moved out a week ago, after an ugly fight.
With God’s grace, we arranged to meet peacefully last night with our 13-year-old son. We confessed that we have handled ourselves badly. We also prayed together as a family before me and husband hugged and prayed for each other. Husband is still staying out.
I used to pray for husband’s repentance and to come home. However, last night, I realised husband is remorseful but he did not offer to stop contacting the other woman (she lives overseas) nor ask to reconcile. He admitted that he was a wretched man and he deserves to die. He cried and said he doesn’t want to break up the family. It seems he knows he is wrong but would rather be punished than change.
Husband has always been close to God. He serves in church and wakes up early to do his bible studies. We also read the bible and do daily devotion as a family every night.
Up till now I have not approached my pastors for help as I do not want to hurt my husband. I am also looking out for another church - how do I go to my church alone when we have been attending it as a family for almost 20 years?
Husband has said he will be asking to step down from his duty in church as it is not right even though he will still help out.
I see God’s wisdom in this arrangement. With the peace that He has given me, I realised that it is not just the affair that is causing the separation - the woman is not even staying in the same country! There are issues that me and my husband have to work on.
So now everyday as I wake up to another round of emptiness, I look to God and wonder “what do I pray for now?”
With God’s grace, we arranged to meet peacefully last night with our 13-year-old son. We confessed that we have handled ourselves badly. We also prayed together as a family before me and husband hugged and prayed for each other. Husband is still staying out.
I used to pray for husband’s repentance and to come home. However, last night, I realised husband is remorseful but he did not offer to stop contacting the other woman (she lives overseas) nor ask to reconcile. He admitted that he was a wretched man and he deserves to die. He cried and said he doesn’t want to break up the family. It seems he knows he is wrong but would rather be punished than change.
Husband has always been close to God. He serves in church and wakes up early to do his bible studies. We also read the bible and do daily devotion as a family every night.
Up till now I have not approached my pastors for help as I do not want to hurt my husband. I am also looking out for another church - how do I go to my church alone when we have been attending it as a family for almost 20 years?
Husband has said he will be asking to step down from his duty in church as it is not right even though he will still help out.
I see God’s wisdom in this arrangement. With the peace that He has given me, I realised that it is not just the affair that is causing the separation - the woman is not even staying in the same country! There are issues that me and my husband have to work on.
So now everyday as I wake up to another round of emptiness, I look to God and wonder “what do I pray for now?”