Younger sibling and family

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Kite

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I guess today wasn't really a good day for my mom. She got mad at my younger sibling, and she got mad at me as well. The moment my dad left to go somewhere, my mom suddenly starts saying stuff like how she needs time away from us, and how we never listen to her, and that she wished she was single, never married, and didn't have any kids. And my mom left us for the evening, I guess.
Unfortunately, what she says about the not listening part is true; I don't listen to her as much as I should ( i forget a lot of the times). But it hurts, because it's like saying that she never wanted us. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't say the same thing about my older sister, but yeah... please keep my family in prayer.
 
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NewLight90

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I can tell yu as a new parent sometimes I feel my life would be diffrent if I didn't hav a kid. But no matter what I love my daughter she is my bigest blessing and if you feel your mom doesn't love you think about this.... 9 mnths of pregnancy hours in Labor and all she wants is respect, that's so little she askes for all she's done. I understand I'm only 18 and my mom would compare me to my sisters an now that I'm in her shoes I see.. I see wat she has to go threw imagine you were her especially with mulitple kids. Saying those things is wrong on your moms half but I keep you and your family in my prayers talk to your mom maybe theas more going on maybe you can help her GodBless
 
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Kite

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Thank you very much. Heh, there's always stuff out there that won't click with your head until someone else tells you.
 
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Sorry you went thr that. You know she loves you. Forgive her. She's a human. Humans can only take so much. Give her a break and be good. Parents need love just like you need love. God bless you all. Love
 

pickles

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Sometimes parents will say things they shouldnt. Usually because it was said to them as a child and they dont know any different. I know it hurts. Try to forgive your mom and pray for her. Im sure she truelly loves you but does not realize what she is doing. Never forget, How much Jesus love you and delights in you. Like you quote says He loves you this much, then spead his arms on the cross. Things were said to me also as a child and it can be hard sometimes. But it would be a great mistake to beleave those things and allow it to bring anger, sorrow or bitter feelings. It took me awhile to realize how wonderful I am in Gods eyes. Dont let the sad things rob you of the love and joy God has for you. I will keep all of you in my prayers. Huge hugs and God bless, pickles
 
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Kite

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Thank you very much. It's better now, so thank you for all your prayers and advice. =)
 

Sharp

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Good to hear Kite!