I never understood why we have to punish the babies in these cases. to take away their right to life is wrong, being conceived in rape or incest doesn't make them rapists or incestuous. they deserve the chance to make themselves into something better than their parents. If the mother doesn't want the baby, there are plenty of people trying to and wanting to adopt and if she wants to give up the child confidentially, there are Safe Baby Haven laws in many states allowing for that, no questions, no shaming. If she wants to keep the baby there are pregnancy help centers and helplines and groups and individuals helping people in these cases.