When I got saved, I chose to do it...it was my decision when I did it. I was young when I did, but I did it because I was 100% sure I wanted to ask Jesus to be in my life. Now when you're saved, God plays a huge part in your life...He does a lot in your life when you're saved. Though, we mess up and sometimes we might even avoid going God's way. But at the end of the day, God never gave up on us. He just patiently waits for us to come back and say "Ok, ok, I messed up...please forgive me!!" and repent.
See, the whole problem I have about God "electing" us is, if He Himself has "elected" us and we're secured for going to Heaven, it just seems to me we can do whatever we want. No accountability, no worrying about if we're saved or not...just do whatever because you're going where you're going in the end.
Also, the whole thing just seems one-sided. There's no relationship. And that is what is supposed to make Christianity different. We don't have a dead god that we just believe in. We have a God that's involved in our lives, and jealous for us, and loves us. And He WANTS to hear from us, and He WANTS to have a relationship with us. And THAT'S why I believe God freely gives out salvation. Because He WANTS us to turn back to Him. He does NOT take pleasure in the death of the wicked (unsaved).
Ezekiel 3:18-19
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
18 When I say to the wicked, ‘You will surely die,’ and you do not warn him or speak out to warn the wicked from his wicked way that he may live, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity, but his blood I will require at your hand. 19 Yet if you have warned the wicked and he does not turn from his wickedness or from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered yourself.
Ezekiel 18:21-23
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
21 “But if the wicked man turns from all his sins which he has committed and observes all My statutes and practices justice and righteousness, he shall surely live; he shall not die. 22 All his transgressions which he has committed will not be remembered against him; because of his righteousness which he has practiced, he will live. 23 Do I have any pleasure in the death of the wicked,” declares the Lord GOD, "rather than that he should turn from his ways and live?
Ezekiel 33:10-16
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
10 “Now as for you, son of man, say to the house of Israel, ‘Thus you have spoken, saying, “Surely our transgressions and our sins are upon us, and we are rotting away in them; how then can we survive?”’ 11 Say to them, ‘As I live!’ declares the Lord GOD, ‘I take no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but rather that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn back, turn back from your evil ways! Why then will you die, O house of Israel?’ 12 And you, son of man, say to your fellow citizens, ‘The righteousness of a righteous man will not deliver him in the day of his transgression, and as for the wickedness of the wicked, he will not stumble because of it in the day when he turns from his wickedness; whereas a righteous man will not be able to live by his righteousness on the day when he commits sin.’ 13 When I say to the righteous he will surely live, and he so trusts in his righteousness that he commits iniquity, none of his righteous deeds will be remembered; but in that same iniquity of his which he has committed he will die. 14 But when I say to the wicked, ‘You will surely die,’ and he turns from his sin and practices justice and righteousness, 15 if a wicked man restores a pledge, pays back what he has taken by robbery, walks by the statutes which ensure life without committing iniquity, he shall surely live; he shall not die. 16 None of his sins that he has committed will be remembered against him. He has practiced justice and righteousness; he shall surely live.