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Confused37

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I would like to reconnect with my ex-boyfriend on facebook (we were friends first). I heard that he had deaths in the family and I felt compassion for him and the family. I tried to reach out by sending him a message, but he didn't respond to me. It's been a over a year since I reached out, so I sent him another message. He still won't respond. What should I think? Do you think he doesn't want anything to do with me or something else. He works as a waiter at a restaurant, so he's working with the public daily. I'm not sure what to think or do.
 
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Ugly

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This is not confusing at all. You've made attempts to contact him, which he has not responded to. He doesn't want you in his life. If he was interested in having you back in his life, he would have answered. It's really very simple to figure out and i'm not sure where the confusion is coming in. Move on before your behavior becomes creepy, because continued efforts to get in contact with him will make you look worse and worse.
 
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MyPottersClay

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I think you could have been truthful without the rawness. Ma'am if you gave it your best effort and he hasn't responded then you should take that care and love you have and not waste it. You will find someone (God willing) who will be more than happy to receive it faster than you can whip it up. So starting today we will drive looking through the windshield and not the rear view mirror because you might just drive by Mr. Right. GB
 
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Confused37

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MyPottersClay said:
I think you could have been truthful without the rawness. Ma'am if you gave it your best effort and he hasn't responded then you should take that care and love you have and not waste it. You will find someone (God willing) who will be more than happy to receive it faster than you can whip it up. So starting today we will drive looking through the windshield and not the rear view mirror because you might just drive by Mr. Right. GB
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Thank you for your understanding. I have been feeling "beat up" lately by secular sites. In any case, I was watching a minister on TV who was talking about men and how they communicate non-verbally mostly. This struck me hard. I realized that was most likely my answer. I was getting a very loud "non-verbal" rejection from my ex. Although it hurts, I gave the situation to God and am trusting that He will take care of him (the ex), and heal my hurt, too. Thank you.
 
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Rockeey

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Confused37, I think he would have responded if he was interested. But I also believe there's a reason for it. I believe God has a better plan for you. I'm sorry you are hurting but I think that God knows how awesome you are and he has someone planned for you. I remember my first broken heart and every broken heart since. I am blessed to have a awesome husband now. I wouldn't have wanted it to turn out any other way. It seemed he took forever to get here but it was worth each broken heart to get to him. I know God has a plan and that could be why he didn't respond. The Lord has something else in mind for you. God bless you sister:)
 
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