Lord I prayer that this lady will be brought to an end of herself and that in
desperation she will cry out to you and seek permanent help.
Lord set her free from this addiction and the root of it, thank you that you are a God of second,
third, forth etc chances. Strengthen Dudymus also and give him the wisdom to deal with this.
Show him what to do I ask.
Didymus, my brother was an alcoholic, the booze took him to deaths door before he
got clean. Literally he was in a coma for 3 weeks due to the damage the drinking did
to his body. I prayer that your wife won't need to go that far, she will need to
get desperate though, desperate for change. Desperate to find a new way of doing life etc.
Sometimes (and I don't know your situation) it needs a real wake up call with the threat of
losing everything. Sometimes it needs a spouse to say let's have a bit of a break from
each other. I'm not talking about divorce, I just mean that the other person needs to see
how much their drinking is affecting not only them, but also the people they love, before
they some to their senses.
Alcoholics tend to become very selfish and they will lean heavily on others as it enables them
to continue to drink without taking any responsibility for their actions, sometimes you have to
force them to take responsibility and take away their leaning post.
God bless and I pray for the eyes and mind of your wife to be opened.