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Brief synopsis to catch you up in case you haven't read my previous posts:
Husband had cheated total of 6 times. Last one was whill I had surgery and recovering. He has been gone almost 5 weeks now. This last two weeks he has been coming once or twice a week to fix car, treat lawn, bring stuff for his cat. Fyi, he is staying with his mom and can't have cat.
He has already told me he doesn't want to work on our marriage and will sign papers. He hasn't said anything during these visits to make me believe he has changed his mind about that. I haven't changed my mind either. I don't deserve to keep going through this.
So, my original quesrion... Why do I feel guilty letting him come and help? I still can't work from surgery and I have no income so I am thankful he is sending money and buying some things we need and doing physical stuff I can't do but I feel guilt. Why??? I am not giving him hope thst we are getting back together. Ugh!!!!!
Husband had cheated total of 6 times. Last one was whill I had surgery and recovering. He has been gone almost 5 weeks now. This last two weeks he has been coming once or twice a week to fix car, treat lawn, bring stuff for his cat. Fyi, he is staying with his mom and can't have cat.
He has already told me he doesn't want to work on our marriage and will sign papers. He hasn't said anything during these visits to make me believe he has changed his mind about that. I haven't changed my mind either. I don't deserve to keep going through this.
So, my original quesrion... Why do I feel guilty letting him come and help? I still can't work from surgery and I have no income so I am thankful he is sending money and buying some things we need and doing physical stuff I can't do but I feel guilt. Why??? I am not giving him hope thst we are getting back together. Ugh!!!!!