I am up to here with negative attitudes in Christians

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"Your posts are, very often, quite accusatory and you do not offer any remedy."

The remedy is Jesus and His love, applied to the heart, sorting out the distortions and miss-understanding.

Accusatory? I am shocked about the heresy and sheer stupidity of some preachers who claim so much in terms of creative authority to bring things into being yet in reality deliver nothing but words.

For some they see these preachers with no humbleness, just condemnation of their opponents who quite rightly see this arrogance and do not understand how a simple gospel of love has become a gospel of self justification, I can command my dreams into reality.

To those christians who think love is a small thing, something without significance or change, it is eternal and the one thing that drove Jesus to the cross. It is the foundation up which our hope is built, it is what we sing about everyday, and ask the Lord to be gracious to us because He loves. It is the well spring of our lives.

To those who feel this is empty and hollow, you have shut out Jesus from your heart and do not know the Kingdom of God. It is like night and day.

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8


We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death. 1 John 3:14


Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 1 John 4:7

Now to those who are scared and lost and do not see beauty and warmth from these words, there is hope for you, you have shut out your parents, held hurts and bitterness against them, and kept the well spring of love hidden within. You need to learn how to forgive like Jesus forgave you, and then the love will flow within.
 
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"Your posts are, very often, quite accusatory and you do not offer any remedy."

The remedy is Jesus and His love, applied to the heart, sorting out the distortions and miss-understanding.

Accusatory? I am shocked about the heresy and sheer stupidity of some preachers who claim so much in terms of creative authority to bring things into being yet in reality deliver nothing but words.

For some they see these preachers with no humbleness, just condemnation of their opponents who quite rightly see this arrogance and do not understand how a simple gospel of love has become a gospel of self justification, I can command my dreams into reality.

To those christians who think love is a small thing, something without significance or change, it is eternal and the one thing that drove Jesus to the cross. It is the foundation up which our hope is built, it is what we sing about everyday, and ask the Lord to be gracious to us because He loves. It is the well spring of our lives.

To those who feel this is empty and hollow, you have shut out Jesus from your heart and do not know the Kingdom of God. It is like night and day.

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8


We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death. 1 John 3:14


Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 1 John 4:7

Now to those who are scared and lost and do not see beauty and warmth from these words, there is hope for you, you have shut out your parents, held hurts and bitterness against them, and kept the well spring of love hidden within. You need to learn how to forgive like Jesus forgave you, and then the love will flow within.
This is the cause.

13 But woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye shut up the kingdom of heaven against men: for ye neither go in yourselves, neither suffer ye them that are entering to go in.
15 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye compass sea and land to make one proselyte, and when he is made, ye make him twofold more the child of hell than yourselves.
23 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone.
24 Ye blind guides, which strain at a gnat, and swallow a camel.
25 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye make clean the outside of the cup and of the platter, but within they are full of extortion and excess.
26 Thou blind Pharisee, cleanse first that which is within the cup and platter, that the outside of them may be clean also.
27 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye are like unto whited sepulchres, which indeed appear beautiful outward, but are within full of dead men's bones, and of all uncleanness.
28 Even so ye also outwardly appear righteous unto men, but within ye are full of hypocrisy and iniquity.
31 Wherefore ye be witnesses unto yourselves, that ye are the children of them which killed the prophets.
32 Fill ye up then the measure of your fathers.
33 Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell?
34 Wherefore, behold, I send unto you prophets, and wise men, and scribes: and some of them ye shall kill and crucify; and some of them shall ye scourge in your synagogues, and persecute them from city to city:
36 Verily I say unto you, All these things shall come upon this generation.

John 8:44-49
44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.
45 And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not.
46 Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I say the truth, why do ye not believe me?
47 He that is of God heareth God's words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God.
48 Then answered the Jews, and said unto him, Say we not well that thou art a Samaritan, and hast a devil?
49 Jesus answered, I have not a devil; but I honour my Father, and ye do dishonour me.
 

prove-all

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there be

Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;



7For a bishop must be blameless, as the steward of God; not selfwilled,
not soon angry, not given to wine, no striker, not given to filthy lucre;


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But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy, temperate;


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Holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught, that he may be able
by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the gainsayers.

 
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"Your posts are, very often, quite accusatory and you do not offer any remedy."

The remedy is Jesus and His love, applied to the heart, sorting out the distortions and miss-understanding.

Accusatory? I am shocked about the heresy and sheer stupidity of some preachers who claim so much in terms of creative authority to bring things into being yet in reality deliver nothing but words.

For some they see these preachers with no humbleness, just condemnation of their opponents who quite rightly see this arrogance and do not understand how a simple gospel of love has become a gospel of self justification, I can command my dreams into reality.

To those christians who think love is a small thing, something without significance or change, it is eternal and the one thing that drove Jesus to the cross. It is the foundation up which our hope is built, it is what we sing about everyday, and ask the Lord to be gracious to us because He loves. It is the well spring of our lives.

To those who feel this is empty and hollow, you have shut out Jesus from your heart and do not know the Kingdom of God. It is like night and day.

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8


We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death. 1 John 3:14


Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 1 John 4:7

Now to those who are scared and lost and do not see beauty and warmth from these words, there is hope for you, you have shut out your parents, held hurts and bitterness against them, and kept the well spring of love hidden within. You need to learn how to forgive like Jesus forgave you, and then the love will flow within.
Real Christians strive to be like Jesus Christ - what you are describing is a state of being a "professing christian" - one who has not truly accepted the gift of salvation but says he/she is a Christian. The proof is the fruit of the Spirit is totally missing from their attitudes and demeanor. But here in cc, they follow certain other people around so they can quickly jump on any post they make and accuse them of heresy and such. They can't see that every time they do that, those with even a small amount of wisdom can see that they are proving over and over that they are the ones pushing false doctrine and should not be listened to.
 
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oh hellooooo

it seems to be popular around here these days to quote me and start a thread with said quote

I need to correct something though

Accusatory? I am shocked about the heresy and sheer stupidity of some preachers who claim so much in terms of creative authority to bring things into being yet in reality deliver nothing but words.

I'm not a preacher

Peter, your posts are generally very introspective and I don't know if it is the rather damp climate you live in, or if you have not had victory over sins?

either way, we can look to Christ or we can try to piece together our life in a fashion we think we understand but we shall never get it right

as for the rest of your post, love is the biggest and not the smallest thing

you have misquoted me on a number of occasions, but in this case, you have written a short essay that has less than nothing to do with how I think, what I think, who I am or how I live
 
Feb 24, 2015
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you have misquoted me on a number of occasions, but in this case, you have written a short essay that has less than nothing to do with how I think, what I think, who I am or how I live
I am sorry if you find my approach difficult. I find it interesting to take an idea and explore the meaning and its different implications. I am not reading in what you personally meant by the phrases but how they come across to me, and then I am responding just to the idea, which does represent a position many would take. It is a way of expanding an idea, it is not meant as anything agressive or pointed.

I got to laugh - "your posts are generally very introspective"

Is this a bad thing? I do not think either way, all I do is express an idea.

Amen, that love is the biggest thing. So sister we are in agreement, I could kiss you, praise the Lord.

Just to say, I do not know how you think, what you think, who you are or how you live. Should I so I can say things in just the right way for you? I am sure that is actually impossible, I can only share as the Lord gives me words, so I apologise if I have upset you, unless ofcourse it is the contents of the gospel that is upsetting, which I can do nothing about.

One thing I have learnt over my life, it is always better to share and then get feedback, than stay silent and assume we all agree. We grow by sharing, learning from each other, and adjusting the words so we might encourage each other the more.

By the way if you make a quote, be ready for it to be miss-quoted because whatever we say, it will be understood in ways we did not expect or even intend, that is just part of public speaking.
 

MarcR

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The thread looked interesting; but seems to be a continuation of a private war; so I will go elsewhere.
 

PennEd

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"Your posts are, very often, quite accusatory and you do not offer any remedy."

The remedy is Jesus and His love, applied to the heart, sorting out the distortions and miss-understanding.

Accusatory? I am shocked about the heresy and sheer stupidity of some preachers who claim so much in terms of creative authority to bring things into being yet in reality deliver nothing but words.

For some they see these preachers with no humbleness, just condemnation of their opponents who quite rightly see this arrogance and do not understand how a simple gospel of love has become a gospel of self justification, I can command my dreams into reality.

To those christians who think love is a small thing, something without significance or change, it is eternal and the one thing that drove Jesus to the cross. It is the foundation up which our hope is built, it is what we sing about everyday, and ask the Lord to be gracious to us because He loves. It is the well spring of our lives.

To those who feel this is empty and hollow, you have shut out Jesus from your heart and do not know the Kingdom of God. It is like night and day.

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8


We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death. 1 John 3:14


Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 1 John 4:7

Now to those who are scared and lost and do not see beauty and warmth from these words, there is hope for you, you have shut out your parents, held hurts and bitterness against them, and kept the well spring of love hidden within. You need to learn how to forgive like Jesus forgave you, and then the love will flow within.
I'm confused as to how starting ANOTHER negative thread accusing brothers and sisters will somehow remove other negative threads and posts. Please let's focus more on building up, loving, and caring for the Body of believers.
 
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Good thread but unfortunately it will make no difference as a few of these threads have been started to try and eliminate the belittling and demeaning attacks made by some with no effect.

The reason being is because these few who still do this on here do not think they are doing anything wrong, and when called out they just ignore and reverse the attention on others to hide their sinful actions.

Then when brought up again here or there by other new members on here who see this bad attitude right away when they join. Those who do this bad behavior quickly jump to defend their sinful actions by trying to justify why they are behaving the way they are towards others to take the attention off of them so that they do not have to admit what they are doing.

I have even seen one brother on here try to hide belittling remarks in soothing words as to act as if he is not doing what he was called out for and then placed on ignore from the other individual for what was said. Then they come back with such unedifying tact's as grow up, don't get so offended, stop whining, and such.

I will no longer have conversations with the few on here who can not bridle their tongues !!!
 
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I'm confused as to how starting ANOTHER negative thread accusing brothers and sisters will somehow remove other negative threads and posts. Please let's focus more on building up, loving, and caring for the Body of believers.
From what I have seen and what has been directed toward me as well as about me when I was apparently not supposed to see it, people don't know how to do that in here...or there is the other possibility which is the spiritual warfare is being won by the adversary of Jesus Christ rather than His children. Pretty sad either way.

Furthermore, just watch and see who starts the controversy. True children of Messiah should be able to bring up any subject and not be attacked by other supposed believers.
 
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Good thread but unfortunately it will make no difference as a few of these threads have been started to try and eliminate the belittling and demeaning attacks made by some with no effect.

The reason being is because these few who still do this on here do not think they are doing anything wrong, and when called out they just ignore and reverse the attention on others to hide their sinful actions.

Then when brought up again here or there by other new members on here who see this bad attitude right away when they join. Those who do this bad behavior quickly jump to defend their sinful actions by trying to justify why they are behaving the way they are towards others to take the attention off of them so that they do not have to admit what they are doing.

I have even seen one brother on here try to hide belittling remarks in soothing words as to act as if he is not doing what he was called out for and then placed on ignore from the other individual for what was said. Then they come back with such unedifying tact's as grow up, don't get so offended, stop whining, and such.

I will no longer have conversations with the few on here who can not bridle their tongues !!!
Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. Romans 16:17

But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes. 2 Timothy 2:23

I wish to God Almighty that the stalkers and dividers were all treated like this. We can quote scripture after scripture, showing their error, and it isn't taken to heart by those that divide, doing the same things day after day with their unwarranted assumptions. I have concluded that it's in purpose, and we have an ignore opportunity.
 
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The thread looked interesting; but seems to be a continuation of a private war; so I will go elsewhere.
Private wars should not exist between true Christians so watch who causes the problems and have nothing to do with them as the Word says.
As I said, a true believer should be able to bring up any subject and not be attacked by others who claim to be believers. Look closely and see who makes the first derogatory remark on threads that are so often called divisive. We are called to teach the whole truth of God and that is not going to set well with the insincere, those who find it entertaining to argue, or those who think they know the right way and everyone else is wrong when they ignore much of God's word and then call names -- like calling me a "roaring lioness' but I guess I wasn't supposed to see that. Yeah, that is Christian love in action, all right.

"Truth is not always popular but it is always true."
 
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True children of Messiah should be able to bring up any subject and not be attacked by other supposed believers.
Yes and amen. There is a difference between 'discussing' from a place of learning, and attacking with fangs & claws.
At the same time, when it comes to those with fangs and claws, I view them through the light of this scripture:


Revelation 3
Behold, I will make them of the synagogue of Satan, which say they are Jews, and are not, but do lie; behold, I will make them to come and worship before thy feet, and to know that I have loved thee. 10 Because thou hast kept the word of my patience, I also will keep thee from the hour of temptation, which shall come upon all the world, to try them that dwell upon the earth. 11 Behold, I come quickly: hold that fast which thou hast, that no man take thy crown. 12 Him that overcometh will I make a pillar in the temple of my God, and he shall go no more out: and I will write upon him the name of my God, and the name of the city of my God, which is new Jerusalem, which cometh down out of heaven from my God: and I will write upon him my new name.
Notice the promises to those who overcome by enduring their attacks. :) \o/
 
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"Your posts are, very often, quite accusatory and you do not offer any remedy."

The remedy is Jesus and His love, applied to the heart, sorting out the distortions and miss-understanding.

Accusatory? I am shocked about the heresy and sheer stupidity of some preachers who claim so much in terms of creative authority to bring things into being yet in reality deliver nothing but words.

For some they see these preachers with no humbleness, just condemnation of their opponents who quite rightly see this arrogance and do not understand how a simple gospel of love has become a gospel of self justification, I can command my dreams into reality.

To those christians who think love is a small thing, something without significance or change, it is eternal and the one thing that drove Jesus to the cross. It is the foundation up which our hope is built, it is what we sing about everyday, and ask the Lord to be gracious to us because He loves. It is the well spring of our lives.

To those who feel this is empty and hollow, you have shut out Jesus from your heart and do not know the Kingdom of God. It is like night and day.

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8


We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death. 1 John 3:14


Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 1 John 4:7

Now to those who are scared and lost and do not see beauty and warmth from these words, there is hope for you, you have shut out your parents, held hurts and bitterness against them, and kept the well spring of love hidden within. You need to learn how to forgive like Jesus forgave you, and then the love will flow within.
Are you crazy PeterJens? You've stirred up Embers! Here's what transpired the last time Embers were stirred. :eek:
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blue_ladybug

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I'm confused as to how starting ANOTHER negative thread accusing brothers and sisters will somehow remove other negative threads and posts. Please let's focus more on building up, loving, and caring for the Body of believers.

I agree. All it does is breed more strife, negativity and bad feelings. If people could only learn to take their issues into PM, rather than start threads calling out other people.. smh..IMO, some people on here ENJOY mocking, embarassing and humiliating others on here. A VERY bad example of how REAL christians should act. :/ jmpov
 
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Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. Romans 16:17

But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes. 2 Timothy 2:23

I wish to God Almighty that the stalkers and dividers were all treated like this. We can quote scripture after scripture, showing their error, and it isn't taken to heart by those that divide, doing the same things day after day with their unwarranted assumptions. I have concluded that it's in purpose, and we have an ignore opportunity.
Yes and there are also other people also that the Word of God says to avoid..............
 
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eternally-gratefull

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I am up to here with the same people over and over posting threads demanding we all go back to law. and if anyone questions it they are not following the word of God,

I amup to here with people saying that salvation is just a fragile him thing which can be lost.

But this is an open christian chat, and we are going to get those. so if we can not deal with it, we better go someplace else.
 

blue_ladybug

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I am up to here with the same people over and over posting threads demanding we all go back to law. and if anyone questions it they are not following the word of God,

I amup to here with people saying that salvation is just a fragile him thing which can be lost.

But this is an open christian chat, and we are going to get those. so if we can not deal with it, we better go someplace else.

Forget getting back to the law. How about we get back to Jesus? Can I get an amen? :eek: