HONOR YOUR PASTOR AND CHURCH - POSITIVE TESTIMONIES ABOUT LOCAL FELLOWSHIPS

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HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT YOUR LOCAL FELLOWSHIP AND PASTOR?

  • I love my local fellowship and pastor

    Votes: 11 91.7%
  • I dislike my local fellowship and pastor

    Votes: 1 8.3%

  • Total voters
    12
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sparkman

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A few participants in this forum degrade the church as a whole, including local fellowships and their pastors.

I'd like to see some POSITIVE input from individuals who are happy with their churches and pastors.

Does anyone have good reports about their pastors and their fellowships, to refute some of the anti-local church fellowship trashing that goes on here?

I'll give a testimony about my local fellowship.

I've been involved in this local Evangelical Free church for about 2 years.

I was backslidden for a number of years. After being involved with this chat site for a few months (another positive factor in my life..I think it helped me to get back to thinking spiritually), I started looking for a local fellowship again.

I began looking for an Evangelical Free or Christian and Missionary Alliance church, as I know their doctrines are in harmony with my own.

I called a few churches, and one of the secretaries took the time to call me back and encouraged me to attend. Her demeanor was very genuine and welcoming.

I attended on Good Friday services, and the secretary introduced me to the pastor, who is about 15 years younger than me. He spent quite a bit of time after the services talking with me and praying for me. I was highly impressed with him from that encounter alone.

Since then, I've been attending services regularly. The worship is great, and the teaching is sound. The people are very friendly and inviting. I've been attending a small group (they call them 110 groups based on Colossians 1:10). It's probably the best place I've fellowshipped, although I fellowshipped at a Christian and Missionary Alliance church that was also very good.

They sponsor a number of missionary efforts, including building an orphanage to house over 60 boys in India. They raised the money to do it themselves (about $60,000) even though they are only a congregation of 250, and continue to maintain their sponsorship with a monthly amount to cover food, clothing, and miscellaneous expenses.

Finding a good church was instrumental in helping me move from a backslidden state to one where I'm experiencing the joy of my salvation again (Psalm 51), and their good example has greatly encouraged me personally.

At any rate, I feel strongly about the danger of discounting the value of corporate teaching, worship and prayer. There are some on this site who seek to portray the state of the church in a negative light. They may have been disillusioned through an unsound local fellowship, and continue to harbor sinful cynical attitudes about the rest of Christianity as a result. They may think they are above the need for discipleship and fancy themselves to be teachers here. They may think that they have the only pure doctrine and everyone else is in error and beneath their level. They may think this forum is an adequate fellowship (and it is great supplemental fellowship).

Whatever their reasoning, the NT model for the church is clearly one involving face-to-face assembly where communion and baptism is observed, and where loving leadership is exercised by the elders of the church. It is an illusion to think that internet fellowship is an adequate substitute.

It's obvious that Christ is the head pastor of his church, but it's equally obvious that he uses men to lead. See Ephesians 4. He gave the gifts of pastors and teachings in order to build up the church, and to equip it for works of service, until all reach maturity and the image of Christ, and so the redeemed are not misled by false doctrine.

I hate it that local church fellowships and the state of the church as a whole is being disrespected by some here, because I see many fervent, dedicated believers in various fellowships, in many different locations and of various age groups.

I'd like to hear from people who are SATISFIED with their local corporate fellowships, and how God has used their pastor or church to bless them. Anyone have any encouraging words in this regard?

As a side note, I am not disrespecting individuals who may use internet fellowship as a sole means of fellowship due to being homebound or in a persecuted country where fellowship opportunities are much more difficult. My guess is these individuals wish they could fellowship in person, and are appalled at some who degrade local fellowships. I am sure God grants extra grace to help those people in their circumstances.
 
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WarriorForChrist

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#2
A few participants in this forum degrade the church as a whole, including local fellowships and their pastors.

I'd like to see some POSITIVE input from individuals who are happy with their churches and pastors.

Does anyone have good reports about their pastors and their fellowships, to refute some of the anti-local church fellowship trashing that goes on here?

I'll give an affirmation about my local fellowship.

I've been involved in this local Evangelical Free church for about 2 years.

I was backslidden for a number of years. After being involved with this chat site for a few months (another positive factor in my life..I think it helped me to get back to thinking spiritually), I started looking for a local fellowship again.

I began looking for an Evangelical Free or Christian and Missionary Alliance church, as I know their doctrines are in harmony with my own.

I called a few churches, and one of the secretaries took the time to call me back and encouraged me to attend. Her demeanor was very genuine and welcoming.

I attended on Good Friday services, and the secretary introduced me to the pastor, who is about 15 years younger than me. He spent quite a bit of time after the services talking with me and praying for me. I was highly impressed with him from that encounter alone.

Since then, I've been attending services regularly. The worship is great, and the teaching is sound. The people are very friendly and inviting. I've been attending a small group (they call them 110 groups based on Colossians 1:10). It's probably the best place I've fellowshipped, although I fellowshipped at a Christian and Missionary Alliance church that was also very good.

They sponsor a number of missionary efforts, including building an orphanage to house over 60 boys in India. They raised the money to do it themselves (about $60,000) even though they are only a congregation of 250, and continue to maintain their sponsorship with a monthly amount to cover food, clothing, and miscellaneous expenses.

Finding a good church was instrumental in helping me move from a backslidden state to one where I'm experiencing the joy of my salvation again (Psalm 51), and their good example has greatly encouraged me personally.

At any rate, I feel strongly about the danger of discounting the value of corporate teaching, worship and prayer. There are some on this site who seek to portray the state of the church in a negative light. They may have been disillusioned through an unsound local fellowship, and continue to harbor sinful cynical attitudes about the rest of Christianity as a result. They may think they are above the need for discipleship and fancy themselves to be teachers here. They may think this forum is an adequate fellowship (and it is great supplemental fellowship).

Whatever their reasoning, the NT model for the church is clearly one involving face-to-face assembly where communion and baptism is observed, and where loving leadership is exercised by the elders of the church. It is an illusion to think that internet fellowship is an adequate substitute.

It's obvious that Christ is the head pastor of his church, but it's equally obvious that he uses men to lead. See Ephesians 4. He gave the gifts of pastors and teachings in order to build up the church, and to equip it for works of service, until all reach maturity and the image of Christ, and so the redeemed are not misled by false doctrine.

I'd like to hear from people who are SATISFIED with their local corporate fellowships, and how God has used their pastor or church to bless them. Anyone have any encouraging words in this regard?

As a side note, I am not disrespecting individuals who may use internet fellowship as a sole means of fellowship due to being housebound or in a persecuted country where fellowship opportunities are much more difficult. My guess is these individuals wish they could fellowship in person, and are appalled at some who degrade local fellowships. I am sure God grants extra grace to help those people in their circumstances.
Well I don't attend church so can't really comment. I will say that the Church is the bride of Christ so who are we that we attack the Church? I will say I did attend an Assembly of God in Louisiana when I was in the military and the Pastor was awesome. He was one of those pastors that didn't stand at the podium and he was on fire the entire service. He didn't go off of notes but allowed the HS to lead him. It was pretty awesome and no one was sleeping during his sermons.
 

Yet

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It's not a sinful attitude to correct and exhort with the word. Sorry you feel it is. I still wish people would study the word of God.

Yes God can bless and help you at times at a local 'church', but my question to everyone is this. How MUCH MORE would He bless if we 'did church' His way? Some think that I'm against the folks. That's a lie. The enemy twists just about everything I write to make me out as another Jim Jones or something. A devil incarnate. A war is going on here. No matter how many times I say I want the best for God's people, many believe that I'm against the people.
When I use sound scripture, they say I'm twisting scripture.
When I quote Paul or Jesus, I'm told I have a hateful spirit.

When I renounce the lies and theft by wolves and hirelings, I'm told I'm a wolf. Etc., etc..

Once again. Why is the majority of Christians so vehemently opposed to doing 'church' God's way? Is it fear. Is it pride? Is it laziness? I'm sorry but I have got to keep teaching God's corrective word. I have to stand before Him one day and if I don't teach the truth, I've got to come up with a real good reason why I did not. And of course, there is no good reason for that. So you're stuck with me.
 

Yet

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That's why I don't 'go to church'. The spirit of rebellion I cannot bear.
 
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sparkman

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It's not a sinful attitude to correct and exhort with the word. Sorry you feel it is. I still wish people would study the word of God.

Yes God can bless and help you at times at a local 'church', but my question to everyone is this. How MUCH MORE would He bless if we 'did church' His way? Some think that I'm against the folks. That's a lie. The enemy twists just about everything I write to make me out as another Jim Jones or something. A devil incarnate. A war is going on here. No matter how many times I say I want the best for God's people, many believe that I'm against the people.
When I use sound scripture, they say I'm twisting scripture.
When I quote Paul or Jesus, I'm told I have a hateful spirit.

When I renounce the lies and theft by wolves and hirelings, I'm told I'm a wolf. Etc., etc..

Once again. Why is the majority of Christians so vehemently opposed to doing 'church' God's way? Is it fear. Is it pride? Is it laziness? I'm sorry but I have got to keep teaching God's corrective word. I have to stand before Him one day and if I don't teach the truth, I've got to come up with a real good reason why I did not. And of course, there is no good reason for that. So you're stuck with me.
You're not a teacher here. This site recognizes no teachers.
 
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Did you know Yet that there was "Churches" in the days Jesus walked the Earth?

Back in those days they were called Synagogues.

Jesus and His Disciples regularly spent time in Synagogues.

Acts 2:46
So continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, they ate their food with gladness and simplicity of heart, [SUP]47 [/SUP]praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved.

They had Temples, Synagogues and Churches.

I find it interesting to say Churches are spirit of rebellion just because you hate the Church today.
 
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Amen! Even while preaching against the very people running the Synagogues... He attended, faithfully. And financially supported them.
 
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notuptome

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I have been blessed to have a good bible church to attend and support. I have been around long enough to have also attended some store front churches where God was indeed blessing in abundance.

We have churches in the area that are interested in being big and it has cost them in being close to the Lord. My opinion but I have interacted with their members and found their discipleship to be wanting.

Many of them, including ours, have more than one pastor but only one pastor preaches at any given service. I have had the blessed opportunity to hear many great evangelists and missionaries over the years.

We are not charismatic or Pentecostal but biblically fundamental in our doctrine and teaching.

If you backbite and disparage your pastor then you will reap judgment from God. God is in charge of who He puts in the pulpit and that person has a far greater responsibility then the snipers who go about on the internet stirring up discontent toward them.

Jas 3:11 Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter?

Mt 15:18 But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart; and they defile the man.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 

melita916

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yay! i love the local assembly i attend. i love how we come together to help one another. a couple of sundays ago, my pastor let the congregation know of a problem one of the widows was having, so the congregation came together to help her. the following service, she thanked us, and you could hear in her voice how much it meant to her :D
 
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I have been blessed to have a good bible church to attend and support. I have been around long enough to have also attended some store front churches where God was indeed blessing in abundance.

We have churches in the area that are interested in being big and it has cost them in being close to the Lord. My opinion but I have interacted with their members and found their discipleship to be wanting.

Many of them, including ours, have more than one pastor but only one pastor preaches at any given service. I have had the blessed opportunity to hear many great evangelists and missionaries over the years.

We are not charismatic or Pentecostal but biblically fundamental in our doctrine and teaching.

If you backbite and disparage your pastor then you will reap judgment from God. God is in charge of who He puts in the pulpit and that person has a far greater responsibility then the snipers who go about on the internet stirring up discontent toward them.

Jas 3:11 Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter?

Mt 15:18 But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart; and they defile the man.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
We have churches in the area that are interested in being big and it has cost them in being close to the Lord. My opinion but I have interacted with their members and found their discipleship to be wanting.
The mega prosperity church.................
God is in charge of who He puts in the pulpit
We live in a fallen world sir. There are many a church that a man is behind the pulpit where he isnt even SAVED! He preaches another gospel and the congregation is there to have their ears tickled.

Im not saying all churches are like that but I also wont say that many arent!

May I ask the number of members in your bible based church?
Would I be correct in guessing that the congregation is small?
 
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That's why I don't 'go to church'. The spirit of rebellion I cannot bear.
I think if you focused on mega churches you would mostly be safe in your platform against "apostasy in the church."
It appears that most are upset with you because perhaps clear differentiation is not demonstrated? idk...
 
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This is my tribute to Eliezer Urbach. I loved that man. He lived in Poland and witnessed Nazi Stuka bombers attacking his town. He and his brother fled to Russia, where they were both imprisoned. His brother died there. This has other details.

UMJC – Eliezer Urbach 1921-2009
 

notuptome

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The mega prosperity church.................
We live in a fallen world sir. There are many a church that a man is behind the pulpit where he isnt even SAVED! He preaches another gospel and the congregation is there to have their ears tickled.

Im not saying all churches are like that but I also wont say that many arent!

May I ask the number of members in your bible based church?
Would I be correct in guessing that the congregation is small?
At one time we were about 350 but two splits with folks not wanting to stay the course and live by biblical standards has un now at just under 100. We still support the same number of missionaries and still have a radio and newspaper ministry. Finances are good as the Lord provides. We no longer have our Christian school but that was a major factor in one of the splits. The school wanted to tell the church how the school should run when the school was a ministry supported by the church.

Small perhaps but still able to reach souls around the world for Christ. When God is in it then it will prosper in that which He has pleased.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 
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Did you know Yet that there was "Churches" in the days Jesus walked the Earth?

Back in those days they were called Synagogues.

Jesus and His Disciples regularly spent time in Synagogues.

Acts 2:46
So continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, they ate their food with gladness and simplicity of heart, [SUP]47 [/SUP]praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved.

They had Temples, Synagogues and Churches.

I find it interesting to say Churches are spirit of rebellion just because you hate the Church today.
When was the only time you seen Jesus angry... Was it in one of these types of settings? Did he not say one stone unturned?

The same people who sat amongst Him reading the Old Testament, are the same ones that cheered to pilot, His blood be on us!!

Im not saying ALL churches are bad, I'm saying choose carefully, AND THERE ARE SOME MISGUIDED ONES... And that is what I am doing, and as I do, I go out still and tell them the good news of what Jesus has done from me.


 
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At one time we were about 350 but two splits with folks not wanting to stay the course and live by biblical standards has un now at just under 100. We still support the same number of missionaries and still have a radio and newspaper ministry. Finances are good as the Lord provides. We no longer have our Christian school but that was a major factor in one of the splits. The school wanted to tell the church how the school should run when the school was a ministry supported by the church.

Small perhaps but still able to reach souls around the world for Christ. When God is in it then it will prosper in that which He has pleased.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
Amen. It is as I suspected . The smaller the church the more biblically sound it is because the majority just do not want to be held accountable for their laodecian lifestyles. Glory be to God that you are planted in a sound church!
 
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BeyondET

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It's not a sinful attitude to correct and exhort with the word. Sorry you feel it is. I still wish people would study the word of God.

Yes God can bless and help you at times at a local 'church', but my question to everyone is this. How MUCH MORE would He bless if we 'did church' His way? Some think that I'm against the folks. That's a lie. The enemy twists just about everything I write to make me out as another Jim Jones or something. A devil incarnate. A war is going on here. No matter how many times I say I want the best for God's people, many believe that I'm against the people.
When I use sound scripture, they say I'm twisting scripture.
When I quote Paul or Jesus, I'm told I have a hateful spirit.

When I renounce the lies and theft by wolves and hirelings, I'm told I'm a wolf. Etc., etc..

Once again. Why is the majority of Christians so vehemently opposed to doing 'church' God's way? Is it fear. Is it pride? Is it laziness? I'm sorry but I have got to keep teaching God's corrective word. I have to stand before Him one day and if I don't teach the truth, I've got to come up with a real good reason why I did not. And of course, there is no good reason for that. So you're stuck with me.
I get where your coming from Hoss really I do but I haven't seen your name posted in the opening thread so what gives, I'm a person who doesn't go to church every Sunday, really I haven't been in over 6 months but when I do I enjoy the company,, for I have seen and heard of many who have walked into churches And have found God.

It seems you follow the same pattern I've noticed if someone disagrees with you,,, you start posting scripture condemning the person that's sick Yettie, I know this is true (REMEMBER) O wait a minute I got it I'm a Lier, theft,wolve,hireling, my bust.
what ever but there's one thing I'm sure of is you will never say that's ok let bygone be bygone for today is a new day to anybody.. so tell me is it Fear or Pride or laziness??..
 
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ember

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IMO, whatever church or fellowship a person attends, about the worse thing they can do is complain and dump their negative outlook on others

I've done it, reaped the fruit of it and God gently drew me aside and told me I really needed to stop. Even if everyone else is doing it, even if you have 'just' cause, it goes against the entire reason for church/fellowship in the first place

I've been in several different leadership positions so I kind of get both sides....when you know there is actual sin? follow the biblical model...don't gossip and complain...follow the biblical model

If that goes badly, find another place to worship in a group setting

sometimes, God might even have you to just stick around and pray

I'm pretty convinced, by the Spirit of God and biblical persuasion, that many of us are out there doing the wrong thing....making things worse with complaining and backbiting etc
 
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psalm6819

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Our Pastor recently retired but I have to say that he was well loved. Pastor Glen wasn't a fiery preacher but a loving and gentle shepard. A quiet, gentle and humble man that knew Jesus love can change where our efforts fail
 
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Eternallife

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I understand not judging pastors and stuff, but I must say that from what many are preaching they are standing condemned even in the pulpit.