@notuptome..Yes I see exactly what you are saying..but what if lust is the only thing that is physically attracting this couple to come together as man and wife. Is it then justified to save the marriage for the greater good?
If lust and sex is the only thing that can bring them to together and save their marriage then it sounds to me like what they have isn't true love. If stephanie and I got married( fingers crossed so tightly) our relationship could never be based on lust or sex.
I have never been married and stephanie is the only real girlfriend I have ever had but I have seen far to may people get married going into it with that fluttering feeling you experience at first they say the vows but when times get tough the marriage and relationship falls apart.
Marriage is very important to me and the vows one makes when getting married I wonder how many truly understand these vows when they say it.
To me they mean something, I do not expect things be like in the fairy tales where everything is perfect and we don't argue or even have fiery fights I don't not expect their ti be times in which our relationship will bend even get to the point where it may break in fact I expect all of this. But one tihng about my love and my relationship with Stephanie is that God is first she is second and I am last God the firm base and foundation of our relationship which is why I know it may bend but our love will never break.
Even if she cheated on me which I highly doubt I still would not divorce her and I would still love her, if you truly love someone there are no limits you won't go for them there is nothing you will weather together and if these ppl need sex to save their love then I think they got married for the wrong reasons and didn't truly mean it when they spoke their vows
