@rickyZ lustful ways can be wholesome with my spouse...I lust after my spouse all the time.....and they're happy about it...lol.. And God is also pleased with me loving/ lusting over my spouse... Marriage is honorable...
Lets stop trying to make sex and lust dirty...it's not a dirty thing when done decently and in order... It's only dirty when the person makes it dirty...a thief always thinks someone else is a thief...lol
Perhaps it's in our definitions. I understand what you are getting at and you're right. Perhaps what you call lust, others of us consider longing. I long for my wife, I long her all night long
if you get my drift. There's an emotional element driving the physicality... I drive it all night lo.... ok I'll stop
But you get what I mean - physical 'lust' for a spouse is appropriate and fine. But I think for a lot of us, the term 'lust' connotates a lack of the emotional element... it's purely physical. Which of course I'm sure you agree, a purely physical lust is not appropriate.
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I'm curious as to what you'd think of this...
http://christianchat.com/blogs/rickyz/4636-sexuality-god.html