I guess I could give the faith another go.
I just noticed your other thread on Hell and how you felt coerced into loving God, as if He held a pistol to your head and said "Choose me or die." The issue with this line of logic is that while salvation is an ultimatum it is equivalent to your falling off of a roof and heading for the pavement. Someone offers a parachute flying down to the side of you, I'm sure you won't complain like, "How dare he give me this ultimatum!?" It would more likely be gratitude. This is our own doing in that of sin, and also the sin of Adam because he was a representative for mankind.
But lets focus on you. You wouldn't, I hope, argue that you are perfect in love. I'm sure you can think of moments you regret, that you wish you could take back and not harm the person that you did. That standard of perfect love is one we are incapable of doing, and so while that is the standard God knew we couldn't keep it. Hence, the Gospel. The "Good News" which, as you know, is that Jesus died for your sins and rose from the grave on the third day for your justification(right standing) with God. He paid the price for your sin, and He reconciled you to God. But get this, it was the will of the Father that sent the Son, Jesus Christ. So God, the Father, loves you. The same God of the Old Testament.
Now you may wonder why God was so seemingly spiteful in the Old Testament, and maybe angry, but what you need to keep in mind is that God was under a covenant with a people. The Jewish people, the nation of Israel. He due to their own boasting, gave them the Law of Moses, and knowing that they'd fail, He quickly also gave them a sacrificial system by which their sins could be covered (but was only actually a shadow of the real thing to come, Jesus being the sacrificial lamb for the world/the propitiation). So, God in this covenant wanted the people to choose life, and to be blessed. Not death or whats known as the "curses of the Law." When the people acted up, there was a penalty, its part of the contract/the covenant.
You see, what truly should be seen here is not God being a task master, but rather that God is faithful to His covenant. He is not a liar, and just like God would bless them for disobedience, He had to punish them for disobedience. It is a testimony of His faithful to His word. But rejoice! In Christ, believing in Jesus, you are then put in covenant not based upon your works. Rather, it is a salvation based in faith, your righteousness of faith. God imputes, or gives you, this righteousness. You are then justified before God, not ever based upon self-merit, but upon Christ. This is why He is your savior. In this covenant, it is not blessings for obedience and curses for disobedience, albeit there is chastisement as our Heavenly Father cares for our well-being. He wants better for us. But the point is, that in the covenant you enter through Jesus Christ, it is one based upon God's grace and the finished work of Jesus Christ (His sacrifice).
What did we learn about God from the Old Testament? He ain't no liar!
So what does that mean in the new testament or new covenant? He ain't no liar! You are saved by grace through faith in the Son of God, Jesus Christ. He is faithful to His word. There is no condemnation in Jesus Christ, because it, your salvation, isn't based on you but the Son. So, believe that He did what He was sent to do, and let peace fill your heart.
God didn't use Hell as an ultimatum of force, or tyranny, but rather it is a circumstantial ultimatum, because those that do not believe in Jesus are already condemned due to the Fall, and plainly, our sins. Having been separated from God we need to be reconciled. This then is by our own rebellion, and therefore God in His goodness, chooses to save us through Jesus. He isn't forcing you to believe, He is inviting you, saving you from the predicament man put himself in.