Jesus said if we are not born again we will not enter the Kingdom of God. The modern day grace gospel is a lie and false. Born again by water and spirit means accepting Jesus and being baptised which is works and a change of a new spirit which comes by receiving the Holy Spirit. If you truly have been blessed to receive the Holy Spirit your life will change and your level of sin and lawlessness will diminish. The Holy Spirit is the greatest gift you will ever receive in your life. We are to follow Christs example how he lived, this involves a complete change of your life and it will be painful for you. The Holy Spirit will not decend upon you unless you repent of your sins take your cross and follow Jesus. Do not kid yourself about the false gospel of Grace where all you need to do is believe. Jesus Christ was clear. At the end of time believers,ministers,miracle workers who did not clothe and feed and comfort the needy sick imprisned and poor will burn in hell with the angels of satan. Grace of God is only imparted to His children who follow Jesus way of living, it is not given simply to believers as even the demons believe