Can you love your enemy

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Everyone Christ died for Loves their enemy in the exact same way as Christ does.
 

homwardbound

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Loving your enemy is loving a person who has conflict with you. Your enemy might even belong to the church you both attend. Make sure that the conflict is not instigated or enhanced by your actions. Let your enemy bear the total burden of being the sole instigator of the conflict whatever it might be. If you are guilty of some wrongdoing, or feel like a pay back, be humble enough to confess to your enemy what you see as wrong within you. Then pray together if possible, and by yourself if not. This is love.

James 5:16 (KJV)
[SUP]16 [/SUP]Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

Loving anyone in the human race, according to the will of God, is to do all we can, under any given circumstance, to help others separate themselves from what separates them from God. Within the world this would be corruption that is easily identifiable via the Word of God. These people are not to be condemned, but rather for us to condemn the sin that is condemning them. This is not judging as Jesus clarified. This is love.

Matthew 7:1-5 (KJV)
[SUP]1 [/SUP]Judge not, that ye be not judged.
[SUP]2 [/SUP]For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
[SUP]3 [/SUP]And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
[SUP]4 [/SUP]Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
[SUP]5 [/SUP]Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.

This is judging righteous judgment, or if you will, to invoke discernment of any given situation. Don't let the religious sect tell you not to do this because it might make somebody feel bad. There are many that think love is always something that should cause good feelings. Put the feel good thing aside, and hope that the good feelings will come after you do what is required by the Truth. Get rid of the warm fuzzy and be a soldier. This is love.

Ephesians 6:13 (KJV)
[SUP]13 [/SUP]Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.

John 7:24 (KJV)
[SUP]24 [/SUP]Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.

Loving a fellow brother or sister in Christ is different in that sins are not so easily identified, yet the same principle applies. It is important to have the attitude in the church of all dying to themselves daily as Paul and Jesus spoke of. If that is clearly not happening with our fellow citizens in Christ, it is our job to converse with them in truth, and in spirit, for without that heart, sin is present and they are hiding something. This is love.

1 Peter 4:17 (KJV)
[SUP]17 [/SUP]For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God?

Luke 9:23-24 (KJV)
[SUP]23 [/SUP]And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.
[SUP]24 [/SUP]For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it.

1 Corinthians 15:30-31 (KJV)
[SUP]30 [/SUP]And why stand we in jeopardy every hour?
[SUP]31 [/SUP]I protest by your rejoicing which I have in Christ Jesus our Lord, I die daily.


THIS IS LOVE!
Haven"t seen you around for awhile, elated to see you are well, thanking god for this all the way. Welcome Brother welcome back
 

homwardbound

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Homwardbound, I really love you brother, but would it be too much to ask that you wait for others to respond before posting several things for a half hour plus? I say this because as the pages float by some newcomers will miss several other posts but other people because they are 1, 2, or 3 pages in the rear after an hour or two. Maybe you could consolidate your responses to several people at one time or something. Your thoughts are good, and I would not want to stifle the truth that you present.
Thank you for your love of Father to me through Son, I start in the Am way behind and read each and respond accordingly, I am not sure how to consolidate it down to one post. But am praying over it to be led and not a hog as it can seem to appear to be
Thank you
 
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Thank you for your love of Father to me through Son, I start in the Am way behind and read each and respond accordingly, I am not sure how to consolidate it down to one post. But am praying over it to be led and not a hog as it can seem to appear to be
Thank you
God bless you in all wisdom and riches in Christ. You have wealth in heaven.

Matthew 6:19-22 (KJV)
[SUP]19 [/SUP]Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:
[SUP]20 [/SUP]But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:
[SUP]21 [/SUP]For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
[SUP]22 [/SUP]The light of the body is the eye: if therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light.
 
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Isdaniel I have to ask, are you mocking God, it seems so to me and for me noway God is the only one good no matter what it might appear to look like as you seem to be pointing out that God is not Love by saying God thinks Evil. When in truth it is man flesh that thinks evil, not God

you are a joker hmm you are mocking God hmm God is Justice and Judgement hmmm

Jeremiah 18:8If that nation, against whom I have pronounced, turn from their evil, I will repent of the evil that I thought to do unto them.
 

JaumeJ

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The OP is and has always been "Can You Love You Enemy." The answer for all who believe is a very simply "yes."
 
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you are a joker hmm you are mocking God hmm God is Justice and Judgement hmmm

Jeremiah 18:8If that nation, against whom I have pronounced, turn from their evil, I will repent of the evil that I thought to do unto them.
For the wicked God will seek justice and judgement. But, aren't those in Christ under grace?

Are we not to go and preach Christ and his grace.

Teaching a revengeful God is a preaching of condemnation and causes such things as wars from the zealous, witch hunts brought about by fear.

Do you not know, that we have not been given the spirit of fear, but the Spirit of adoption. We, those in Christ, have a Father and not a Destroyer.
 
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Haven"t seen you around for awhile, elated to see you are well, thanking god for this all the way. Welcome Brother welcome back
A couple of months ago I started a thread called "I'm sick of arguing." It ended up with an argument severe enough to be closed down. So when I become evasive, that might be one of the reasons. I just got burnt out. After beating my head against the wall of purposeful rejection of not wanting to see the truth, I wound up ignoring some, and then busied myself in writing a book, and now I am into writing about the Feast of Tabernacles. Some people just refuse to stop and comprehend something that is against what they have learned as supposed true doctrine. When other scripture that jeopardizes that doctrine, the arguing starts with a stiff-necked defense, and reconciliation and edification is obliterated and crucified putting Jesus to an open shame.

Hebrews 6:4-6 (KJV)
[SUP]4 [/SUP]For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted of the heavenly gift, and were made partakers of the Holy Ghost,
[SUP]5 [/SUP]And have tasted the good word of God, and the powers of the world to come,
[SUP]6 [/SUP]If they shall fall away, to renew them again unto repentance; seeing they crucify to themselves the Son of God afresh, and put him to an open shame.
I still contribute where I feel it will be learning and instruction of the real truth. I am saddened by the refusal to grow in the teaching of the Spirit, and how ALL scripture applies. Some will inwardly hate this verse when they wrongly divide the truth.

2 Timothy 3:16 (KJV)
[SUP]16 [/SUP]All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
Some will say the Spirit teaches them today, without the law, and the Law of Moses doesn’t apply in spiritual matters. That is so very wrong to have that mindset. It is a willful stalemate. If we are Spirit led, then we will be subject to the law, and understand its rightful place in the Christian walk. I read that the law, and commandments are spiritual, holy, just, and good. That’s Paul speaking. Yet some will ask; “Who are you going to follow, Paul or Moses?” My answer is both! Hello?

Romans 8:6-7 (KJV)
[SUP]6 [/SUP]For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
[SUP]7 [/SUP]Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
I’ll come right out with it after saying all I have. I question with all gravity the indwelling Spirit in those who talk with rhetoric demeaning the Mosaic law. I personally don’t believe they have it, cause they cannot grasp it.
 
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What I said may not be taken as a loving gesture, yet I would say when the day ends, and we are no longer in this world, will we question our own motives in retrospect, if we didn't do all we could to help others by shedding light on darkness. Do we not want to hear from Jesus "well done," despite being hated? I would say the choice is obvious, but one cannot do their job and think they will escape ridicule.
 
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Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
And what is laying down ones life? Many things probably.

For example: When a spiritual leader allows a new believer to express a revelation new to them; the leader 'lays down his life' by not further expounding on the subject. Therefore not outshining the new one. Get it?:)
 
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What I said may not be taken as a loving gesture, yet I would say when the day ends, and we are no longer in this world, will we question our own motives in retrospect, if we didn't do all we could to help others by shedding light on darkness. Do we not want to hear from Jesus "well done," despite being hated? I would say the choice is obvious, but one cannot do their job and think they will escape ridicule.
I too, usually get into trouble because I'm trying to shake all these 'nice' Christians into the fact that we are in a spiritual warfare. It's difficult for them to get it though.
 
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Thank you for your love of Father to me through Son, I start in the Am way behind and read each and respond accordingly, I am not sure how to consolidate it down to one post. But am praying over it to be led and not a hog as it can seem to appear to be Thank you
More enthusiasm like yours and the church would be built! Praise the Lord!:)
 
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What I said may not be taken as a loving gesture, yet I would say when the day ends, and we are no longer in this world, will we question our own motives in retrospect, if we didn't do all we could to help others by shedding light on darkness. Do we not want to hear from Jesus "well done," despite being hated? I would say the choice is obvious, but one cannot do their job and think they will escape ridicule.
If I could only put in words the all awesomeness of how my soul tingles to tears when I think of the moment when I am before my God and He approaches me with open arms and say, "Well done", then perhaps I could share this hope even more.
 
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if any christian was genuinely interested in transformation to a higher spiritual
awareness then this would happen. IE The believer would actually live their faith.

But many, not pointing the finger at everyone, are quite happy to continue with the status quo.
Taking it a step forward I propose that Religion generally provides a mechanism for
diversion from the business of real spiritual transformation.

People will hold onto their present state for dear life.
We are afraid of the light and the dark.
A christian life emulating what Jesus reportedly did and did not do is
of course impossible because the sins are so many and without context.
EG Is it ok to steal if you are starving.
Is it ok to hurt someone if they want you to (EG torture versus masochistm)
Is it ok to kill someone (if you feel you need to)?
the transformation becomes a token effort and all that happens is the person
has a closed mind as to what is good/bad (christian values) or Honour/dishonour
(Muslim Values)

Thats why You cannot love your enemies, because you cannot Love what you deem to be bad.
The problem stems from the fact that this love you are lining up to bestow on someone is false love.
An emulation of the real thing provided by the self as a distraction.

But Love is an unconditional thing, Anything that is called love that is attached to a
condition is false love. Akin to prostitution. A payment for a service.

If you love something you must respect its freedom.
Yahwehs' love (and Jesus') is often conditional mixed with unconditional love to confuse
those who do not know what real Love is and the laws under which it functions in the universe.

The fact is that our selves are incapable of true love since EGO is our false side.
It can only emulate love, by saying you love this and that but not this and this.
It has a bias that is our selfishness and greed (evolutionary).

Our spirit (true side) is the agency responsible for Love.
Our spirit cannot function while the self is in self chatter of selfishness.
You cannot be angry and unloving at the office and then go home and say
you love this and that.. It ego talking.

Love is a state of mind or way of being.
It is an unfolding Love.
It is a love everybody and everything (trending) state achieved
First by realising that ego cannot control or experience Love in its selfish ego mode,
where everything is filtered into good and bad (according to the word.)

Thats the only way to Love your enemies is to transform into the Love everything state of being...
= Presence.

Rev. Hydrogen
 
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If I could only put in words the all awesomeness of how my soul tingles to tears when I think of the moment when I am before my God and He approaches me with open arms and say, "Well done", then perhaps I could share this hope even more.
Beautiful thought my friend beautiful thought:eek:
 

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This post is about loving your enemies and if you can love what you view a enemy. It is greatly appreciated that you keep you comments to the topic given and not have a battle of wits concerning other topics. This is not good to a post to derail the post to your own private battle. Thank you


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The OP is and has always been "Can You Love You Enemy." The answer for all who believe is a very simply "yes."
Can you love a Tiger? (He! He!)

I had a friend (José Medina) who I think he is in France now. We worked for Minera Loma de Niquel, here in Venezuela. He was my infield boss.

I don´t mind having friends (real ones are known) but I don´t like "stickers" of avatars or faces as those any think they have on FB.

CC is a better place to share, to find some fellowship... Thanks!
 

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Loving your enemies is an oxymoron, if you love them, they can't be your enemy. I believe Jesus was referring to a spiritual love, which is why he said to pray for them. Praying for our enemies is not necessarily a pleasant thing if God chooses to correct them, but it is never-the-less an act of love. Jesus said, "But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea" (Matthew 18:6).

The idea is to overcome evil with good, and not to return hate for hate. If we lower ourselves to that mind-set, we
inevitably escalate the problem, but we know vengeance belongs to God. By the same token, I don't believe Christians are required to willfully subject themselves to would-be enemies; "If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him" (Luke 17:3). And Paul said, "If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men" (Romans 12:18).
 
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JaumeJ

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God loves His enemies. Friendship with the world is enmity with God. Before any of us came to the Lord, Jesus, we were all friends of th eworld to one degee or another, and just one degree is enmity with God. He truly is great, and He truly is Love.
 
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This post is about loving your enemies and if you can love what you view a enemy. It is greatly appreciated that you keep you comments to the topic given and not have a battle of wits concerning other topics. This is not good to a post to derail the post to your own private battle. Thank you


iwant2serve
What have you been reading on this thread that might derail the subject at hand?