"Until now you have not asked for ANYTHING in My Name. Ask and you will receive, and your Joy will be complete." (John 16:24).
So here we see insight into both effectual prayer and ineffectual prayer don't we? Its not "what" or "how" we pray its "who we are" when we pray, which then follows with the how and what given by the Holy Spirit. We see even more insight into effectual prayer when we read (James 4:3): "When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives that you may spend what you get on your pleasures."
Now we again see that it is who we are from inside out not outside in that counts here, for God also says we are to live freely the life God has given us. The key phrase there is, "what God has given us." Ineffectual prayer is when we ask in our own self-awareness for God's sake, even when we paint it with morality. Effectual prayer is whatever the Holy Spirit invests in us to live out naturally in and thru ourselves as spiritual redemptive lives found rooted in Christ. And yet, all of this does not keep God from being ever-so-faithful to us nonetheless, as His purposes and intentions indicate.
James says in (5:16-18), as has been partially quoted already, "that the effectual servant prayer from a righteous man (a man in Christ) availeth much." We tend to think this means an emotional man doing best for God, and not a person wrought out by God in Spiritual awareness and fervency. We must wait on God to develop our life and prayers and passions and allow His presence in our personality to render itself real there in the circumstances lived out walking thru the walls of life. The shrine of our conscious life is placed, therefore, in a sacredness of circumstances engineered by God whereby He secures our effectual calling. That God engineers our circumstances for us if we accept His purpose in Christ Jesus is a thought of great practical consideration here.
What battle are we wrestling with in life? Why can’t we seem to gain the victory over it? Why can’t we defeat your enemy (spiritual)? Maybe it’s because WE are fighting the battle and not allowing God to do it. Maybe it’s because we are fighting it with “human wisdom” and not following God’s Word or His instructions in walking in His light thru righteousness. Maybe we have not ASKED FOR HIS HELP (and sometimes we ASK but then after we pray we proceed to get up and keep trying to HELP GOD work it out!!).
Why not STOP. Ask for God to intervene, ask for a miracle that only He can do and then LISTEN and OBEY HIS VOICE and DO IT HIS WAY!!!!!! One more time: Obedience brings victory. Child of God you can’t – You cannot get victory by walking in THE FLESH during the week and “in the Spirit” on Sunday. We (meaning each of us) must walk by faith and not by sight! He is in control, so we need to let go of the steering wheel. And allow Him to employ our will in the right way and pray in power, finding productivity in our prayer lives. But keep in mind, even a "No" by God is productive when He establishes our steps in keeping with the love of Christ in rebuke and correction and training and teaching..
We need to live thru faith and allow the Holy Spirit to enlighten us spiritually, and then think for a moment that we are to be a walking, living edition of the prayers of the Holy Spirit. No wonder God urges us to walk in the Light! No wonder His Spirit prays in us and makes intercessions with groaning we cannot utter. We may feel burdened or we may not; we may consciously know nothing about it; the point is that God puts us into circumstances where He can answer the prayers of His Son and of the Holy Spirit which, if we remain in Christ, will produce us to pray as it is our own life now. Not about certain things, but continually about all things. Recall Jesus' prayer - "that they may be One, even as We are One..."
That is a Oneness of personality to the inner Godhead which is our New Creation, as we are born-again, as well as the corporate Church Body which is spiritually single-minded in Unity under Christ Jesus with one another. Our prayer life finds power as our individuality is completely transfigured. Effective prayer, therefore, comes when independence is lost and identity revealed.
(James 5:16-18) says, "he prayed earnestly.." that phrase literally means, "he prayed in prayer." You see prayer is not the means to an end it is the work of the Holy Spirit filled with power to serve God in His intentions and purposes; thus, it is the end and the means. It is also who we become as we transform into the likeness of Christ thru maturing into sons and daughters of the family of God.
Pray on! Pray well! Pray that God will guide us and move us into His power to serve Him well! His will will be done on earth as it is in heaven... His Word promises us this is reality; this is truth, may we rest in Christ Jesus and share in His glory.