forgiveness question?

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Ariel82

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Break up with the girl and avoid both because they aren't true friends....

Just because you forgive them, doesn't mean you have to be friends with them.
 
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Ariel82

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Ephesians: 4. 26. Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:
 

Adstar

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well my gf and my friend had sex with eachother so I don't really know what to do
Forgive her if she asks for forgiveness..
Forgive him if he asks for forgiveness..

That does not mean you have to continue your bf/gf relationship with her.. If she has shown herself to be so unfaithful and to be unfaithful with a friend of yours then she is not the girl for you if you want a good long term husband/wife relationship..

As for your friend a man who would cheat with his friends g/f is no loyal friend.. You can be at peace with him as a person in your community but he has proven himself not to be a trustworthy friend.
 
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FreeNChrist

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well my gf and my friend had sex with eachother so I don't really know what to do
We forgive others not because they deserve it, but because in Christ, God has forgiven us. Since God has forgiven us, why would we withhold forgiveness from others? They, like you, like everybody, need Jesus. Forgive them and move on with your life.
 

Jimbone

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Are we supposed to forgive those who aren't sorry? Were supposed to live a new life in Christ but God doesn't even forgive hose who aren't sorry
OH yes He does, the price was paid for ALL men, but it is their choice to accept. Also the forgiveness you speak of is for you, not for the person that doesn't care. What are you going to carry a grudge for years, all while the guy that "did it" never once thinks of you again? He is free while your in chains? Does that sound logical or better for you in any way?
 

lastofall

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"Forgive, and ye shall be forgiven." It is a very simple command of the Lord Jesus Christ.
 
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FreeNChrist

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"Forgive, and ye shall be forgiven." It is a very simple command of the Lord Jesus Christ.
And then He died on a cross and changed everything.


"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Eph. 4:32
 
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They're not sorry yet but the lord gave me a vision of them repenting and coming to Christ so I guess I'll just take one for the team. Just hurts ya know
 

Jimbone

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They're not sorry yet but the lord gave me a vision of them repenting and coming to Christ so I guess I'll just take one for the team. Just hurts ya know
Yes I do know man, and it is never easy. Honestly I think that without Him we could never even do it personally. I know I didn't think this way before being regenerated, and I give all glory and credit to Him that allows me to forgive like this. I'm just so thankful I serve the God of us all. I pray He gives you peace concerning the issue you're dealing with now
 

Yeraza_Bats

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And then He died on a cross and changed everything.


"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Eph. 4:32
This means His words before His Crucifixion were meaningless then? Alright.