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If God were judgemental then he would want his people to be the same since he wants them to be one with him as Christ is. Yet, Christ hated the judgemental people they were the only ones he judged. Christ even forgave those who crucified him, and yet we speak of a God who will torture people in a lake of fire.Whenever there was to be great destruction in the bible, God tried to get his people out, before Satan was able to destroy them as well.The only destruction God is trying to save us from is this earth's prince(Satan) by marking those who accept his sacrifice for them with his Holy Spirit. Satan is going to destroy this planet, and God gave us an out for free. He is not judging us every step of the way to send us to destruction he is long suffering that none should perish.