I'll say again, I'm surrounded by Calvinist, 4 of them ministers whose mouths are filthy, they practice sexual sin, they lie every day, they steal. I have never in all my life lived or worked around a Calvinist (who claim that just because of appreciation for the Cross they can live in obedience) who actually obeyed God. They, every one, including the pastors are always immoral. Where is their new nature?
By their fruits you shall know them. If you know the truth, then you will be set free. If you believe what you believe & can not live any different from the world, you do not know the Truth.
[h=3]1 John 3[/h]Amplified Bible (AMP)
3 See what [an incredible] quality of love the Father has given (shown, bestowed on) us, that we should [be permitted to] be named and called and counted the children of God! And so we are! The reason that the world does not know (recognize, acknowledge) us is that it does not know (recognize, acknowledge) Him.
[SUP]2 [/SUP]Beloved, we are [even here and] now God’s children; it is not yet disclosed (made clear) what we shall be [hereafter], but we know that when He comes and is manifested, we shall [as God’s children] resemble and be like Him, for we shall see Him just as He [really] is.
[SUP]3 [/SUP]And everyone who has this hope [resting] on Him cleanses (purifies) himself just as He is pure (chaste, undefiled, guiltless).
[SUP]4 [/SUP]Everyone who commits (practices) sin is guilty of lawlessness; for [that is what] sin is, lawlessness (the breaking, violating of God’s law by transgression or neglect—being unrestrained and unregulated by His commands and His will).
[SUP]5 [/SUP]You know that He appeared in visible form and became Man to take away [upon Himself] sins, and in Him there is no sin [essentially and forever].
[SUP]6 [/SUP]No one who abides in Him [who lives and remains in communion with and in obedience to Him—deliberately, knowingly, and habitually] commits (practices) sin. No one who [habitually] sins has either seen or known Him [recognized, perceived, or understood Him, or has had an experiential acquaintance with Him].
[SUP]7 [/SUP]Boys (lads), let no one deceive and lead you astray. He who practices righteousness [who is upright, conforming to the divine will in purpose, thought, and action, living a consistently conscientious life] is righteous, even as He is righteous.
[SUP]8 [/SUP][But] he who commits sin [who practices evildoing] is of the devil [takes his character from the evil one], for the devil has sinned (violated the divine law) from the beginning. The reason the Son of God was made manifest (visible) was to undo (destroy, loosen, and dissolve) the works the devil [has done].
You say you believe, you have faith in other words, faith without works is dead, the demons believe & tremble. Believe & obedience are used interchangeably in Hebrews, in Romans, by Jesus, by Paul. James, Peter & Jude warns against being stupid. You do not believe if you are walking in darkness, you don't even know Jesus.