Sex outside of marriage

[Depleted]

Im struggling with sex outside of marriage im scared im going to go to hell........... I believe in God and im truely sorry for having sex outside of marriage

If you're only concern is you're going to hell, are you sure you believe in God, or do you BELIEVE (trust) God?

Because Satan believes in God, and it's not stopping him from avoiding hell.

So, one of two ways you can deal with this one:
1. If you merely "believe" in God to keep you out of hell, that's not saved. That's trying to cash your paycheck with Monopoly money. It's simply not going to work. If you don't believe/trust God yet, than obviously ask him for that. And be warned, asking for that is step one in becoming born-again/saved.
2. If you're not going to believe God enough to trust him, (be saved), then might as well have sex, because you already have sinned, and deserve hell.

And you're really going to need to trust God for this one, because, yeah. Honestly, you've already discovered sex and found out how great it is, so it's really hard to put the genie back in the Bible. God can keep you from having sex, (until your married, at which time it becomes so much better than random sex, it will blow your socks off), but to do that you need to trust him.

But our relationship with God isn't just to avoid hell. Truthfully, it's even above mere heaven. God has promised us God himself for eternity, and eternity starts at rebirth, not our bodies dying. So, first question for you is, do you want to have THAT relationship with God? Do you want to be saved by him? Do you want to trust God, instead of just use him as a "Get Out of Hell Free" card?

Let's start there.

 

[joefizz]

Well to be honest many people have done the same and think just the opposite,it's good that you have remorse for this,for that's what God looks upon,if you had no remorse then I would be worried for you,but more importantly you ought to just focus on doing right for God,God understands that we have desires one of the strongest being lust,often leading to physical intimate contact,with possibily even resulting in birth of a child,before marriage,always good to consider such results but that's part of our being in sin and the flesh wanting even when we don't really want any such things,but our conscience often says no but our flesh persists on yes,it's still our choice and sin but it's not unforgiveable,people who are on the verge of hell are those who don't care what they do no matter how sinful,try to just get your mind focused on other things,like church songs,kid like thoughts such as an old child hood show or read a bit of the bible,because the annoyance with lustful thoughts is that they come to you when you are bored/not thinking or you just feel aroused for out of the blue,it is a constant battle,but just try to focus on doing right not only for God but for your own sake,for lust can be somewhat overwhelming so try not to think on it so much and let God guide your actions,God knows that we have times of impulse,so don't beat yourself up over this,and try to find other things to focus your time and mind upon because if you have lust on the brain you'll most likely repeat what you've done before,I'm sure more people have good advice so that's all from me.

anyways,destiny if you missed my post due to that upset person here it is again and may God bless you!

 

[Depleted]

I am sorry to anyone that I have offended but I dont care. I believe in love and the real message of Jesus and God and some people here who obviously know the bible back to front like to quote and use their knowledge to assume some morally superior position. The problem with the bible is that it was written 2000 years ago. Yes I agree that it has very much relevance in every respect today in every sense but it is used for some people to justify their bad actions.

I'm glad you're already banned, because I need hip boots to walk through your pile of fresh manure. "I'm sorry" but "I don't care." Are you 52 or 5? Because I haven't seen this kind of tantrum on anyone over the age of 10. No one listens to children having temper tantrums.

(And I write this after you're banned knowing your so full of yourself you'll come back to gloat. That's what toddlers do when they have a tantrum and have yet to see if it worked. Last word I read of yours is "care.")

 

[NotmebutHim]

When Jesus told us to love one another, or to turn the other cheek, He didn't mean that we should just continually take abuse from other people. Remember this is the same Jesus who drove the money-changers out of the temple with a whip made out of cords...............

 

[PJW]

What a load of shit! the bible was not written by Jesus or god it was written by ignorant zealots like you. Sex outside of marriage? Yes well plenty of god fearing zealots shag prostitutes whilst in the sanctity of marriage. You people make me absolutly vomit. While the rest of the world's children struggle from day to day for only water and food you scumbags bleat on from your false pulpits. HERE IS WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO THE RIGHTEOUS MIDDLE AMERICA.
https://youtu.be/3mbBbFH9fAg

You apparently don't know what "God fearing" entails.
There are plenty of posers who have usurped the name "Christian", without the intent of obeying God.

 

[jaybird88]

When Jesus told us to love one another, or to turn the other cheek, He didn't mean that we should just continually take abuse from other people. Remember this is the same Jesus who drove the money-changers out of the temple with a whip made out of cords...............

thats the same Jesus that said when they dont listen treat them as a tax collector!

 

[kaylagrl]

Why is someone who was banned now saying "guest"?!

 

[Ugly]

Why is someone who was banned now saying "guest"?!

That means his account was deleted, but deleting an account leaves posts. Why they left his posts, though, I have no idea.

 

[tourist]

Why is someone who was banned now saying "guest"?!

It appears that he is making a guest appearance. Personally, I believe that he over-stayed his welcome. Never heard of the guy and wasn't aware that he was banned. Perhaps there was a glitch in the system that now categorizes him as a guest. Maybe he's a guess? Either way, no loss to us as he was rude and obnoxious in the few posts that he wrote.

 

[Zi]

He wasn't I'd say. Usually those who cuss and act up are. I assumed. Seems he was just deactivated.

 

[MarcR]

Im struggling with sex outside of marriage im scared im going to go to hell........... I believe in God and im truely sorry for having sex outside of marriage

None of us can live up to God's standard without His help.

If you have not asked Jesus to be your Lord and Savior and to take away your sin; that is the only place to start doing something about your problem.

When you take this first step, The Holy Spirit will come inside you to enable you to live a life pleasing to God.

Ro 8:5-9
5 For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
6 For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
9 But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
KJV

 

[Abetterme]

WHY ARE YOU HERE IF YOU ARE GOING TO BASH US AND BASH OUR LORD AND SAVIOR? THERE ARE PLENTY OF WEBSITES THAT YOU CAN SPEW YOUR EVIL THOUGHTS AND LANGUAGE!