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Demi777

Demi777

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FlSnookman7 said:
Don't worry about other people judging you, they only do that because they are insecure in their own lives. You are a beloved child of God and we here love you too! Do not forget to be grateful and joyful especially in trying times. My own birth father left when I was very young so in a way I understand your pain. I was in my mid 40s before I was able to let go of my anger and pain towards my birth father. I pray you are able to overcome it sooner.
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thanks snook.. its just so hard sometimes
 
Demi777

Demi777

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NoNameMcgee said:
ehhh

a few years from now when you two are married im sure people will lower their noses:rolleyes:


we are all growing

please dont let other peoples words keep you from being used here

ive seen you be pretty encouraging
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awww thanks I try :p hugs
 
Socreta93

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Demi777 said:
exacly..thats one reason why i havent been posting a lot in discussions anymore. people started to ignore me and seem to think that my opinion has become irrelevant all in all. the lack of compassion is sufficating. even if people disagree with my decisions, heck i dont always think others make the right decisions, i still tolorate the diffrences as everyone is different. But some people just bash and think pushing others away is a good alternative.
if Jesus had pushed away people for their choices none of us would be christians as people would have not followed him then
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I undrstand you completely, I want to say many things but afraid I'll offend many peoples beliefs on this sit and come at me with their flaming fingers of fire. Better to just stay silent. It sucks. I'm also sorry for what you're going through, I've read your testimony and I can't imagine going through that. Puts my life in perspective.
 
Tommy379

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Demi777 said:
exacly..thats one reason why i havent been posting a lot in discussions anymore. people started to ignore me and seem to think that my opinion has become irrelevant all in all. the lack of compassion is sufficating. even if people disagree with my decisions, heck i dont always think others make the right decisions, i still tolorate the diffrences as everyone is different. But some people just bash and think pushing others away is a good alternative.
if Jesus had pushed away people for their choices none of us would be christians as people would have not followed him then
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I still love you, darlin.
 
blue_ladybug

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It is wickedly cold outside right now. The wind chill factor is arctic. Only 5 of the 60 ducks are on the river right now. Even they think it's too cold.. lol
 
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Not only am I exhausted, my stomach also hurts.. I’m stuck at work...

And I just want cuddles from my little man. Sigh... :(

But seriously my stomach hurts so much it’s making me even more tired that I already was.
 
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eternally-gratefull

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Demi777 said:
exacly..thats one reason why i havent been posting a lot in discussions anymore. people started to ignore me and seem to think that my opinion has become irrelevant all in all. the lack of compassion is sufficating. even if people disagree with my decisions, heck i dont always think others make the right decisions, i still tolorate the diffrences as everyone is different. But some people just bash and think pushing others away is a good alternative.
if Jesus had pushed away people for their choices none of us would be christians as people would have not followed him then
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God loves ya, thats for sure. He loves us all.. Seek his guidance. Ask him what he thinks.. then listen, not based on your desires, but your heart.
 
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eternally-gratefull

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Demi777 said:
life for me is always tough even when things go well. Yea in the family forum the thread about a 17yr old with a 26 or so old. i revealed too much there because i got a pretty big age gap with mz bf myself and me saying that made hell break loose
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Remember where you are.. People are condemned because they believe in grace alone through grace alone..lol
 
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LittleBit1987 said:
Not only am I exhausted, my stomach also hurts.. I’m stuck at work...

And I just want cuddles from my little man. Sigh... :(

But seriously my stomach hurts so much it’s making me even more tired that I already was.
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Hope day is almost over, I been outside all day working, I feel like my toes are going to fall off. I can;t get them warm enough to stop hurting. And its not even January yet!! Lol. We all have our days and our pains. Praise God we are his children..
 
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oldethennew

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mailmandan said:
Of course it would hurt to be ignored by your own father and being replaced by someone else's children only adds salt to the wound. :eek:

You can't make someone want to have a relationship with you, but don't blame yourself for this unfortunate situation. This is on him! Again, his loss!
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very kindly and sweetly said, MMD...

MMD is right, Demi, it his great loss, for now, but God works in mysterious ways,
so just live your life with the greatest Blessing of ALL,
and that is knowing that Jesus Loves you so much, and always will.,, remember,
father is only human, with human weaknesses like all of us at different times
about certain things throughout our lives - but, don't stop loving him or praying for him,
The Lord has used him to give you life, and it sounds pretty amazing so far!...
forgive him, little one - I have never even seen my father or heard from him,
or any of his side of my lost family, but Jesus has taught me how to just let it go,
and know that all I will ever need as a daughter of God, is Him, and Him alone...
of course, He gave me hub!:)
 
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oldethennew

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eternally-gratefull said:
Hope day is almost over, I been outside all day working, I feel like my toes are going to fall off. I can;t get them warm enough to stop hurting. And its not even January yet!! Lol. We all have our days and our pains. Praise God we are his children..
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yeah,
when you get to the ripe-old-age of '52', it starts to catch-up with you...:eek:
 
homwardbound

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God does just Love us all. Otherwise, why would he have done what he has done by Son

[h=1]Colossians 1:22Authorized (King James) Version (AKJV)[/h][FONT=&quot]22 in the body of his flesh through death, to present you holy and unblameable and unreproveable in his sight:

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[h=1]Romans 5:10Authorized (King James) Version (AKJV)[/h][FONT=&quot]10 For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.

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[h=1]Galatians 2:20-21Authorized (King James) Version (AKJV)[/h][FONT=&quot]20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. 21 I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.

Thank You Father and Son as in Psalms 103:12 and 100:4 [/FONT]
 
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loverofjesus27

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Uhh this was the thread I mistakenly unsubscribed to. Hi, i’m Back
 
JesusLives

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homwardbound said:
God does just Love us all. Otherwise, why would he have done what he has done by Son

Colossians 1:22Authorized (King James) Version (AKJV)

22 in the body of his flesh through death, to present you holy and unblameable and unreproveable in his sight:


Romans 5:10Authorized (King James) Version (AKJV)

10 For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.


Galatians 2:20-21Authorized (King James) Version (AKJV)

20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. 21 I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.

Thank You Father and Son as in Psalms 103:12 and 100:4
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Welcome back have not seen you in quite some time.
 
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