why was he the beloved disciple - wincam
You are asking a question which definitely relates to the fact that God can both have no respect of persons, and have favor at the same time.
Jesus Christ of Nazareth, The Word of God, The Sword of The Spirit...appeared to us in the earthen vessel of God...which is one vessel united and individual at the same time... as we are one vessel united and individual at the same time. I can talk to myself, and I can talk to God, and I can talk to others. The real me is the born again measure of God from heaven interceding for my self by the measure of God given me (self being the earthen vessel identity...or sin in the flesh identity).
I believe personally that the reason he was called the disciple Jesus loved...is because John was allowed more time being physically closer to Him...thereby experiencing The Word of God a bit louder and more detailed than others. Peter and James also were favored in this way by being allowed also up on the mountain when Jesus was transfigured...and there are more examples of this kind of favor.
We are still equal though...because...
Luke 12:47-50King James Version (KJV)
47 And that servant, which knew his lord's will, and prepared not himself, neither did according to his will, shall be beaten with many stripes.
48 But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.
49 I am come to send fire on the earth; and what will I, if it be already kindled?
50 But I have a baptism to be baptized with; and how am I straitened till it be accomplished!
I do believe it's gonna be getting cold...and it would be wise to favor God in this way as well...by gathering together physically...living together in all things common with God...and according to the flesh...dying together if required. We are His flesh and His bones...and I want to be as close to the united and individual earthen vessel of God as I can be...like John. The game I have been introducing naturally kindles a fire for the cold of night. It is possible for dawn to be in the night...I do believe.
John 9:3-5King James Version (KJV)
3 Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him.
4 I must work the works of him that sent me, while it is day: the night cometh, when no man can work.
5 As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world.
1 Thessalonians 5:1-5King James Version (KJV)
5 But of the times and the seasons, brethren, ye have no need that I write unto you.
2 For yourselves know perfectly that the day of the Lord so cometh as a thief in the night.
3 For when they shall say, Peace and safety; then sudden destruction cometh upon them, as travail upon a woman with child; and they shall not escape.
4 But ye, brethren, are not in darkness, that that day should overtake you as a thief.
5 Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness.
Matthew 25:1-12King James Version (KJV)
25 Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom.
2 And five of them were wise, and five were foolish.
3 They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them:
4 But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps.
5 While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.
6 And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him.
7 Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps.
8 And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out.
9 But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves.
10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut.
11 Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us.
12 But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not.