The ignore the person who said he was gonna ignore people who didn't post....

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ember

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what exactly is this "perfect opportunity"? To condemn people for their failings? Just exactly why did you start this thread, and what do you hope comes from it? Please tell me, cuz I must be missing something.

start reading the posts from the beginning...an interesting thing is happening

and to be clear, I'm not saying it should happen or anyone saw it happening, but ....and I'm not trying to be mysterious

anyway, gotta go before my supper burns...
 
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Sirk

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I think people think that saying sorry is the way to go when a perceived offense has been committed. In my view...getting to the sorry too quickly prevents things from being said that may need to be said....truth revealed etc.
 
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DesiredHaven

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Those who embrace the grace, receive it.
Grace teaches you to deny the stuff that goes on here, no one seems to have grace working in them
 
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KennethC

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I think people think that saying sorry is the way to go when a perceived offense has been committed. In my view...getting to the sorry too quickly prevents things from being said that may need to be said....truth revealed etc.

Also a person just saying sorry means nothing if their actions continuing to be the same way toward that other person.
In other words a person can't say sorry then turn around and continue to make false allegations and demean the other person, as that shows they were never really sorry !!!
 
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psychomom

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I said probably, not affirmitively.

Thats all a probably can be is a hunch.

Patterns of things help to explain hunches a little better, however, they need to be tireless gathered and put forth and its not so important to do on this specific matter.

I can understand our feeling the same on a thing and yet at the same time possibly coming from a different angle on the same.
you said you 'suspect'.

i only mention it because words matter.
 
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purgedconscience

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Isnt the bible littered with the failings of men and God redeeming them? So now the focus is on my failing. Correct me, rebuke me...wherever that goes. I'm not gonna defend the post with my initial intentions. I've been accused of being too popular. Now I am unpopular and I'm okay with it. Let's learn something.
Yes, the Bible is littered with the failings of men and not just men, but mighty men of God like Moses, David, Jonah and Peter to name just a few.

I never expected that I'd be defending you when I logged on today because I sometimes think that you say inappropriate things, even as I've done myself, but I just want to commend you for standing up in this and I personally believe that God has already redeemed this thread.

Quite frankly, I'm proud of you, even though you initially used poor judgment, but with no malice I suppose.
 
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Sirk

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That is an outstanding question, one that deserves a well-thought out answer. And know, my friend, I intended to keep my PM between the two of us and not say anything on this thread, but I felt I had to reveal it in my comments to Ember, which are actually for all of us, including me.

I take the revelation I've received, one I am convinced is from God via the Holy Spirit, very seriously and if I'm going to take the stand, I can't just move on and ignore what I see as continuing examples of what is wrong with CC&F. If there are those out there who say, "Great, nothing worse than a self-centered extrovert with a holy cause," so be it.

Sirk, you happened to be the first I've actually done this with so strongly. I don't set myself up as a mod, or an admin, I'm not. But if we police ourselves, they won't have to, and maybe we can keep peace.

Amen, we all need to. I think some of what has been said to you here is unfair, and as Purged noted, "piling on."

If someone sees me violate the tenets I attempted so poorly to define yesterday, please do. I posted what I think we all know we need to do. Let's all take the responsibility. I'm not fireproof, but I might need to have my feet held to the fire every now and then.
No harm done. One thing I have never been accused of is being afraid of the light. At least from people who know me personally.
 
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Yes, the Bible is littered with the failings of men and not just men, but mighty men of God like Moses, David, Jonah and Peter to name just a few.

I never expected that I'd be defending you when I logged on today because I sometimes think that you say inappropriate things, even as I've done myself, but I just want to commend you for standing up in this and I personally believe that God has already redeemed this thread.

Quite frankly, I'm proud of you, even though you initially used poor judgment, but with no malice I suppose.
Are you also proud of a man who called my Jesus a liar? People seem to stand up for a man who blasphemes Jesus Christ and makes personal attacks daily on his saints, and has now also made a personal attack thread on Jason? How proud are all of you for that?

If blaspheming Jesus Christ on a Christian forum does not get a person banned, what will? Proud? Good Lord!
 
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Sirk

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Also a person just saying sorry means nothing if their actions continuing to be the same way toward that other person.
In other words a person can't say sorry then turn around and continue to make false allegations and demean the other person, as that shows they were never really sorry !!!
Will you please show me where I have made false allegations if that is what you are saying here? And I agree about the apology thing you mentioned.
 
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KennethC

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Will you please show me where I have made false allegations if that is what you are saying here? And I agree about the apology thing you mentioned.

I was not speaking of you, as what I was doing was agreeing to what you said and then adding on that when a person does apologize it has to be sincere and from the heart.

Many on here know that I have called one person out on a number of times (will not say the name) for an apology.
He has told me that he did apologize, but the problem was that it was an open apology and not directly to me. Plus he continued on to use the same demeaning and belittling language toward me and others, as well as continue with the false allegations. Therefore the apology was not a true sincere apology !!!
 
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DesiredHaven

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Are you also proud of a man who called my Jesus a liar? People seem to stand up for a man who blasphemes Jesus Christ and makes personal attacks daily on his saints, and has now also made a personal attack thread on Jason? How proud are all of you for that?

If blaspheming Jesus Christ on a Christian forum does not get a person banned, what will? Proud? Good Lord!
In all fairness he only blasphemed your Jesus Christ

So I think thats acceptable to do today
 

blue_ladybug

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In all fairness he only blasphemed your Jesus Christ

So I think thats acceptable to do today

whoa... wait a minute.. whatttttttttt???????????? explain this, DH.. it's NEVER acceptable to blaspheme Jesus Christ..
 
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Gr8grace

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Also a person just saying sorry means nothing if their actions continuing to be the same way toward that other person.
In other words a person can't say sorry then turn around and continue to make false allegations and demean the other person, as that shows they were never really sorry !!!
The OP has no false allegations in it. And what the man SAID is being scrutinized, not the man.

How many times have we seen " I have him on ignore." or "I am putting you on ignore." "why don't you just put him ignore?"

Iv'e seen these phrases 100's of times on this forum. Why aren't these folks held to the fire.

Read the OP.......Ignore him he lied. Simple as that. And there is no false allegation in it.
 
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kaylagrl

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Are you also proud of a man who called my Jesus a liar? People seem to stand up for a man who blasphemes Jesus Christ and makes personal attacks daily on his saints, and has now also made a personal attack thread on Jason? How proud are all of you for that?

If blaspheming Jesus Christ on a Christian forum does not get a person banned, what will? Proud? Good Lord!
Ive never known Sirk to act in such a manner ,I think you are mistaken. I dont think this was a personal attack thread either and I think people need to lighten up a bit around here.I dont know Jason well but his thread was out of line.He doesnt make the rules at CC. If he wants to put everyone on ignore that is immature but his right. But nothing in CC rules says you must use Scripture in your posts. And you are doing the same thing you are blaming Sirk for,personally attacking him. Seriously folks,lighten up.
 
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