That is an outstanding question, one that deserves a well-thought out answer. And know, my friend, I intended to keep my PM between the two of us and not say anything on this thread, but I felt I had to reveal it in my comments to Ember, which are actually for all of us, including me.
I take the revelation I've received, one I am convinced is from God via the Holy Spirit, very seriously and if I'm going to take the stand, I can't just move on and ignore what I see as continuing examples of what is wrong with CC&F. If there are those out there who say, "Great, nothing worse than a self-centered extrovert with a holy cause," so be it.
Sirk, you happened to be the first I've actually done this with so strongly. I don't set myself up as a mod, or an admin, I'm not. But if we police ourselves, they won't have to, and maybe we can keep peace.
Amen, we all need to. I think some of what has been said to you here is unfair, and as Purged noted, "piling on."
If someone sees me violate the tenets I attempted so poorly to define yesterday, please do. I posted what I think we all know we need to do. Let's all take the responsibility. I'm not fireproof, but I might need to have my feet held to the fire every now and then.