prov 3:5-6
if we cant be honest about ourselves with God bout everything we do we will just go round the mountain, we cant lean upon our own understanding to justify ourself and expect anything to change, starts with a heart decision to trust God with how honest we are bout ourselves, its not as if He doesnt know, we need to confess our faults that would have brought us to the problem to start with.... and that starts with not the blame game