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That wasnt the point at all. We are talking about the word UNTIL and whether Mary was a virgin all her life. THAT was what we were talking about.
it may well be for some but imho sex was not Mary's penchant and on reflection how could it be when she had the penchant of penchants in her life - wincam
 
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I don't know who would have actually seen Jesus as a bastard, that would involve God in something highly impure because He chose Mary to carry the only begotten Son of God in her womb.
the people who did not believe in him, and his message, saw him as a bastard.

The ones who did believe in him, saw him as the son of God.
 
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it may well be for some but imho sex was not Mary's penchant and on reflection how could it be when she had the penchant of penchants in her life - wincam
this makes no sense at all..
 

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clearly means he was good enough to refrain and restrain himself through reverence and fear and awe and more than likely continued to do so thereafter - wincam
And there you go yet again - putting your personal opinion right into the Scriptures.

"Until" in the context of the verse means Joseph had normal sexual relations with Mary only after she had given birth to Jesus.

That is what it "clearly" states.

Stop trying to wedge your personal views into God's Word.
 
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it may well be for some but imho sex was not Mary's penchant and on reflection how could it be when she had the penchant of penchants in her life - wincam

Mary was not wrong to have sex,she wasn't wrong for wanting sex.She was married.There is no sin in having sex with your husband. Its not a penchant,its a command. Couples are not to deny each,your bodies belong to each other. Stop trying to make sex look dirty inside marriage. Mary was NOT sinless,so you can stop saying she never had sex.She never forgave a sin,she never performed a miracle,she never accepted worship. You're wrong.The Bible is the truth,not you!
 

Budman

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no doubt Jesus had step brothers who were the sons of Joseph not the sons of Mary
That's an old apocryphal story that even Catholics don't put any stock in. There is zero evidence that Joseph was married and had children before he was betrothed to Mary.

Stick with reality.
 

Magenta

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That's an old apocryphal story that even Catholics don't put any stock in. There is zero evidence that Joseph was married and had children before he was betrothed to Mary.

Stick with reality.
"They" say Joseph was ninety when he wed 12 or 13 year old Mary.
 

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How about some common sense.

Matt. 1:25 - this verse says Joseph knew her "not until ("heos", in Greek)" she bore a son. Some Protestants argue that this proves Joseph had relations with Mary after she bore a son. This is an erroneous reading of the text because "not until" does not mean "did not...until after." "Heos" references the past, never the future. Instead, "not until" she bore a son means "not up to the point that" she bore a son. This confirms that Mary was a virgin when she bore Jesus. Here are other texts that prove "not until" means "not up to the point that":

Matt. 28:29 - I am with you "until the end of the world." This does not mean Jesus is not with us after the end of the world.

Luke 1:80 - John was in the desert "up to the point of his manifestation to Israel." Not John "was in the desert until after" his manifestation.

Luke 2:37 - Anna was a widow "up to the point that" she was eighty-four years old. She was not a widow after eighty-four years old.

Luke 20:43 - Jesus says, "take your seat at my hand until I have made your enemies your footstool." Jesus is not going to require the apostles to sit at His left hand after their enemies are their footstool.

1 Tim. 4:13 - "up to the point that I come," attend to teaching and preaching. It does not mean do nothing "until after" I come.

Gen. 8:7 - the raven flew back and forth "up to the point that" [until] the waters dried from the earth. The raven did not start flying after the waters dried.

Gen. 28:15 - the Lord won't leave Jacob "up to the point that" he does His promise. This does not mean the Lord will leave Jacob afterward.

Deut. 34:6 - but "up to the point of today" no one knows Moses' burial place. This does not mean that "they did not know place until today."

2 Sam. 6:23 - Saul's daughter Micah was childless "up to the point" [until] her death. She was not with child after her death.

Not to go real heavy into the original Greek of that verse, but the actual Greek used for until is heos hou. Note that it can be read “before” or “until” but neither imply that “after Jesus was born”, that Mary and Joseph had sex. That’s not what the phrase reads…it reads that they did not have sex to insure that the readers and hearers of the Gospel would know there was no way that Jesus was Joseph’s biological son – St. Matthew put it there, through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, to insure no misunderstandings. And it’s not just Catholics who “read it this way”. It is an ecumenical (multiple denominations) truth that the finest Biblical theologians and scholars – Catholic and Protestant – have attested to for decades.

Sometimes people fall into the trap that because their Bible occasionally refers to the “brothers of Jesus” (Mk 3:31-32, Jn 7:3-10) that Mary must have had other kids following Christ. Again, the translation is an important issue. First, realize that the Greek language is not like the English that you speak. The word “brothers” in these translations encompasses far more than “blood brothers” – it includes (but is not limited to)
stepbrothers,
adopted brothers,
cousins,
close family friends
and (in some cases) even the children of handmaids or servants.

Second, the “brothers of Jesus”, James and Joseph, are sons of another Mary whom St. Matthew un-affectionately called (the other Mary) (Mt. 28:1). Third, many Biblical scholars attest and believe that the “brothers” are sons of Joseph from a previous marriage – thus, making them stepbrothers. Though I’m not a Biblical scholar, after extensive, extensive study into the life of St. Joseph, I find this assertion to be quite a compelling argument, as well. Lastly, it was a commonly held belief that Mary was a perpetual virgin taught by the early reformers– which goes to show not the Church’s dominance in thought, but the commonly held Tradition passed down from generation to generation, especially among the Johnnine (St. John’s followers) communities of the early Church, with whom Mary lived following the Passion of our Lord (Jn 19:27).
 

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That explains in part why Mary and Joseph never (according to the Roman Catholic view) had sex... perhaps Mary was afraid old Joe would have a heart attack and die were she to... and then, his kids, her step children, were all probably much older than she was. We tend to think of them as younger than Jesus, since Jesus was obviously the eldest, but for Catholics His siblings could have been in their sixties and seventies. Joseph married someone younger than his own children!
 

Budman

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How about some common sense.

Matt. 1:25 - this verse says Joseph knew her "not until ("heos", in Greek)" she bore a son. Some Protestants argue that this proves Joseph had relations with Mary after she bore a son. This is an erroneous reading of the text because "not until" does not mean "did not...until after." "Heos" references the past, never the future. Instead, "not until" she bore a son means "not up to the point that" she bore a son. This confirms that Mary was a virgin when she bore Jesus. Here are other texts that prove "not until" means "not up to the point that":

Matt. 28:29 - I am with you "until the end of the world." This does not mean Jesus is not with us after the end of the world.

Luke 1:80 - John was in the desert "up to the point of his manifestation to Israel." Not John "was in the desert until after" his manifestation.

Luke 2:37 - Anna was a widow "up to the point that" she was eighty-four years old. She was not a widow after eighty-four years old.

Luke 20:43 - Jesus says, "take your seat at my hand until I have made your enemies your footstool." Jesus is not going to require the apostles to sit at His left hand after their enemies are their footstool.

1 Tim. 4:13 - "up to the point that I come," attend to teaching and preaching. It does not mean do nothing "until after" I come.

Gen. 8:7 - the raven flew back and forth "up to the point that" [until] the waters dried from the earth. The raven did not start flying after the waters dried.

Gen. 28:15 - the Lord won't leave Jacob "up to the point that" he does His promise. This does not mean the Lord will leave Jacob afterward.

Deut. 34:6 - but "up to the point of today" no one knows Moses' burial place. This does not mean that "they did not know place until today."

2 Sam. 6:23 - Saul's daughter Micah was childless "up to the point" [until] her death. She was not with child after her death.

Not to go real heavy into the original Greek of that verse, but the actual Greek used for until is heos hou. Note that it can be read “before” or “until” but neither imply that “after Jesus was born”, that Mary and Joseph had sex. That’s not what the phrase reads…it reads that they did not have sex to insure that the readers and hearers of the Gospel would know there was no way that Jesus was Joseph’s biological son – St. Matthew put it there, through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, to insure no misunderstandings. And it’s not just Catholics who “read it this way”. It is an ecumenical (multiple denominations) truth that the finest Biblical theologians and scholars – Catholic and Protestant – have attested to for decades.

Sometimes people fall into the trap that because their Bible occasionally refers to the “brothers of Jesus” (Mk 3:31-32, Jn 7:3-10) that Mary must have had other kids following Christ. Again, the translation is an important issue. First, realize that the Greek language is not like the English that you speak. The word “brothers” in these translations encompasses far more than “blood brothers” – it includes (but is not limited to)
stepbrothers,
adopted brothers,
cousins,
close family friends
and (in some cases) even the children of handmaids or servants.

Second, the “brothers of Jesus”, James and Joseph, are sons of another Mary whom St. Matthew un-affectionately called (the other Mary) (Mt. 28:1). Third, many Biblical scholars attest and believe that the “brothers” are sons of Joseph from a previous marriage – thus, making them stepbrothers. Though I’m not a Biblical scholar, after extensive, extensive study into the life of St. Joseph, I find this assertion to be quite a compelling argument, as well. Lastly, it was a commonly held belief that Mary was a perpetual virgin taught by the early reformers– which goes to show not the Church’s dominance in thought, but the commonly held Tradition passed down from generation to generation, especially among the Johnnine (St. John’s followers) communities of the early Church, with whom Mary lived following the Passion of our Lord (Jn 19:27).

You do love your cut and pastes, dontcha, epostle?

Every point of your post was ridiculous. You can't take one situation and ram other completely different situations into it and claim they all mean the exact same thing!

That's like saying when the book of Revelation talks about Jesus killing His enemies with a sword coming out of His mouth, it means every time in scripture someone is wielding a sword, it's hanging out of their mouths. Or when it describes God Himself as a "consuming fire" it means all fire mentioned in Scripture is actually God.

Context is everything.

You really need to take a class on debate.
 

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You do love your cut and pastes, dontcha, epostle?

Every point of your post was ridiculous. You can't take one situation and ram other completely different situations into it and claim they all mean the exact same thing!

That's like saying when the book of Revelation talks about Jesus killing His enemies with a sword coming out of His mouth, it means every time in scripture someone is wielding a sword, it's hanging out of their mouths. Or when it describes God Himself as a "consuming fire" it means all fire mentioned in Scripture is actually God.

Context is everything.

You really need to take a class on debate.
Meanwhile he will claim that he would like to follow the rules of debate, including putting a cap on the word count, when you sometimes cannot even put two of his posts together because they will exceed 20,000 characters. Dishonesty takes many forms.
 

Budman

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Meanwhile he will claim that he would like to follow the rules of debate, including putting a cap on the word count, when you sometimes cannot even put two of his posts together because they will exceed 20,000 characters. Dishonesty takes many forms.

Exactly.

And he doesn't have an original thought. He mostly cuts and pastes articles from Catholic sites. He's just a parrot.
 
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How about some common sense.

Matt. 1:25 - this verse says Joseph knew her "not until ("heos", in Greek)" she bore a son. Some Protestants argue that this proves Joseph had relations with Mary after she bore a son. This is an erroneous reading of the text because "not until" does not mean "did not...until after." "Heos" references the past, never the future. Instead, "not until" she bore a son means "not up to the point that" she bore a son. This confirms that Mary was a virgin when she bore Jesus. Here are other texts that prove "not until" means "not up to the point that":

Matt. 28:29 - I am with you "until the end of the world." This does not mean Jesus is not with us after the end of the world.

Luke 1:80 - John was in the desert "up to the point of his manifestation to Israel." Not John "was in the desert until after" his manifestation.

Luke 2:37 - Anna was a widow "up to the point that" she was eighty-four years old. She was not a widow after eighty-four years old.

Luke 20:43 - Jesus says, "take your seat at my hand until I have made your enemies your footstool." Jesus is not going to require the apostles to sit at His left hand after their enemies are their footstool.

1 Tim. 4:13 - "up to the point that I come," attend to teaching and preaching. It does not mean do nothing "until after" I come.

Gen. 8:7 - the raven flew back and forth "up to the point that" [until] the waters dried from the earth. The raven did not start flying after the waters dried.

Gen. 28:15 - the Lord won't leave Jacob "up to the point that" he does His promise. This does not mean the Lord will leave Jacob afterward.

Deut. 34:6 - but "up to the point of today" no one knows Moses' burial place. This does not mean that "they did not know place until today."

2 Sam. 6:23 - Saul's daughter Micah was childless "up to the point" [until] her death. She was not with child after her death.

Not to go real heavy into the original Greek of that verse, but the actual Greek used for until is heos hou. Note that it can be read “before” or “until” but neither imply that “after Jesus was born”, that Mary and Joseph had sex. That’s not what the phrase reads…it reads that they did not have sex to insure that the readers and hearers of the Gospel would know there was no way that Jesus was Joseph’s biological son – St. Matthew put it there, through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, to insure no misunderstandings. And it’s not just Catholics who “read it this way”. It is an ecumenical (multiple denominations) truth that the finest Biblical theologians and scholars – Catholic and Protestant – have attested to for decades.

Sometimes people fall into the trap that because their Bible occasionally refers to the “brothers of Jesus” (Mk 3:31-32, Jn 7:3-10) that Mary must have had other kids following Christ. Again, the translation is an important issue. First, realize that the Greek language is not like the English that you speak. The word “brothers” in these translations encompasses far more than “blood brothers” – it includes (but is not limited to)
stepbrothers,
adopted brothers,
cousins,
close family friends
and (in some cases) even the children of handmaids or servants.

Second, the “brothers of Jesus”, James and Joseph, are sons of another Mary whom St. Matthew un-affectionately called (the other Mary) (Mt. 28:1). Third, many Biblical scholars attest and believe that the “brothers” are sons of Joseph from a previous marriage – thus, making them stepbrothers. Though I’m not a Biblical scholar, after extensive, extensive study into the life of St. Joseph, I find this assertion to be quite a compelling argument, as well. Lastly, it was a commonly held belief that Mary was a perpetual virgin taught by the early reformers– which goes to show not the Church’s dominance in thought, but the commonly held Tradition passed down from generation to generation, especially among the Johnnine (St. John’s followers) communities of the early Church, with whom Mary lived following the Passion of our Lord (Jn 19:27).


,Mary was not sinless! She never performed a miracle,never healed anyone,never accepted worship,never claimed to be anything but what she was,100% human! You can twist in the wind over her virginity,she was human and needed Christ as her savior. Its in the Book,look it up!
 
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Mary was not wrong to have sex,she wasn't wrong for wanting sex.She was married.There is no sin in having sex with your husband. Its not a penchant,its a command. Couples are not to deny each,your bodies belong to each other. Stop trying to make sex look dirty inside marriage. Mary was NOT sinless,so you can stop saying she never had sex.She never forgave a sin,she never performed a miracle,she never accepted worship. You're wrong.The Bible is the truth,not you!

Mary a bit like Adam and Eve was created sinless but unlike them stayed that way and was specially saved from sin and death by her saviour son who she did not crucify like Adam and Eve and you and I - wincam
 

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Mary a bit like Adam and Eve was created sinless but unlike them stayed that way and was specially saved from sin and death by her saviour son who she did not crucify like Adam and Eve and you and I - wincam

Says a person who has never read the Bible, apparently.

The Bible, over and over again, proclaims there is none sinless - not even one. All have sinned - including Mary. The only place you will ever find anyone still claiming Mary was sinless, is within the apostate Catholic church.

If you can't prove your claims from the Bible - you just need to stop. Because so far, you've done nothing but contradict God's written word.
 
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Says a person who has never read the Bible, apparently.

The Bible, over and over again, proclaims there is none sinless - not even one. All have sinned - including Mary. The only place you will ever find anyone still claiming Mary was sinless, is within the apostate Catholic church.

If you can't prove your claims from the Bible - you just need to stop. Because so far, you've done nothing but contradict God's written word.
it is you that contradicts God's written word for it seems you don't really know but presume you infallibly do know presumably being specially inspired by the HS therby involving the HS in your nonsense and confusion - so what is it to be have all sinned and are there none righteous - firstly make sure you have the correct infallible information inspired by the HS - wincam
 
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Mary a bit like Adam and Eve was created sinless but unlike them stayed that way and was specially saved from sin and death by her saviour son who she did not crucify like Adam and Eve and you and I - wincam
why? For what purpose? Was mary born of a virgin so adams seed did not touch her?

sorry, It does not fit. and has no reason to fit.
 
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it is you that contradicts God's written word for it seems you don't really know but presume you infallibly do know presumably being specially inspired by the HS therby involving the HS in your nonsense and confusion - so what is it to be have all sinned and are there none righteous - firstly make sure you have the correct infallible information inspired by the HS - wincam
Just read the word for what it says, It does not take a scholar. Anyone can read it.

No one is good but God. those were jesus own words. Was Mary God?
 
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Mary a bit like Adam and Eve was created sinless but unlike them stayed that way and was specially saved from sin and death by her saviour son who she did not crucify like Adam and Eve and you and I - wincam
He died for her sin on the cross the same as he did for all of us. Mary wasnt created sinless,she was not deity. Adam and Eve were thrown out of the garden because they SINNED. Yes,her sins put Him on the cross.Nowhere does the Bible say she was sinless.Jesus had to explain to his parents his mission on earth. His blood saved them the same way it does us.