What does honor mean?

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G-d does not say love your parents, He does not say respect them, like them, or even be a "good" to them but honor them? What does G-d mean by honor?
If you look up the word "Honor" in the dictionary, you will see the term righteousness mentioned as well. This is what He means to honor our parents. To do the will of the Father harboring integrity and morality based on a proper relationship with God, doing His will over our own, until in our Character He forges our character to demonstrate His will becoming our will as well. To lift them up in the rightness of the Father's Spiritual Truth's.

If the Son of God has been born into my human flesh, then am I allowing His holy innocence, simplicity, and oneness with the Father the opportunity to exhibit itself in me? What was true of the Virgin Mary in the history of the Son of God’s birth on earth is true of every saint. God’s Son is born into me through the direct act of God; then I as His child must exercise the right of a child - the right of always being face to face with my Father through prayer. Do I find myself continually saying in amazement to the commonsense part of my life, “Why did you want me to turn here or to go over there? ‘Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?’ ” (Luke 2:49). Whatever our circumstances may be, that holy, innocent, and eternal Child must be in contact with His Father.

Am I simple enough to identify myself with my Lord in this way? Is He having His wonderful way with me? Is God’s will being fulfilled in that His Son has been formed in me (see Galatians 4:19), or have I carefully pushed Him to one side? Oh, the noisy outcry of today! Why does everyone seem to be crying out so loudly? People today are crying out for the Son of God to be put to death. There is no room here for God’s Son right now - no room for quiet, holy fellowship and oneness with the Father.

Is the Son of God praying in me, bringing honor to the Father, in relationship to my earthly Father? or am I dictating my demands to Him? Is He ministering in me as He did in the time of His manhood here on earth? Is God’s Son in me going through His passion, suffering so that His own purposes might be fulfilled? The more a person knows of the inner life of God’s most mature saints, the more he sees what God’s purpose really is: to “…fill up in my flesh what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ…” (Col. 1:24). And when we think of what it takes to “fill up,” there is always something yet to be done.

Honoring my parents simply means to be about my life in Christ in relationship to them, where I seek first His Kingdom and live according to righteousness with integrity and moral standards I keep according to God's will.
 
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If you look up the word "Honor" in the dictionary, you will see the term righteousness mentioned as well. This is what He means to honor our parents. To do the will of the Father harboring integrity and morality based on a proper relationship with God, doing His will over our own, until in our Character He forges our character to demonstrate His will becoming our will as well. To lift them up in the rightness of the Father's Spiritual Truth's.

If the Son of God has been born into my human flesh, then am I allowing His holy innocence, simplicity, and oneness with the Father the opportunity to exhibit itself in me? What was true of the Virgin Mary in the history of the Son of God’s birth on earth is true of every saint. God’s Son is born into me through the direct act of God; then I as His child must exercise the right of a child - the right of always being face to face with my Father through prayer. Do I find myself continually saying in amazement to the commonsense part of my life, “Why did you want me to turn here or to go over there? ‘Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?’ ” (Luke 2:49). Whatever our circumstances may be, that holy, innocent, and eternal Child must be in contact with His Father.

Am I simple enough to identify myself with my Lord in this way? Is He having His wonderful way with me? Is God’s will being fulfilled in that His Son has been formed in me (see Galatians 4:19), or have I carefully pushed Him to one side? Oh, the noisy outcry of today! Why does everyone seem to be crying out so loudly? People today are crying out for the Son of God to be put to death. There is no room here for God’s Son right now - no room for quiet, holy fellowship and oneness with the Father.

Is the Son of God praying in me, bringing honor to the Father, in relationship to my earthly Father? or am I dictating my demands to Him? Is He ministering in me as He did in the time of His manhood here on earth? Is God’s Son in me going through His passion, suffering so that His own purposes might be fulfilled? The more a person knows of the inner life of God’s most mature saints, the more he sees what God’s purpose really is: to “…fill up in my flesh what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ…” (Col. 1:24). And when we think of what it takes to “fill up,” there is always something yet to be done.

Honoring my parents simply means to be about my life in Christ in relationship to them, where I seek first His Kingdom and live according to righteousness with integrity and moral standards I keep according to God's will.
An Honorable bond of Peace.
 
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G-d does not say love your parents, He does not say respect them, like them, or even be a "good" to them but honor them? What does G-d mean by honor?
excellent word.
 
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[h=1]Romans 12 New International Version (NIV)[/h][h=3]A Living Sacrifice[/h][FONT=&quot]12 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.[/FONT]
[h=3]Humble Service in the Body of Christ[/h][FONT=&quot]3 For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you. 4 For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, 5 so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. 6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your[a]faith; 7 if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; 8 if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead,[b] do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.[/FONT]
[h=3]Love in Action[/h][FONT=&quot]9 Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. 10 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.11 Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. 13 Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position.[c] Do not be conceited.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,”[d] says the Lord. 20 On the contrary:[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot][FONT=&quot]“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”[e][/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.[/FONT]
 

zeroturbulence

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G-d does not say love your parents, He does not say respect them, like them, or even be a "good" to them but honor them? What does G-d mean by honor?
- Treat them with respect
- Be obedient to them
- Listen to what they tell you
- Love them
 
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Ariel82

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- Treat them with respect
- Be obedient to them
- Listen to what they tell you
- Love them
Obedience is only required if they don't tell you to do things that are morally wrong....like have sex for money..
 

MarcR

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Obedience is only required if they don't tell you to do things that are morally wrong....like have sex for money..
Agreed, but in addition obedience is only required while you are dependent on their provision.

As an adult living independently obedience is not required; but may at times still be part of honoring them.