Why "Empathy" Is Not In The Bible

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Ok. I can understand that but i dont know why you would listen to any of that or any of it would matter to you at all. I have no use at all for paying attention to what the lost say, unless it is about a need they have so i may serve them. Otherwise, they dont have the truth it doesnt make any sense to care about what they believe it simply doesnt matter.

Why not answer the rest of my questions. I can answer them from my own perspective if you like but, I have very good reason for asking all of them.

It doesnt matter what i believe, that being said, i believe you are mistaken. Empathy is not what you think it is. Empathy is not sharing feelings or feeling what another feels. It is more like, we both see a movie. We have both experienced the movie. You experienced it differently than i did because we are unique individuals. However, the experience is shared even though there are many details that we may see differently, empathy is about what is common. When my parents died, all of my siblings and I were grieving the loss of the same people. Each persons grief is different even though we were grieving the same people. Empathy is about the commonality, the shared feelings, the similarity of the experience. When my friends lose their parents, I grieve with them. That is empathy. I have the experience of suffering a similar loss. It is not their experience it is mine. but it is similar so i can relate. It is a choice of carrying another persons burdens with them and it is very closely related to sympathy and compassion.

that being said, It really doesnt matter what i believe it is nor what you believe it is. It is one word. It happens to be that every poster here disagrees with you and I agree with them. This is why i asked you about the way you receive correction from god. If you look at posts i have posted, even ones from today while i was posting things God was correcting me. I receive his correction all the time in countless ways. ONE of those ways is through other members of the body of Christ.

I see alot of good things from you. I believe i said that. Good godly things. It seems to me that your spiritual maturity is somewhere between newborn and enlightened. Sort of a teenager in christ spiritually speaking. However, for all i know you are a newborn. You may have been saved ten years ago and not have grown at all. I see this all the time. This is why i asked you the questions. I tell you the truth, the closer you are to God the more corrections you will receive until you are like me havin God correct you moment to moment throughout every single day of your life. Where i am is a beautiful place to be. I dont know if u can get here without listening to God correcting you which is why i asked. The questions were for your sake not for me. MY cup is overflowing. I live in abundance in riches from God that I receive faster than i can give away and i know more is coming. I believe you are saved. I believe you love God, but it seems to me that you do so weakly, and perhaps you arent practicing humility or even understand what that means. My life wont change if you dont answer, or speak to the questions and just say simply i have no idea what u mean could you explain for me. I am willing to serve you as i consider that my job and i love to do it. As it is written, serve one another in love. But you will have to ask something of me in order for me to give you anything.

Your servant in Christ,
Joseph
I don't post something unless I know what I am talking about it. It is you that needs correction. The psychological profession says that there are certain evolved humans who can read the true intentions of someone no matter how well the intentions are masked. That is empathy and it involves the development of mirror neurons.
 

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I don't post something unless I know what I am talking about it. It is you that needs correction. The psychological profession says that there are certain evolved humans who can read the true intentions of someone no matter how well the intentions are masked. That is empathy and it involves the development of mirror neurons.
Please provide a source that supports your claims specifically.
 
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I don't post something unless I know what I am talking about it. It is you that needs correction. The psychological profession says that there are certain evolved humans who can read the true intentions of someone no matter how well the intentions are masked. That is empathy and it involves the development of mirror neurons.

Ok that makes things completely clear to me. Thank you. The difference between us is, I believe. You KNOW. I used to think i knew stuff too. too many times God showed me how everything i thought i knew was hogwash. Pretty much like this thread and what you think you know but i agree with you on many points. What you think empathy is, is hogwash. As i said before, that isnt real, so i agree with that. The only thing we disagree on is the actual definition of empathy. You seem to continually insist that this "ama" or "psychological profession" definition involving mirror neurons is what the word "empathy" is about. We disagree on that. However, you have yet to quote a source for your information. when i first read your post I looked up what you said and couldnt find it anywhere. Until you can show us a source for this, I have to say I have no further interest in this thread or responding here. Enjoy and God's peace be with you.
 
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Please provide a source that supports your claims specifically.
I dont know that he can do this or he probably allready would have. It has been asked several times in the thread. I searched for it and found the opposite of what he said. It is probably out there somewhere in some obscure papers or something but, its so far out of line with the definition of the word empathy as to be totally absurd. I have no idea why any believer would chose such a far out source to quote or argue and state things about scripture through. He doesnt seem to be at all willing to even discuss his own personal relationship with God so, I dont see how i can serve him at all. Still trying. Still praying.

Your servant in Christ,
Joseph
 

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I don't post something unless I know what I am talking about it. It is you that needs correction. The psychological profession says that there are certain evolved humans who can read the true intentions of someone no matter how well the intentions are masked. That is empathy and it involves the development of mirror neurons.
Please provide a source that supports your claims specifically.
It is all over the Internet. Here is one on if you deny climate change you lack empathy: https://climatedenial.org/2008/12/03/climate-change-and-the-empathy-deficit/
Let's try this again, in English this time...

Please provide a source that specifically supports your claim that "The psychological profession says that there are certain evolved humans who can read the true intentions of someone no matter how well the intentions are masked."
 
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Let's try this again, in English this time...

Please provide a source that specifically supports your claim that "The psychological profession says that there are certain evolved humans who can read the true intentions of someone no matter how well the intentions are masked."
You said "claims". That was my claim in the OP. Let's see you deal with that first since my dealings with you in this forum in the past has been you demanding me for backup and then you denying that I provided backup.
 

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You said "claims". That was my claim in the OP. Let's see you deal with that first since my dealings with you in this forum in the past has been you demanding me for backup and then you denying that I provided backup.
You haven't yet provided the support I requested for your OP. I'm not "demanding" anything; I'm not your boss. I am simply demonstrating the insolvency of your argument by requesting that which you have, thus far, failed to supply.

You've said repeatedly that "empathy" (according to your definition of it) doesn't appear at all in the Bible. I agree... according to your definition, it doesn't. However, according to any actual dictionary definition, it does.

When you're ready to admit that you have blown this issue far out of all reasonable proportion, I'll be happy to let it drop.
 

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You can find the words "sympathy" and "compassion" in the Bible but not "empathy". Why? Because you can have feelings FOR another person but you can't have the feelings OF another person. Empathy is a made up concept pushed by the American Psychological Assoc. (A political activist group) that you lack empathy if you aren't for a centralized socialist government take over. You are lower on the evolution scale if you reject global warming, gay marriage, no religion, gun confiscation, Marxism, etc.
I could simply answer this by saying "Compassion" is innately sympathetic and as we get to know our Lord better and we are transformed by Him we become empathetic by way of maturing spiritually; and if He affords us our own experiences in struggle and pain - also a deeper empathetic heart is solidified and produced in Christ.

When I was a younger man I always had sympathy for another's plight in injury, because I knew my Father's mercy for He first loved me. And as I grew to know my Father in heaven more, I understood His compassion even more and empathy was in my heart given to me by the Holy Spirit. But in addition to that now as an older man I have experienced personal pain and injury. I have fallen 28 ft. two floors and got busted up real good - my sympathy has been afforded by God to be much more than that. I now have personal empathy for people who have experienced similar plights.. I feel their pain at a level as if I myself had experienced what they are talking about and walking thru, due to my own experiences relating to it.

This, therefore goes beyond sympathy in the arena of compassion, and beyond even spiritual empathy, but it combines spiritual empathy with personal experiences... brightening my love for people in a real way, as the light of Christ enlightens me.

I haven't read all of these posts here, but I wanted to state that it is important to remember when we go thru hardships and injuries and calamities at all levels and notations, we need to make a choice when we hit that crossroad wall God takes us thru. Will I simply be a surviver of my calamity? Or will I recognize the opportunity God has given me to become a unique Ambassador of Christ's love and Mercy filled with His power by loving others more than myself?

God needs workers to be courageous in the field. circumstances that have harbored painful realities for us are opportunities to use what we have gained thru God forging our character to love people all the more courageously filled with His compassion, that is also now our own.

Spiritual courage is the high heart that sees the difficulty and faces it. That is the courage that is valuable to God. No man has greater love than to lay down his life for another. Now I know some men who have been in war have seen this; and even though they know not God, they felt a connection to their brothers on the field that brought them to an empathetic decision - "If my life can benefit another I will give it with all my heart and body for I know what they are going thru." Empathy is more than heroics it is a part of compassion, as is sympathy .... making us a powerful Ambassador for Christ.

The whole socialist take over - if you aren't for a ... "etc etc" storyline thing is ..... whatever to me. I see that going places I need not travel.

 
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You haven't yet provided the support I requested for your OP.
That's your mantra here in this forum. You don't analyze. Yet I have supported my OP. This is only one of many (from the last link I provided):

"This is an extract from Roman Krznaric’s essay ‘Empathy and Climate Change: Proposals for a Revolution of Human Relationships’, written for the University of Manchester workshops on ‘Future Ethics: Climate Change, Political Action and the Future of the Human’ link You can download the complete version from www.romankrznaric.com.

Roman Krznaric is the expert on Empathy at The School of Life in London. You can see a 6 minute video of Roman talking about empathy and climate change link.."
 

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Proverbs 21:13, "Whoever closes his ear to the cry of the poor will himself call out and not be answered. "
Hebrews 13:3, "Remember those who are in prison, as though in prison with them, and those who are mistreated, since you also are in the body. "

John 11:33, "יהושע, therefore, when He saw her weeping, and the Yehuḏim who came with her weeping, He groaned in the spirit and was troubled,"

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Gal 6:2
Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
KJV

This is not the word empathy but it is certainly the concept

Rom 12:15
15 Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.
KJV

as is this!
we should relate to others issues in we are in the body of Messiah and His disciples; or seek to be.
 
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You haven't yet provided the support I requested for your OP. I'm not "demanding" anything; I'm not your boss. I am simply demonstrating the insolvency of your argument by requesting that which you have, thus far, failed to supply.

You've said repeatedly that "empathy" (according to your definition of it) doesn't appear at all in the Bible. I agree... according to your definition, it doesn't. However, according to any actual dictionary definition, it does.

When you're ready to admit that you have blown this issue far out of all reasonable proportion, I'll be happy to let it drop.

You are wasting your time unless you are having fun on this thread brother. HIs name says DEVOTIONTOBIBLE
but his words say otherwise. OUt of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. hear his words and know his heart. Serve him in love, he cant respond to it.
 

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That's your mantra here in this forum. You don't analyze. Yet I have supported my OP. This is only one of many (from the last link I provided):

"This is an extract from Roman Krznaric’s essay ‘Empathy and Climate Change: Proposals for a Revolution of Human Relationships’, written for the University of Manchester workshops on ‘Future Ethics: Climate Change, Political Action and the Future of the Human’ link You can download the complete version from www.romankrznaric.com.

Roman Krznaric is the expert on Empathy at The School of Life in London. You can see a 6 minute video of Roman talking about empathy and climate change link.."
Roman Krznaric is a "social philosopher" according to the web site. His Ph.D. is in political sociology, not psychology. I could not find the book you mention.

You started with such grand assertions, and yet so far you have failed to support your assertions with anything more than the most tenuous of connections. I checked all six pages; in support of your assertions, you have provided one barely-relevant link, and a second reference to the same link.

This thread should have been started in the Conspiracy forum; that's where it belongs.