The ones He cherishes

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Rosyshine

Senior Member
Feb 26, 2017
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Hi everyone,

It's been a long time since I've posted on here. I hope y'all are doing well.

Tonight I'm thinking about Jesus and His love and care for His church. It's a topic I'd like to explore because it makes me feel so special when I read about His love for the church, how He cherishes us like a bride.

I've been thinking a lot about marriage lately. I've been searching for husband candidates, which has been interesting/fun and painful at times.

I realized recently as I got ready for a date, as I was talking to myself during my prep time, that my deepest desire is Jesus - for more closeness with Him. I also realized that part of my reason for searching for a man was that hunger for a deeper relationship with God.

So that's part of the reason I want to look into this more - because I want to go deeper.

Anyhow, I'll start simple tonight.

I'm going to post a few different translations (to see the variety of wording) of the same passage of scripture that caught my attention tonight. I searched for references to the bride or things related to the topic.

What really touches my heart here are the descriptions of Christ's tender care:

“Out of respect for Christ, be courteously reverent to one another. Wives, understand and support your husbands in ways that show your support for Christ. The husband provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to his church, not by domineering but by cherishing. So just as the church submits to Christ as he exercises such leadership, wives should likewise submit to their husbands.

Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church—a love marked by giving, not getting. Christ’s love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness. And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They’re really doing themselves a favor—since they’re already “one” in marriage.

No one abuses his own body, does he? No, he feeds and pampers it. That’s how Christ treats us, the church, since we are part of his body. And this is why a man leaves father and mother and cherishes his wife. No longer two, they become “one flesh.” This is a huge mystery, and I don’t pretend to understand it all. What is clearest to me is the way Christ treats the church. And this provides a good picture of how each husband is to treat his wife, loving himself in loving her, and how each wife is to honor her husband.”
Ephesians‬ 5:21-33‬ MSG‬‬
http://bible.com/97/eph.5.21-33.msg

“Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of his body. “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”
Ephesians‬ 5:21-33‬ NIV‬‬
http://bible.com/111/eph.5.21-33.niv

“submitting to one another in the fear of God.
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”
Ephesians‬ 5:22-33‬ NKJV‬‬
http://bible.com/114/eph.5.22-33.nkjv
 

changfeng

Junior Member
Jul 29, 2017
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so great and wonderful! wish there are more couples and more family living like that according to god's words.so beautiful!
 

Rosyshine

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Feb 26, 2017
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I agree! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. :)