What I want in a husband

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marielleloves

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Mar 30, 2017
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The most important thing I want is for my husband to be a believer in god and admit to his mistakes (saying sorry). I want him to be compassionate, kind, empathetic, understanding, sensitive, slow to anger, smart, and strong. I want to find him attractive enough to where I want to make love with him but not have sex be the main thing in our relationship. I want to go to church with him and have him enjoy it as much as me. He doesn't have to be perfect, because nobody is anyway, but I want him to know that since we're all sinners and understand that he did, and will make mistakes. "If we say we are without sin, the truth isn't in us." -1 John 1:8. I want him to love me so much and understand me completely. I want him to know my flaws and strengths but still loves me inspite of that. I don't want him to use my flaws against me in an argument or say mean things to me. I don't ever want to cry because of him. I want him to surprise me and do cute little romantic things, even if it's a flower with a simple note saying I love you. I want to go on adventures with him. I want him to build me up and be there for me in times of struggle. I want him to never put me in a situation where I'm heavily debating if I want to leave him or not. I want him to be so loyal to me and to god. I want him to make me feel so beautiful even when I look my worst. I never want to feel unloved by him. I want him to motivate me and be there for me as I would for him. I want him to wipe the tears off my face when I'm being sensitive. I want him to hold me in his arms at night and kiss my forehead and make me feel loved each night. I want him to treat me like I'm delicate and fragile (because I am lol) like crystal glass, a diamond or a rose. I want him to feel my feelings. I want him to love and help people. I want him to remember the little things about me. I want him to love me fully, not in pieces. I want him to give himself fully to me. "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." -Ephesians 5:25. I want him to be a great example of a godly relationship. I want him to be the reason I waited so long for a love like this. I want him to be the reason I never settled in the past.