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Ok this is really messed up and I know it is. I just don't know what to do to fix it!
I left an abusive marriage a few years ago. After a few months I started dating a man I've know for years. He and his wife had fought the whole time I've known them and she belittled him and emotional beat him down in front of people. Anyways after dating nearly a year he dumped me and went back to the abusive woman he was in the process of divorcing. Shortly after that I found out that the man that I was dating that "couldn't have kids" had gotten me pregnant. I told him about the baby and he insisted on trying to still rekindle his marriage. Fast forward to know. The baby is 4 months old and 2 months ago he came to me and said the marriage isn't working. She hates him because of the baby and he is going to end the marriage to raise our son together. Now since the baby was conceived we both have rededicated our lives back to Christ. The man knows I still love him dearly but he keeps being wishy washy because he can't figure out what is the right thing to do! I'm so frustrated and so tired of my hopes being brought up to have him chrush them again. I love him so much and I want a good life for our son!
Advice please?
Do you think it's wrong for him to leave a loveless marriage to be with his son and a woman that loves him?
I left an abusive marriage a few years ago. After a few months I started dating a man I've know for years. He and his wife had fought the whole time I've known them and she belittled him and emotional beat him down in front of people. Anyways after dating nearly a year he dumped me and went back to the abusive woman he was in the process of divorcing. Shortly after that I found out that the man that I was dating that "couldn't have kids" had gotten me pregnant. I told him about the baby and he insisted on trying to still rekindle his marriage. Fast forward to know. The baby is 4 months old and 2 months ago he came to me and said the marriage isn't working. She hates him because of the baby and he is going to end the marriage to raise our son together. Now since the baby was conceived we both have rededicated our lives back to Christ. The man knows I still love him dearly but he keeps being wishy washy because he can't figure out what is the right thing to do! I'm so frustrated and so tired of my hopes being brought up to have him chrush them again. I love him so much and I want a good life for our son!
Advice please?
Do you think it's wrong for him to leave a loveless marriage to be with his son and a woman that loves him?