Wife wants divorce

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axp55

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Thanks this is not good I am talking to some girl we talk for hours last night and we are supposed to go out this weekend. I have to move on that what my wife did
 
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axp55

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#82
The girl came up to hospital we talked for a while
 
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axp55

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#83
She seems very nice and gave me a kiss on the head
 
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Ariel82

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Jeremy I don't think it's wrong to pray for your marriage.

You still love her and if you truly love her you will want her to be happy and find joy and peace. This may or may not be with you. Especially if you did something that might land you in jail.

You sound repentant. Pray to God for answers of how to right whatever wrong you have committed. Take whatever punishment the law deems necessary.

When I am troubled, I spend hours reading my Bible and praying until I feel God's peace in my heart.

More often than not I find answers there.

Dear Lord we do not know all that is happening in Jeremy's life, but we know he is hurting and seeking You. Lord help him be the man you meant him to be. Help him grow to be a good father to his children and heal the rift between him and his wife for they will always share the bond of creating together two beautiful children. Jesus hear our prayers and send your love and wisdom. Amen
 
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axp55

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Hi everyone this is Jessica John new girl he got out of hospital last night and I was calling him to make sure he was already and he did not answer so I wanted over there he was on the floor in a pool of blood he told me his ex boyfriend came over to fight and he try to get to the phone but he could not he was laying there thinking of his ex pray for him he is in bad shape but will be ok
 

blue_ladybug

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Hi everyone this is Jessica John new girl he got out of hospital last night and I was calling him to make sure he was already and he did not answer so I wanted over there he was on the floor in a pool of blood he told me his ex boyfriend came over to fight and he try to get to the phone but he could not he was laying there thinking of his ex pray for him he is in bad shape but will be ok

Okay, firstly, this is another person's thread, so you need to start your own, axp. Second, to this girlfriend, you are a rebound for him. You're NOT what he needs right now, to bounce from ex-wife to woman that he doesn't even know. Axp, this is not the way to get over your wife.


Also if youre in the hospital, how is it you have access to your computer or whatever device? Most hospitals don't allow them. :confused:
 
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axp55

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#87
Well his ex wife broke up with that guy and call his cell he does not want back I do not think I told her
 

blue_ladybug

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Well his ex wife broke up with that guy and call his cell he does not want back I do not think I told her
axp, you need to make a thread of your own and stop hijacking this one. Okay? Go make one of your own. It's not fair to the OP of this thread, to keep derailing it.
 
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axp55

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This is girlfriend how do I make a new one
 
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Ariel82

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Go to forum..family.,start new thread.
 
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jeremylee83

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OP here; lady blue, I just want to thank you for thread on suicide. It really helped me to know I'm not the only one going through these thoughts that have been entering my head.

I'm comforted by the fact that God has already forgiven what I did, I just wish my mistakes hadn't hurt the people that I've hurt (wife and kids.) None of them deserve what they're going through because of me. I've apologized numerous times to my wife. I didn't have a physical affair, but my wife is justified in seeking the divorce, so I know I can't expect her to take me back. I just have a ton of guilt for hurting her. I guess that's just something I have to deal with as a consequence for my actions.
 

blue_ladybug

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OP here; lady blue, I just want to thank you for thread on suicide. It really helped me to know I'm not the only one going through these thoughts that have been entering my head.

I'm comforted by the fact that God has already forgiven what I did, I just wish my mistakes hadn't hurt the people that I've hurt (wife and kids.) None of them deserve what they're going through because of me. I've apologized numerous times to my wife. I didn't have a physical affair, but my wife is justified in seeking the divorce, so I know I can't expect her to take me back. I just have a ton of guilt for hurting her. I guess that's just something I have to deal with as a consequence for my actions.

You're welcome. I'm glad my thread helped you. :) Everyone makes mistakes, but you can't go on holding onto this guilt. Turn it over to God and leave it there..
 
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jeremylee83

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I'm trying to let go of the guilt, but what I did was so bad, it's hard to put it behind me. Plus there's still an active police investigation on me that I'm clueless about. It could take years. I'm just trying to deal with the fact that this will be hanging over my head for years and years. I know it's a consequence of my actions, but it's still messing with my head.
 
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James48

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Jeremy. In short I know how you feel.Right now.Going through seperation/divorce . Except my wife will not see or talk to me. Not since th day of the night she left me and took our 4 children. It has been more than ayear and a half.EverEveryday I think of and pray for her and our family.Wanting to die with out her and our children.
 
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James48

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Messing with my head also.