My husband may be leaving me soon

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Callie93

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My husband is an unbeliever and has given us 6 days to decide on if we should stay together . I'm going insane. I can't eat, sleep or function . I do not have a shopper group here and I'm in church .
 
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Sorry to about your marriage issues. Do you mind saying what the problem is exactly so people can offer possible solutions
 

PennEd

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My husband is an unbeliever and has given us 6 days to decide on if we should stay together . I'm going insane. I can't eat, sleep or function . I do not have a shopper group here and I'm in church .
Dear Heavenly Father. Please help Your daughter with the problems in her marriage. Let Your gentle, mighty Hand be upon her, and this whole situation. Give her an unwavering joy in the knowledge of You, and let her trust that You have it in Your control.

Use her, and anyone else, to bring her husband to Your Son. In Jesus sweet Name I pray.
 

blue_ladybug

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Shopper group? :confused: I think you mean SUPPORT group.. :)
 

Demi777

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I am not trying to pull u down but he is allowed to leave
1 cor 7:15
But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

eitherway sis have peace with God.
 
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Callie93

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I know this. We have a 10 month old child together . It isn't that simple
 
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Callie93

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My husband is an unbeliever he does not wish for me to contradict my beliefs but wishes me to believe and do them . I haven't been respectful of his beliefs and he has only been a roommate to our family .
 
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As soon as someone issues us an ultimatum, one of the first emotions is FEAR and some of the first thoughts are, Now what am I supposed to do? What will happen to our family? How can I support my child and myself? Is it something I said or did? Why is this happening to us? I myself divorced after 12 yrs. of marriage. Because of all these thoughts and emotions and high anxiety our thoughts and emotions become scrambled and we desperately try to cling on to anyone and anything to save us from what we think is drowning. If your husband wants to leave, perhaps it is the best solution, not necessarily a divorce just a temporary separation. For both of you to have time to think and actually see your options and then to devise a plan for your life and your daughter's.

A wise woman once told me, The Spirit of God will not lead you, where the Grace of God cannot keep you! Just know that you are precious to God and He will see you through this situation stronger and better than before. We don't necessarily need to understand what this situation is all about or why it happened, we are to just walk through the situation in front of us and once we get to the other side is when the purpose and understanding are revealed to us!
 
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NewWine

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As soon as someone issues us an ultimatum, one of the first emotions is FEAR and some of the first thoughts are, Now what am I supposed to do? What will happen to our family? How can I support my child and myself? Is it something I said or did? Why is this happening to us? I myself divorced after 12 yrs. of marriage. Because of all these thoughts and emotions and high anxiety our thoughts and emotions become scrambled and we desperately try to cling on to anyone and anything to save us from what we think is drowning. If your husband wants to leave, perhaps it is the best solution, not necessarily a divorce just a temporary separation. For both of you to have time to think and actually see your options and then to devise a plan for your life and your daughter's.

A wise woman once told me, The Spirit of God will not lead you, where the Grace of God cannot keep you! Just know that you are precious to God and He will see you through this situation stronger and better than before. We don't necessarily need to understand what this situation is all about or why it happened, we are to just walk through the situation in front of us and once we get to the other side is when the purpose and understanding are revealed to us!

This is good advice. We don't know what tomorrow holds, so worrying about serves no purpose other than to harm us (wrinkles, ulcers, heart problems, sleep depravity, nutritional issues from lack of eating or from overeating...etc.)

You can't control your husband's wishes and desires, you can only pray for him/your marriage and express your desires. What he does with this information is up to him. It's one of the hardest things a wife can do....to let go and "let God"....but it truly works for your best interest.