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Hey everyone,
My parents have been at conflict with each other since before I was born. My younger brother and I were shielded from this arguing until we were around 6/7 years old. After that it we became almost weapons, drawn into the arguments also.
So many factors have come into play during the conflict and now I live with my Dad, while my younger brother lives with my Mum (and also his girlfriend). However they are not divorced.
The household has been a Christian one and I've been brought up to love God. Since separating houses (which has happened in the past already) my Dad wanted the family to be together again and tried to work things out. Though things are difficult for him.
My Mum seems to give hardly any attention to my Dad, always more concerned with my brother and his girlfriend. In addition to this my brother's girlfriend does not display Christian qualities, meaning my Dad is shut down when he tries to bring God into the situation.
So me and my Dad have been in some sort of limbo since the separation. My Mum clearly doesn't love my Dad how she should and he's tried so hard to make things work.
I'm not sure how long things will carry on, but one thing that's bugging me is will my Dad be able to move on and find someone else after it's over? When the subject of divorce comes up my Mum always says that it would be committing adultery. Though surely my Dad can't go on the way he is?
I'd just like some advice on the situation if possible. The whole thing puts extra stress on me when I need to be focusing on doing well in education. Even then the idea of leaving my Dad behind troubles me.
Thanks for any replies and support.
My parents have been at conflict with each other since before I was born. My younger brother and I were shielded from this arguing until we were around 6/7 years old. After that it we became almost weapons, drawn into the arguments also.
So many factors have come into play during the conflict and now I live with my Dad, while my younger brother lives with my Mum (and also his girlfriend). However they are not divorced.
The household has been a Christian one and I've been brought up to love God. Since separating houses (which has happened in the past already) my Dad wanted the family to be together again and tried to work things out. Though things are difficult for him.
My Mum seems to give hardly any attention to my Dad, always more concerned with my brother and his girlfriend. In addition to this my brother's girlfriend does not display Christian qualities, meaning my Dad is shut down when he tries to bring God into the situation.
So me and my Dad have been in some sort of limbo since the separation. My Mum clearly doesn't love my Dad how she should and he's tried so hard to make things work.
I'm not sure how long things will carry on, but one thing that's bugging me is will my Dad be able to move on and find someone else after it's over? When the subject of divorce comes up my Mum always says that it would be committing adultery. Though surely my Dad can't go on the way he is?
I'd just like some advice on the situation if possible. The whole thing puts extra stress on me when I need to be focusing on doing well in education. Even then the idea of leaving my Dad behind troubles me.
Thanks for any replies and support.