Obviously, but your first reply left me leaving thinking what the heck? All that on such a vague post..If I were that pastor I would most certainly offer to step down until I got my stuff sorted out but as you say it's probably a long running issue in his heart to get to that point, I wonder why he never felt to seek help from others? (If he didn't) In some cases all can be equally blamed if we don't nurture an environment where you can feel safe to find help without judgement and shame.
Perhaps our views are shaped by experience? I know of a pastor who committed adultery with someone from the church, he was judged and kicked out but since then he has repented and been restored 10 fold, even more! All I have to say is that church has missed out, actually it's no longer running any more.
Some people expect the pastor to walk through everyone's issues with them but as soon as the pastor slips up...watch out!
Breno, I know you're a nice Christian guy.
I don't question that at all.
But adultery isn't a "slip".
It's a very serious thing.
The New Testament gives CHARACTER QUALIFICATIONS for being the LEADER of the flock.
The pastor is held, by God, to very high standards.
It's all very serious.
When a pastor fails in his morals, in some egregious way, he is actually DISQUALIFYING HIMSELF.
It's all in 1 Timothy, 2 Timothy, and Titus.
It's all right in the bible.
A pastor should be forgiven, and loved, and shown mercy,
but if he's done something bad enough to disqualify himself from ministry...
that's very sad, but it's what he has to live with.