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My husband and I separated in march of this year In all reality i cant tell you why things just got tough and being a young confused person i left instead of trying to fix the problem after about 3 weeks of being separated he asked me to come back home so i did after being home for 3 days the weekend came around and he had been going out every weekend prior so didnt see why he couldnt do the single thing that weekend after a night out doing only god knows what he told me the next day he didnt love me and never did he wanted a divorce so i begged and pleaded and he was dead set on his decision a few days later i was with some friends when i got a phone call from a close family friend that is like family himself saying he needed to tell me something but didnt know how said he couldnt hold it in any longer that my husband had been going to his home for about a month picking up his 18 year old baby cousin and keeping her out till all hours of the night he denyed it and denyed it till i seen him with her for myself he had an on going emotionally and physically involved relationship with this girl and after finding out i filed for divorce it was the hardest thing i ever had to do in my whole life i love that man with all i have he is the father of my three children and has been the only man i have committed my life to since the age 15 after weeks of going through court and the long drawn out divorce he starts telling me he misses his family and things like that after several lunches and meetings he asked me to move back in with him i took it as we where finally working things out till i receive a text 2 days after i move back in that said you do realize we are not together you can have the babys room and help with the bills i was completely heart broken i have been living here almost a month now and we have slept in the same bed together almost every night and i have gone above and beyond for this man to prove i have become a better woman but after him leaving his phone unlocked and a text pulled up old habits die hard i had to look he is still telling the same girl he had the relationship with that he loves and misses her and vise versa but he is telling me he still wants to go through with the divorce and work on our friendship and if we decide to renew our vows thats what we will do i cant take it i feel like im being used i dunno what do if i should stand by my husband and fight for him or just walk away i pray every night for the lord to give me guidance but i am completely lost please help