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Been happily married for over 20 yrs, my husband has never been the romantic type and I have accepted that. He is a wonderful man, father and friend. I never hear how wonderful or beautiful Iam unless we are physically together, and that is becoming less often. The other night in being physical he said something to me that hurt my feeling and I kept correcting him that no I wasn't what he was calling me.I started to cry and stopped, and he stopped and his comment was "you took it the wrong way, and well,that ruined the moment. Didn't talk to me even the next day when I confronted him he said he didn't want to talk. Went all day in silence, that was very distant for me . when I did bring it up again, he made it sound like it was my fault and that after so many yrs being married like he would really mean something like that. He could care less on how hurtful it was to me. I have noticed lately how angry he gets over little things and swears. It all very harsh to the ears, and when he does swears. it goes on and on. We hardly ever argue and we are Christians, but lately I feel he isn't living up to that name. My 2 older daughters have boyfriends and he is always talking to them about how their boyfriends aren't Christians and you need to be careful and stuff, yet, he is not being a true Christian when he gets into this little fits and not wanting to talk with me . After so many yrs is this a normal stage, he is 11 yrs older than me. Can he be seeing things different now after all these yr? I'm just a little confused, and keep playing everything in my mind. I don't really have anyone I trust to talk with this about, and thought maybe a stranger could give me a thought or two to help me out. I pray to not feel this way, but I feel so distant from my husband right now after he has hurt me with his words, especially since it doesn't seem to bother him. Anyone have words for me or thoughts.