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I have been worried about my brother for a while. But after our mother passed away, he just seems to get worse with time.
Before our mother passed away, he was pretty much estranged and was only in limited contact with our mother and me. To be honest, he has done a lot of wrongs to the family, so they don’t really appreciate having him around. So no one wants anything to do with him for most part.
He spent most of his adult life somehow just wanders all over the world doing various jobs and manages to make surprisingly decent living at it.
Of few times he’d come back to see our mother and me, he’d always be full of joy and stories. He seems to have so much happiness, hopes, and dreams.
Four years ago, our mother passed away. Ever since then my brother have just got much worse. In fact I’m starting to become really uncomfortable with him but at the same time I feel really sad for him.
Before our mother passed away, he was quite friendly, wants the best for others, worry about others and was a generally good person.
Now every time I’m around him, he just seems to have absolutely no compassion left in him. He no longer cares about others or tries to help anyone unless there’s something in it for him. He no longer put feeling or emotion into anything either. He just says whatever is most practical even if it isn’t what most people would dream of doing.
He even turned on family’s friend that he used to be closed to. He has thrown some of close friends under the bus for his own advantage. He also decides to leave few family members out in cold when they really need him.
I just tried to talk to him about this issue. He ended up says no body want him and he have nothing to lose, so he just live from adrenaline rush to the next one and don’t care much for anything else.
There’s just so much going on but this is just some of the big issue going on. I’m getting so scared and frustrated. I used to look up at him as someone I can depend on and know will be there. He was asked to fix things he have done wrong to the family and gave many chance. He walks away from them all. He seems to be a very different person from what I used to now and it really hurt me.
Before our mother passed away, he was pretty much estranged and was only in limited contact with our mother and me. To be honest, he has done a lot of wrongs to the family, so they don’t really appreciate having him around. So no one wants anything to do with him for most part.
He spent most of his adult life somehow just wanders all over the world doing various jobs and manages to make surprisingly decent living at it.
Of few times he’d come back to see our mother and me, he’d always be full of joy and stories. He seems to have so much happiness, hopes, and dreams.
Four years ago, our mother passed away. Ever since then my brother have just got much worse. In fact I’m starting to become really uncomfortable with him but at the same time I feel really sad for him.
Before our mother passed away, he was quite friendly, wants the best for others, worry about others and was a generally good person.
Now every time I’m around him, he just seems to have absolutely no compassion left in him. He no longer cares about others or tries to help anyone unless there’s something in it for him. He no longer put feeling or emotion into anything either. He just says whatever is most practical even if it isn’t what most people would dream of doing.
He even turned on family’s friend that he used to be closed to. He has thrown some of close friends under the bus for his own advantage. He also decides to leave few family members out in cold when they really need him.
I just tried to talk to him about this issue. He ended up says no body want him and he have nothing to lose, so he just live from adrenaline rush to the next one and don’t care much for anything else.
There’s just so much going on but this is just some of the big issue going on. I’m getting so scared and frustrated. I used to look up at him as someone I can depend on and know will be there. He was asked to fix things he have done wrong to the family and gave many chance. He walks away from them all. He seems to be a very different person from what I used to now and it really hurt me.