I listen to Paul Washer, he is one of my favorite preachers. I used to hate listening to him, but I was drawn to him as every time I listened to a sermon I was confronted with the truth of my sin and my actions. His preaching is all about God is his glory, not man and how to improve your life based on biblical principles.
I was in fact living in a flat with my girlfriend at the time, and I ended up explaining to her that I was going to sleep on the couch, and that we shouldn't even be living together let alone sleeping in the same bed. We ended up living in separate places, and she has come to Christ, and loves God and his word. We are to marry soon, and only then will we be moving in together again.
So it was a great help listening to Paul Washer, and I still do. I think for some people who don't like him the following applies: ''The truth hurts.''
I just can't see how undiluted biblical truths are negative, it's positive. It's not about feeling good about yourself, it's about God!
Our eternites are at stake.