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My post addressed you the op and Christians in general. I only responded because the op is having a hard time in his life and I didn't think jumping to conclusions about why his wife deleted her Facebook account and portraying an assumption as fact was what the op needed to hear. I didn't mean to sound rude but as a said God is trying to teach us to walk by faith and not by sight and the truth is neither you or I know why his wife deleted her Facebook account. It might have been because she loves her husband so much she wanted to show him she was his alone. Because I'm not stating this as fact but I don't know too many females that would actually delete their Facebook account at all. I'll tell you one thing if I believed people over what God has spoken to, and about, me I would have been unnecessarily heart broken along time ago. And if I was the op I would forgive someone that I shared part of my life with if she did cheat and still wanted to remain with the op. Love isn't jealous and it bares all things.
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Honestly I would just let it go. I think you are over thinking the matter. They really all might have just been friends along time ago. I went to a provide high school and it was hard for me to understand that for instance people in high school associated with the opposite sex much more frequently therefore it is less of a big deal to have companions on Facebook and such. I'm just saying you loved your wife enough to, at one point on your life, devote your whole life to her. I would not let a feeling of pride or whatever it is that is bothering you keep you from giving her the benefit of the doubt. However, like I said I really don't know the situation your facing.
I can not advice you on what to do. that is between you and God. My ex changed all his pass words. He also had more women then men on his FB. I only had men that was family, and 2 very old friends. I asked my ex if ok before allowing them and he had my password. I did discover my ex was in a 6 month affair. Even after being caught he denied. Folks to day do not guard their hearts. Nor their marriages. I can not say if she did or did not stray. Only god can answer you that. The truth will come to light. Just like you I got to many different response from family or close friends. I finally took it to the Lord out in the wilderness. The Lord took away my anger and dulled the pain. ( not over night mind you) it was a steady process. Our Father created this universe, he can help you with this. My prayers go out to you and your family.