I couldn't understand a word this guy on YouTube said.
I have been fascinated with the Jewish lifestyle before they became so modernized. I've been sneered at on cc when I have said so, but their Friday nights sound so wonderful to me, I wish the church didn't consider everything they do off limits!
It starts with lighting candles as a symbol of two blessings. One candle for the blessing of the Sabbath, and one to bless the family and all the people there. They have a certain blessing, like we have the Lord's Prayer, so at sunset many households are joined in the same words to the Lord. It is a rule that these can't be said without meaning them. Then the family sits down to eat, but they are to be sure every Jew has a family place to eat on Friday night, so people traveling, people away at school, are there, so usually there is extra people. This dinner has the best foods of the week. Almost always there is singing, and each is conscious of God in their talk so making "ain't it awful" talk isn't encouraged at all. Sometime during the meal the men take time to thank and honor the women, usually including Proverbs 31. It is such an important meal to them that men who can, take time to help the women prepare, they are always vitally interested in this meal. It always lasts a long time.